Not every girl has the destiny to be a princess.Because my father passed away early, I kept telling myself to be strong and able to protect myself and my mother.Later, when everyone saw me, they all thought that I was a fierce woman who did not need any protection. Only I knew in my heart how weak and powerless the girl hidden under my hard shell was during the long puberty, and how much she envied her Those children with both parents.
It's just that I can't go back.
I knew Jiang Shan after entering the provincial team.When I was a budding novice, he was already very good.
How handsome he is!The girls were secretly talking about him behind his back.At that time, the Korean style was in full swing, and the H·O·T group was in full swing. Everyone said that Jiang Shan looked quite "Han Faner".
I also think it's beautiful to hear people praise him like that.Although the two of us could only be regarded as teammates at the time, for some reason, Jiang Shan just had the ability to make people not treat him as an outsider.
In the sports team, two years is considered a step. Jiang Shan is two years older than me, a veteran player just a little older than us.When our group of kids were still rookies in the provincial team and were playing qualifiers everywhere, Jiang Shan was already the big brother of the provincial team.Once I was playing the preliminaries in other places, and I had no pocket money, so I called my dad and asked him to bring some.When playing a game, the young players have to go to the preliminaries first, and the old players with better results can go directly to the main game, usually two days later.My dad knew that the old players hadn't left yet, so he went to the Hubei team's dormitory and knocked on the door. At that time, four people in the room were playing poker. My dad went straight to Jiang Shan, who is also from Wuhan: "Jiang Shan, I'm sorry, can't Can you bring a few hundred yuan for Li Na?"
Many years later, I asked Jiang Shan: "Why did my dad pick you among the four of you?"
Jiang Shan immediately seized the opportunity to be narcissistic: "Oh! Your father must have taken a fancy to me at that time."
I laughed at him: "Siaoya, let other people laugh to death."
"That means your father trusts me."
In fact, among the four boys, he is the youngest, but when others need help, he is often the first to think of him.Although Jiang Shan is also a "post-80s" and an only child, he doesn't have the arrogance of an only child, and he often takes care of his teammates, so he feels very reliable.He is very popular in the men's team, and there are a group of "little brothers" who follow him all day long, looking like a big brother.
Although Jiang Shan is very popular among younger brothers, he is always bored in front of girls.The other boys were chatting and laughing with the girls, but he was always taciturn in front of us, and from time to time he showed a little contempt of "I really don't want to play with you girls".Everyone was a child at that time, and he felt that girls had too many things to do and had no logic, so he seldom interacted with girls.For me, he doesn't hate me, we have more contact with each other than other team members.It may be that he thinks that I am self-reliant and that there are few things to do.
I also don't like the kind of boys who are particularly eloquent. Jiang Shan's sullen and cool appearance made me pay more attention to him.We are all in the same team, we often organize activities together, and we also communicate with each other from time to time during training.Playing and playing, the two of them went to play together.But at that time, we didn't feel that we were talking about friends. We were all teenagers, and our friendship was nothing more than eating and playing together often. It didn't reach the point of "talking about friends".
Some people say: There are two kinds of love, either burning or lasting.I think it makes sense.I think Jiang Shan and I are of the persistent type.Later it turned out to be true.We have been together since we were teenagers, we have been together for more than ten years, and we are now considered an old couple. If it had been burning, we would have burned out by now.
Influenced by my father, my expectations for the other half are: mature, tolerant, calm, men should be like the sea, and these are exactly the typical characteristics of Jiang Shan.I don't know why, but I feel that I can be a child with peace of mind in front of him.After my father died, I kept pretending to be hard and strong.Outsiders may think that I am young and mature.Only I know how hard I put it.Jiang Shan gave me the chance to be a child again and gave me the sense of security I always wanted.
In short, I think Jiang Shan is very similar to my father.By his side, I am very down-to-earth.When I play with him around, I feel more confident.
When we really decided to "talk about friends", the teammates around us were quite surprised: Jiang Shan is a very masculine person in life, and everyone thinks that machismo must be accompanied by a girlfriend who is a small bird.Everyone in our team said that Jiang Shan is a machismo and I am a machismo. No one thought that we would be together.Everyone said: Do you want to see what it looks like to increase masculinity and feminism?Just look at Jiang Shan and Li Na.
Both of them are "big", so it is inevitable that they will quarrel.Both Jiang Shan and I were born and raised in Wuhan, but Jiang Shan's parents are both from Shandong. People asked him: Jiang Shan, where are you from?He said: Wuhan people!When we were quarreling and bickering, he said to me again: "How are you from Wuhan?" I didn't know whether to laugh or get angry, so I asked him, "Aren't you from Wuhan?"
He immediately replied: "I am from Shandong!"
It made me want to laugh, and I couldn't fight anymore.
Later when we were together, he also used Wuhan sayings to tease me: "It is better to marry a Wuhan man than a Wuhan mother! Your Wuhan sister-in-law is too powerful!"
snort!I didn't become a sister-in-law until I married him.
Jiang Shan has encountered more setbacks than me on the road of sports. In the sports circle, there are many dark sides that outsiders can't imagine.Jiang Shan has a very stubborn temper, and if he admits death, even ten cows will not be able to pull him back.But I like this Jiang Shan.
Many people have seen the picture of me yelling at him on the field, and they all think he is very honest and pitiful, but in fact he is!No!yes!Woolen cloth!When he "roared" at me, everyone didn't see it.I get distracted easily when I play and have trouble concentrating, which is a bad habit for a professional player.Agassi said that when he was concentrating on playing, even if there was a shootout outside the court, he would not hear it, because when he was concentrating, he only had eyes on the opponent.I am particularly envious of this kind of person who can concentrate. Jiang Shan is very good at this aspect. He is playing video games there, and he agrees to whatever I say next to him. After the fight, I ask him what I said. He spread his hands: "I didn't hear that."
Where did I read it: Scientists have done research in this area, proving that men are born with the ability to focus on one thing, while women's brain mechanisms make her better at handling several things at the same time.Not sure if this is true.But when I was playing, it was true that even the spectators on the sidelines got up to go to the bathroom and could observe the distraction.Sometimes when the fight was not going well, Jiang Shan kept thinking to himself: You can change your style of play, and you can play in a straight line.He is not good at encouraging others.Whenever the words come out of his mouth, they seem to be impatiently critical, and it makes my head feel like a bucket.He read one sentence, but I could barely bear it, and after three sentences, I opened my mouth and roared out the annoyance in my heart! "Play straight and straight! Didn't you still say you want to play slashes when you discussed tactics yesterday?"
I have always had a firecracker temper, and I exploded as soon as someone touched it, and I was full of guilt after the explosion.For outsiders, if I feel unhappiness in my heart, I will generally endure it. Only here in Jiang Shan, I can continue to mess around unscrupulously.From a psychological point of view, most people only lose their temper with those who feel safe, because the other party is within your safe range, and you subconsciously know that the other party will not leave you. Losing your temper is also a form of dependence.For Jiang Shan, after I yelled at him on the court, I felt much calmer and more powerful when I played again.He is like my "charger".
