Chapter 56 May 5th You Choose Me, I Choose You——Record of He Tao, the Second National Moral Model
On September 20, 2009, the autumn night was brightly lit.Beijing's Great Hall of the People is grandly holding the 2nd National Moral Model Awards Gala. At this time, a girl wearing glasses, quiet and weak, who at first glance looks very ordinary, walks to the podium.For more than 6 years, she has carefully taken care of her lover who was severely damaged in the cervical spine and paralyzed in the lower body. She has given birth to children and served the elderly; Broad shoulders support a difficult home, and she will never leave it; she interprets love and responsibility with actions, and composes a song of love in the new era that moves the land of China. Xihekou Township, Yu'an District, Lu'an City, Anhui Province He Tao, a nurse at the hospital.
July 31, 1984, Putuo District, Shanghai.Perhaps this day is the happiest day in the life of He Yaoming and his wife, because their baby daughter He Tao was born on this day.He Yaoming is a salesperson for a company in Shanghai, and his wife is a kindergarten teacher in Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province.As long as Xiao He Tao can remember, the couple have often quarreled over some family trivial matters. This kind of continuous quarrel finally led to their divorce when Xiao He Tao was 12 years old.Little He Tao had to follow his mother to finish elementary school and junior high school in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu. In September 1999, Xiao Hetao applied for the Nursing Department of the Health School Affiliated to Shanghai Second Medical University according to his ideal.The four years of life in technical secondary school will soon come to an end, and as graduation approaches, He Tao, like all her classmates, is faced with the choice of being confused before stepping into the society...
On the evening of March 22, 2004, the moon was bright and the stars were sparse, in a mid-range hotel in Shanghai.He Tao is having dinner with his classmates and colleagues from the internship unit.During the dinner, a sunny, handsome, eloquent and humorous boy caught He Tao's attention.The boy's name is Hou Can, born in November 1983, from Lu'an City, Anhui Province. After graduating from high school, he went to Shanghai to pursue his dream and worked as an apprentice in a restaurant to learn western cooking.At this time, Hou Can was also attracted by this lively, cheerful and gentle Shanghai girl.He thought: "Is it really like what the Buddha said: Looking back five hundred times in the previous life can be exchanged for passing by in this life. Then, how many times I have accumulated looking back in my previous life in exchange for being with her?" Acquaintance?" The banquet was about to end, Hou Can plucked up the courage to walk up to He Tao, and said quietly: "I am not talented, can I be honored to get Miss He's contact information?" The number was given to him.That night, both of them lost sleep.
Early the next morning, Hou Can couldn't wait to send a text message to He Tao: "It's a buffet party in the daytime, and a firework party in the evening. We eat delicious food and play unlimited happiness. If you date me, these It's all free, how about it, beautiful princess, can I have a date with you tonight?" After receiving the text message, He Tao felt as if he had eaten honey, sweet from head to toe, and gladly accepted Hou Can's date.
Who would believe that this date between the two young people will completely change each other's future life trajectories.
In June 2004, He Tao was lucky enough to find a job as a nurse in Shanghai Pudong New Area Infectious Disease Hospital.Hou Can also works in a restaurant.Despite the differences in regions and identities, they fell in love without hesitation.When He Tao's mother learned that her daughter fell in love with a young migrant worker from the depths of the mountains, she resolutely opposed it and tried her best to prevent the two from interacting.But at an age when love is overwhelming, no one can stop the two fiery hearts from getting closer.
He Tao clearly remembered that on a weekend in that winter, she and Hou Can had an appointment to go shopping. After He Tao's mother found out, she confiscated her mobile phone, and she and her mother started arguing loudly in order to stop her from going shopping. On a date with Hou Can, He Tao's mother simply threw He Tao's coat into the sink and locked her at home.He Tao knows very well that since his parents divorced, his mother has dragged him up with shit and urine. Now that he is working, not only did he not repay her, but he even quarreled with her, feeling guilty.But when she thought that her beloved was anxiously waiting for her, she didn't have time to think about it, so she quickly ran to the balcony on the second floor, flipped from the balcony to the balcony of the neighbor's house on the first floor, and then ran towards the meeting place.When Hou Can saw that his beloved was wearing thin clothes and his face was covered with tears, the two young people hugged each other tightly...
The sky is not old, love is inevitable.Heart like dual screen, there Chien knot
In March 2005, He Tao moved into Hou Can's rented hut without telling his mother.He Tao's mother was trembling with anger when she learned about it. In order to make her daughter change her mind, she still persuaded her to go home earnestly and even pleadingly, but He Tao still stubbornly insisted that if she did not accept Hou Can, she would not return. At home, my mother couldn't help it, and left sadly crying.
He Tao and Hou Can live together happily and romantically, looking forward to a better life in the future.Just when the two young people were suffering and comforted by love, and were actively preparing to return to the countryside of Lu'an, West Anhui Province for their wedding at the end of the year, an unexpected disaster suddenly befell the couple in love.At this time, happiness is like a transparent and smooth glass cup, which is instantly shattered.
On October 26, 2005, they met to try on wedding dresses the next morning.However, on this night, something unexpected happened and Hou Can did not come back.It wasn't until after eight o'clock the next morning that He Tao suddenly received a call from a stranger, telling her that Hou Can was in a car accident last night and was being rescued at Shanghai Shuguang Hospital. She was suddenly stunned.
He Tao rushed to the hospital in a hurry. When she saw her beloved lying on the hospital bed covered in bandages and his face was blue, she was heartbroken. She called her lover's name over and over again, but all she got was a cold expression. .When she learned from the doctor that Hou Can's third and fourth cervical vertebrae had been hit and fractured, and there was fluid in the brain, she needed immediate surgery. After the surgery, she was likely to become a vegetative state, and if the situation was optimistic, she would be paralyzed from the neck down At that time, like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, she passed out all of a sudden.When she woke up, she found herself lying on the hospital bed. The doctor told her that she was more than two months pregnant. After learning the news, she was a little at a loss.
During Hou Can's hospitalization, He Tao endured his grief and stood by his side, leaning over to talk to Hou Can every day.Under He Tao's sincere call and careful care, Hou Can gradually regained consciousness and came to life.When he learned that he would be permanently paralyzed, he began a hunger strike, refusing treatment.He Tao's heart was about to break, "What should I do? Pregnant before marriage, Hou Can is paralyzed, what should I do after the child is born?" She thought painfully.But then I thought about it again, maybe the child in my belly is Hou Can's only hope for survival.
When he learned that he already had a child, it was no longer a white lie, Hou Can cried, and the people in the ward who cried so much also shed tears along with him.After a painful ideological struggle, Hou Can made a decisive decision-to give freedom to his beloved.After all, she is still so young and beautiful; after all, her journey in life is still so long; after all, she still has the right to pursue happiness.It is definitely not like this now, with an elderly father, a mother suffering from sequelae of cerebral hemorrhage, and myself who doesn't know when I will be able to stand up.Then, he calmly and painfully said to He Tao: "Tao, I know you love me, but I can't drag you down, knock out the child in my stomach, and leave me quickly! This way I will feel better "He Tao replied very firmly: "No, never, I will never leave you. From now on, my baby and I will be your crutches for the rest of my life!" Hou Can looked at He Tao with distress. The little girl seemed to grow up overnight.Hou Can cried and held He Tao's hand tightly.
Outside the window, the autumn moon was also touched and looked extraordinarily bright.Hou Can began to be willing to cooperate with the doctor for treatment.According to the development of Hou Can's condition, he must undergo surgery immediately.Unexpectedly, on the second day after the operation, Hou Can started to have a high fever, and the hospital issued five critical illness notices. The doctor told He Tao that if the high fever persists, he must be mentally prepared.He Tao prayed silently over and over again in his heart.Perhaps her pleading moved the heavens, and Hou Can's high fever finally subsided.Next, Hou Can needs to be transferred to the rehabilitation ward to continue treatment, but at this time, the treatment fee they paid is running out, and the rehabilitation treatment fee of up to 30,000 yuan a month makes He Tao dumbfounded.At this time, a worse news came from the hospital: the driver who caused the accident escaped from the hospital after waking up!In desperation, without telling Hou Can, she ran home and begged her mother for money to treat her beloved one.When the mother learned that Hou Can was in a car accident, she would be paralyzed for the rest of her life. When she thought that He Tao refused to listen to her dissuasion and insisted on falling in love with Hou Can, she couldn't imagine that this is the situation now. The more she thought about it, the more angry she became. In order to win back her daughter's heart , She suppressed the anger in her heart and persuaded: "Xiaotao, have you ever thought about it? Guarding a paralyzed patient means you have to be a widow for the rest of your life. His family is already poor, and the cost of treatment right now is a bottomless pit. It's still a long time, and you can't bear it at all. If you leave him now, I will give him 20,000 yuan to treat him immediately. If you don't obey, I will not give you a penny, and you will never enter this The door..."
It was raining heavily outside, and He Tao silently left his mother with tears in his eyes.In the raindrops, she dialed the phone numbers of her usual close classmates and friends.Unexpectedly, after they learned about the situation, not only did they not borrow money, but they also persuaded her to leave Hou Can, saying that the treatment of paralyzed patients is a bottomless pit, and his family is so poor. Take this opportunity to leave him now...
He Tao stood alone in the rain with tears in his eyes, shouting in his heart: "Hou Can, we will never leave!".With firm choices, He Tao answered the simple and profound questions in life: What is love?Love can pass through the secular world, love is a lifelong commitment, and it is the mutual trust of life.
Kindness is the beautiful starry sky; kindness is the ocean of enthusiasm; kindness is the warm sun in winter.Not long after, the hospital issued the first reminder to He Tao. When they were at a loss, the landlord Aunt Wang Huiying not only waived their rent, but also actively mobilized the neighbors in the community to raise donations for them. , because Hou Can was warm and cheerful on weekdays, and his popularity was very good. The neighbors donated generously after hearing about the two of them, and soon raised more than 10,000 yuan.It was this life-saving money that brought Hou Can back from death.
He Tao couldn't afford to hire a nurse, so he quit his job as a nurse in the hospital with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan to take care of Hou Can.Every day, she carefully scrubs, turns over, and massages Hou Can, and she never misses any boring steps.Under her careful care, Hou Can's condition has finally improved greatly. He can lift his hands and feel sensation in his legs.The doctor said to He Tao with emotion: "The power of love is too great! Hou Can's recovery to this level in such a short period of time is considered a recovery miracle in the history of medicine!"
This is an unusual love story: it belongs to two youths in their prime, but they are frequently hit by suffering; it has spiritual sweetness and warmth, but it cannot get rid of material difficulties; Can create the miracle of life.
"Ask the world, what is love, and teach you the promise of life and death." An eternal swan song!This sentence is extremely emotional, and I feel the desolation of dying for love.Unfortunately, who will guarantee that their love will last forever?Who can guarantee that the people who fell in love at the beginning will really hold their hands and grow old with them?Who will guarantee that the one who stays with him until he grows old must be his lover?Perhaps because of too many regrets and too much helplessness, "directly teach life and death to promise each other" has become the ideal love for many people.
On December 31, 2005, He Tao and Hou Can, who could no longer afford the rehabilitation medical expenses, decided to return to their hometown for conservative treatment.That night, Hou Can asked He Tao to help him up and take a last look at Shanghai.Outside the window, thousands of lights seem to be telling their love story.
On the first day of the new year, they set off. After more than ten hours of bumpy driving, the car finally drove into the cold and dark mountain village where Hou Can lived——Pihe Village, Xihekou Township, Yu'an District, Lu'an City.In the depths of the majestic Dabie Mountains, there is an inconspicuous dwelling.The road leading to it is wet and muddy after the rain, and walking over it will leave deep and shallow footprints.He Tao suddenly felt an inexplicable fear and unprecedented loneliness.
When He Tao opened the door of Hou Can's house, she was stunned by the sight—there was no decent furniture in the room; cracks and cobwebs were everywhere on the walls.It would not be an exaggeration to describe it with the term "family barren four walls".A neighbor quietly told He Tao another bad news. Hou Can’s mother learned that her son was paralyzed in a car accident and was paralyzed in the hospital due to a high blood pressure attack. This series of shocks made He Tao a little out of breath. .In order not to make Hou Can and the two old people sad, she pretended to be relaxed and said to Hou Can's father: "Dad, don't worry, everything will be fine with me." He overcame all the burdens in this broken family and became a veritable "pillar".
The next day, the neighbors and villagers heard that the injured Hou Can and her Shanghai girlfriend had returned, and enthusiastically brought charcoal fire and hot meals.
Seeing that the Spring Festival is coming.The simple and deserted village suddenly became lively. On New Year's Eve, Hou Can's father cruelly bought meat for 10 yuan, and even made some tofu to celebrate the New Year as a family.He Tao listened to the crackling firecrackers outside, thought of the bustling big Shanghai and her mother celebrating the New Year alone, and then looked at the dark mountain in front of the door, she couldn't help feeling a little sad and sad.
On the first day of the Lunar New Year, He Tao pushed Hou Can out to bask in the sun. When the villagers saw the girl from Greater Shanghai, they rushed to tell each other: "The Shanghai girl is back!" She will stay for a long time. Not only does she have to face the poverty of her family, but she also has to serve two paralyzed patients, not to mention that they are not officially married. Which young girl can endure this kind of suffering?
He Tao has never experienced the harsh life in the mountains.However, she had to adapt to the role change from a delicate girl to a peasant girl.So, every morning, she gets up before five o'clock, cooks breakfast, chops pig vegetables to feed the pigs, does laundry, and sweeps the floor.At first, even the simplest things seemed to her more difficult than reaching the sky.For example, I can't light the fire when cooking; I often burn my face with black ashes, and the rice is either burnt or raw; when I go to the river to wash clothes in the cold winter, my hands are as cold as carrots.What He Tao does non-stop every day is to take care of two paralyzed patients. She not only massages, feeds and turns Hou Can, but also takes care of her hemiplegic mother-in-law.The simple folks were deeply moved, and spontaneously organized a donation of more than 10,000 yuan to Hou Can.With this money, He Tao can take Hou Can to Lu'an People's Hospital for rehabilitation.Not to mention anything else, the hospitalization fee of more than 2,000 yuan is an astronomical figure for Hou Can's family.In order to save hospitalization fees, He Tao rented a simple private house at the corner of the hospital.Since then, He Tao, who has been pregnant for several months, dragged Hou Can, who was paralyzed in the scooter, with a big belly every morning, and walked step by step on the street leading to the hospital. Return to the rented small house to cook and do laundry.After a period of treatment, Hou Can's condition finally improved.After the family's spring tea came into the market, He Tao bought a wheelchair for Hou Can, and Hou Can's mood was as bright as the sun.
Love is like a ray of sunshine, and He Tao firmly bears the burden of life with his flexible shoulders, illuminating the difficult life warmly and brightly.Let us see the traditional virtues and excellent qualities of filial piety and loving relatives in the new generation of young people.She explained the true meaning of love with her hard work and dedication.
He Tao in the late pregnancy became more and more lethargic.One night, it was snowing heavily outside the house, and He Tao, who had to turn Hou Can over every two hours, fell asleep.Hou Can, who woke up in pain, began to scold He Tao who was beside him impatiently. "Go away, go back to Shanghai, I just realized now that you took care of me because you sympathized with me, but you've been bored for a long time!" He Tao, who was in the sensitive period of pregnancy, felt in his heart.He Tao didn't say a word, other pregnant women would give birth under the careful care of their families, but his hard work day after day, in the end, in exchange for such an ending.He Tao, who was full of grievances, couldn't bear it anymore, and rushed out of the house like crazy.It was already two o'clock in the morning.Manshan Feixue seemed to vent He Tao's inner grief. She thought of her mother who loves her; thought of her classmates and colleagues who get along day and night; thought of... Just when she was at a loss, she suddenly heard many people calling Her name, she looked along the shout, and in the middle of the mountain, she vaguely saw a fire dragon.It turned out that Hou Can felt deeply guilty when he saw He Tao rushing out of the door. When he came back to his senses, he hurriedly notified the neighbors, and a dozen villagers immediately got up from the bed, flashlights and pine lights, while Shouting "He Tao - He Tao", while looking for her all over the mountains and plains.When they found He Tao, who was shivering from the cold, some villagers wept distressedly.He Tao also cried, but it was no longer a kind of grievance, but a kind of firmness.
On May 25, 2006, when He Tao was in labor, Hou Can's sister borrowed money everywhere to send her to the delivery room.Due to dystocia, He Tao finally gave birth to a baby boy after more than ten hours of painful struggle.When the nurse in the delivery room took the baby out, Hou Can couldn't help crying.He Tao named his beloved son Hou Haoyi, one is to choose the homonym of the hard-won one, and the other is to hope that the child will have perseverance in the future life.
"It's not difficult to know what's going on, and you can only know the kindness of your parents when you raise a child." This popular folk slang expresses a profound philosophy.Simply put, only through the whole process of childbearing, feeding, and education can we experience the hardships of parents.At this time, He Tao thought of his beloved mother, and she wanted to tell her the good news.She dialed her mother's phone: "Mom, I'm Xiaotao, how are you? I gave birth to a son..." She still wanted to say something, but her mother, who hadn't contacted her for more than half a year, hung up the phone. He Tao was in a daze for a long time. After more than an hour, she received a text message from her mother. She was surprised and delighted, and quickly opened it. The text message was short but shocking: "I will I will send money to take care of my body." After receiving this text message, He Tao cried loudly under the blanket.isn't it?Since her parents divorced, my mother has been earning a living by herself - and who else understands her own mother's pain like her?
Within a few days, He Tao received 5,000 yuan from his mother from Shanghai at the post office.When she got the money, she didn't feel any joy in her heart, because it was her mother's hard-earned money for many years.In order to continue treating Hou Can, she saw a report on TV that a "cell transplantation" operation in Shandong Tai'an Hospital could help paralyzed patients stand up again. She was very excited, but the operation cost was as high as 40,000 yuan. Tao's mood fell to the bottom.
In order to raise the operation fee, she had to bite the bullet and take Hou Can back to Shanghai to borrow some money from her father.Unexpectedly, "it was raining all night when the house leaked, and the boat was late and hit the headwind." At that time, my father's business was not only in a downturn, but he also owed a large amount of foreign debt.
He Tao was unwilling to return home with nothing, so she rented a house with Hou Can.In order to balance earning living expenses and taking care of Hou Can, she chose to work as an evening cashier in a small supermarket.It happened to be summer, and the hut they rented was stuffy and shabby, with neither air-conditioning nor fans.Hou Can was covered with bed sores all over his body.Since she has no money to buy nutritional supplements, she can only buy a few dollars of disinfectant to smear.As a result, Hou Can's condition began to deteriorate again, and his temper was very violent.While working in a supermarket, because Hou Can was always in his heart, he was often absent-minded, and was fined by the boss for giving customers the wrong money.She thought of giving up, but when she thought of Hou Can and her beloved baby, she could only swallow her anger and persist.Fortunately, her father quickly transferred more than 20,000 yuan to them, and with the money borrowed by Hou Can's sister, she finally managed to raise enough surgery fees as she wished.
He Tao and Hou Can went through all kinds of troubles to come to Shandong Tai'an Hospital, which they thought would bring them hope and happiness.In order to save money, they only ate the cheapest steamed buns and pickled vegetables every day. In this way, the money in their pockets was quickly spent, but Hou Can's condition remained the same.After spending tens of thousands of yuan in vain and failing the painstaking efforts of her parents, He Tao blamed herself so much that she couldn't sleep at night and had no choice but to take Hou Can home with tears in her eyes. Before leaving, Hou Can held her He said with his hand: "Tao, you should go back to Shanghai. I will not be able to remember what you have paid for me in a few lifetimes. If you follow me, you will only suffer and suffer for the rest of your life..." "Shut up, stop talking such stupid things You know that I can’t leave you anymore, isn’t there a saying that goes, ‘I would like to be a lovebird in the sky, and I would like to be Lian Lizhi in the earth’? I beg you not to leave me, okay?”
On April 15, 2007, as evidenced by the green mountains and green waters and hundreds of villagers, the wedding of Hou Can and He Tao was officially held deep in the mountains, finally fulfilling He Tao's dream of being a bride.
After marriage, just when they felt that "the mountains and rivers are full of doubts and there is no way out", they did not expect that "the willows are dark and the flowers are bright in another village".The love story of this pair of "hard-fated" mandarin ducks spread like wildfire in Xihekou, and was quickly spread on the Internet after being reported by reporters from "West Wan Daily" and "Xin'an Evening News". In June 2007, after hearing their story, the "Family" column of Anhui TV Station held a grand and romantic garden-style wedding for them in Hefei, and more than 2,000 people watching the ceremony were moved.Then Shanghai Satellite TV's "Lightning Star Action" and Jiangsu's "Human World" also broadcast their stories one after another.After the program was broadcast, it had a wide range of repercussions in the society.
Love is like an echo in the mountains. Sincere love will infect everyone around you, and it will also get the response and help of the society.After reading their stories, many well-meaning people donated money and materials to show their love. Taiwanese singer Luo Zhongxu also donated 40,000 yuan to them.The most unforgettable thing for her is that after seeing their report, an old Chinese couple from Huainan Miner's Hospital in Anhui specifically found their home and stayed in their home for more than a week. They not only cooked and washed for He Tao's family Clothes, housework, hand in hand to He Tao for acupuncture, specifically taught a set of massage techniques for Hou Can's condition, and donated 1,000 yuan before leaving.
With the help of so many kind-hearted people, the difficult days of He Tao's family finally passed slowly, and life gradually became brighter: the child grew up healthily day by day, Hou Can's mother's health gradually improved, and the basic life was already able to take care of herself. Chan's body has also made great progress.
On July 1, 2007, the life of He Tao's family finally turned around.The leaders of the local government - Yu'an District and Xihekou Township learned about their situation and warmly extended a helping hand to them.Chen Xinming, secretary of the Yu'an District Party Committee, came to visit them at home and sent 5,000 yuan as condolences.In particular, when Secretary Chen learned that He Tao was a medical student and worked as a nurse in Shanghai, he took the initiative to coordinate and arranged for He Tao to work as a nurse in the Xihekou Township Health Center.In this way, it not only relieved the financial pressure of the whole family, but also took care of Hou Can and the children.
True love created a miracle in the history of high paraplegia rehabilitation, even doctors were surprised "this is the power of love"; He Tao got a perfect score in this love test, and her answer was: true love is priceless!
A new life is like a rising sun.Before 6 o'clock in the morning, He Tao had to get up, first to help Hou Can recover and exercise, and then to help him brush his teeth, wash his face, and feed him breakfast.When I got home from get off work at noon, I quickly and carefully helped Hou Can turn over, carried him into a wheelchair, and pushed him to the village to bask in the sun.Not only did she learn to do farm work: transplanting seedlings, cutting rice, planting vegetables, and picking tea, she even took care of all the housework for a large family.In the eyes of colleague Zhang Jing, He Tao is a quiet, optimistic and positive girl.When they first entered the hospital, no one knew about He Tao's family background. Until one day at noon, Zhang Jing and another colleague went to visit He Tao's home, and happened to meet He Tao feeding Hou Can. "I am so impressed. It takes at least 40 minutes for a meal. It is not something ordinary people can persist in doing this every day." Zhang Jing talked about her colleague, her eyes were red, "But no matter what is going on at home , she will always finish the work at hand before leaving. It's really admirable for such a small and thin girl to carry such a heavy burden on her body. "
The love of the post-80s is always misinterpreted as soap bubbles that cannot stand the test, but in the 25-year-old He Tao, we have truly seen the responsibilities to the family and society that a contemporary youth has the courage to undertake.The tenacity, forbearance, and willingness to contribute in her are the traditional virtues of Chinese women for thousands of years, and they are also the spiritual power to promote the development of the nation and the country.
The spring in the mountains is really beautiful!The willows spread out the branches of the yellow and green leaves, and they fluttered gently in the slight spring breeze, like groups of fairies in green dresses dancing.The peach tree sandwiched between the willows also bloomed bright flowers. The green willows and red flowers are fascinating!
One day in April 2008, He Tao had just returned home from get off work when he suddenly saw a very familiar figure at the head of the village, ah, isn't that his mother?He Tao ran to his mother quickly, and threw himself into her arms. The mother and daughter cried bitterly while holding their heads together.They haven't been in touch for several years.He Tao's mother didn't even dare to think about that remote mountain village, but today, she mustered up the courage to set foot on this land, just to see with her own eyes how her precious daughter's life is.The harsh environment in the mountains kept a mother awake at night.One night, while she was sleeping, Mother He couldn't bear it anymore, and whispered to He Tao, "Xiao Tao, come back to Shanghai with me, even if you find a job in Shanghai, you can send back the money you earn." , You can’t live in this ghostly place!” He Tao said unmoved: “Mom, I can’t leave Hou Can, this home, and the villagers here. Treat me as well as you treat me, Mom, don't worry!".The disappointed mother of He Tao knew that no matter how much she said, it would be useless.Early the next morning, she hurriedly packed her luggage, and before leaving, she repeatedly asked the Hou family to be more tolerant of their spoiled daughter.But how did she know that before she came to this small mountain village, He Tao had already learned all kinds of farm work and quickly transformed her identity into a real peasant woman.
This story moved us and shocked us even more.In the young He Tao, we have seen what it means to never leave, what it means to help each other, what it means to be in the same boat through thick and thin, and what it means to share weal and woe.In the young He Tao, what we see is not only a heavy love, but also a healthy outlook on life and values.
Meeting, falling in love, and staying together, the love story of He Tao and Hou Can has been eulogized everywhere. After being reported by many news media across the country, it has received widespread attention from all walks of life. In January 2010, she was elected as a deputy to the Lu'an City People's Congress.He Tao's various honors followed one after another, and she successively won the following honorary titles:
July 2004, "Shanghai March 8th Red Banner Bearer"
March 2007, "March 8 Red Banner Bearer in Anhui Province"
May 2007, "China's Good Man"
In March 2008, "The First Moral Model of Anhui Province"
September 2009, "The Second National Moral Model of Filial Piety and Love for the Elderly"
In February 2010, "Top Ten News Figures in Anhui Province", "Gujing Tribute Wine Heartbeat 2009 Anhui Annual News Figures"
In March 2010, "Top Ten Influential Figures in the Construction of Lu'an City", "Top Ten Nurses in Lu'an City"
On the scene of the "Heartbeat 2009 Anhui Annual News Figure" awards ceremony held by Anhui TV Station, I wrote down this speech to He Tao:
"From Snow White, who longed for love, to a daughter-in-law in a mountain village who knows her own joys and sorrows, the girl's dreamy clothes have been lost, and the pointer of life has undergone too many reversals. She mended difficulties with the perseverance she understands. Her story shows us: A drop of water can nourish a flower and make the world beautiful."
On January 21, 2010, at the awarding ceremony of the "2009 Top Ten News Figures in Anhui Province" held by Anhui Daily, He Tao always seemed calm, neither excited nor overly verbal.After years of hard love, He Tao seemed so calm in front of honor.When the host asked about He Tao's acceptance speech, He Tao said calmly: "Love requires understanding, love requires sincerity, and love requires fraternity."
"Top Ten News Figures in Anhui Province in 2009" awarding speech to He Tao by the organizing committee is:
"Life is full of love and infatuation, and this love has nothing to do with the wind and the moon. When the romantic fairy tale of love collided with a tragic life tragedy, a Shanghai girl born in the 1980s wrote a different page in her life without hesitation. She came to the Dabie Mountains alone I live and die together with my paralyzed lover. Because of love, I am strong; as strong as my heart is, so much power is love; because of the power of love, an ordinary person can write a fairy tale."