Chapter 109 Enlightenment - put down the seniority of the family relationship and first seek to achieve the understanding of friendship

Lin Changmin and Lin Huiyin's father and daughter like literature and art. Lin Huiyin told people that she was his father's only confidant.The relationship between his father and daughter is extraordinary, "a man has a daughter", Lin Changmin was often pleased with this before his death, but he also said with emotion: "Being the father of a genius daughter is not an easy blessing, you You have to lower your family's seniority and first seek to achieve a friendship understanding." When Pu Jie was young, he lived a pampered life. He accidentally wrote the words "millet half a catty" on the window glass. When his mother found out, she was furious and severely reprimanded Pu Jie. identity.

Ding Wenjiang was born in a gentry family in Taixing, Jiangsu Province, and his childhood education was completely prepared for the road of imperial examinations in the future.When he was 13 years old, he "went out for the college exam" and met Longzhang, the county magistrate. From here on." After Cheng Qian joined the League, he engaged in the revolution. All the campaigns of 1911, discussing Yuan, and protecting the law were all pioneers for the people. Celebrate it?" He kept going for the sake of achievement, and when he persuaded him to stop, he said: "People value their own strength, and I don't want to use my body to bully others."

In 1920, Sun Tieren, who was working at the headquarters of the Kuomintang in Shanghai, read the poems of his former student Nie Gannu in the "Da Evening News". We still need to broaden our horizons, so as not to bury the countryside.He invited Nie Gannu to go to Shanghai, and Nie entered the ranks of revolution and culture. Shen Congwen came to Beijing to make a living when he was 18 years old. He lived in a small pavilion in a guild hall and wrote novels.When winter came, it was extremely cool, and when it snowed heavily, there was no stove, and he only had two jackets on his body. He wrapped his legs with old cotton wool, writing novels with swollen hands and nosebleeds.Yu Dafu went to knock on the door: "Oh...you are Shen Congwen...you are so young...I am Yu Dafu, I read your article, write it down...I will come to see you again..." Yu looked at the meal time When they arrived, they invited Shen Congwen to have a meal nearby. There were fried lamb slices with green onions.After the meal, the two went back to the small pavilion and talked for a while. The famous writer left, leaving behind his light gray woolen scarf and the change of three yuan and two cents that he found after the meal.Shen Congwen fell down on the table and began to cry.

When Liang Shuming left Peking University in 1924, someone asked him why, and he said: "Because I felt that the education at that time was wrong, and my husband didn't care about the students." He believed that my husband should be friends with young people.The so-called friend refers to helping them walk; the so-called walking refers to making a person's whole life move forward including skills and knowledge. "Education should focus on a person's whole life, and to lead him on the road of life, the most important thing is the vitality of the body and the simplicity of the mind."

Jiang Baili once brought two children to Germany. An old lady in the country said to him: "It is important for children to study, but more important than this is to teach them to value social life. Young people are most afraid of depression or loneliness. Begging, but the body is weak and the spirit is exhausted. What is the use of such a learned person to the country and society? Therefore, in addition to studying, parents must also pay attention to the surrounding environment of their children. Let them stay with the majority of people and spend more of their outdoor life of skating, swimming, and playing ball." Jiang turned around and reminded the children: "This old lady's words are extremely valuable knowledge outside the classroom."