Chapter 2 Text 01

Ma Wen didn't expect that in Beijing, a man like him, aged 36 or 4, would be so sought after.If he had known this, he would have divorced Yang Xin long ago—why bother, look at her face, listen to her scolding, come back a little late at night, and have to explain to her, and have to take the children to see her mother with her on Saturdays and Sundays.It is said that Yang Xin's mother used to be the young lady of a large family, and she didn't know which room she was born in. Anyway, she talked and acted in a tuneful way, as if Ma Wen was their parent's worker, so what happened to marrying their daughter.

But now that she is divorced, Yang Xin's mother is much more polite to Ma Wen. She makes a call to Ma Wen at length, and usually finds fault with her. The computer at home has a virus, and the digital camera is not working well. Marvin is a computer engineer, and he's good at it all.Before, when Yang Xin's mother came to him, he didn't care about trivial matters, and he was not happy about it. Now that they got divorced, he would go to make trouble for them every time.Marvin could tell that the old lady was hoping that they could remarry! Marvin is not in a hurry.No hurries?It was Yang Xin who was arguing for a divorce at the beginning.She is like a menopausal woman, breaking up with him all day long, and he doesn't let him enjoy any games at home.Yang Xin thinks that he is worthless and does not seek to make progress, he hates this and that, he endures it, restricts his freedom, forbids him to chat online, forbids him to drink, smoke, socialize and play cards with his buddies. , plus he got married early, basically got a certificate with Yang Xin not long after graduation, and belongs to the "bi-married family". meal.Ma Wen didn't even dream that it was a text message that directly led to his divorce. The text message was sent by a girl in Ma Wen's office. The little girl was also sick, so she sent a message to Ma Wen in the middle of the night: What are you doing?

As a result, Yang Xin intercepted it.Yang Xin didn't intercept it on purpose.At that time, Ma Wen was in the middle of "Fighting the Landlords" in full swing. When the text message came in, Ma Wen was indifferent, how could he spare a hand!Yang Xin has never been very curious about Ma Wen's mobile phone, and she is blind to "electronic products". Apart from being able to turn on the refrigerator, she can't play with other electrical appliances.Until now, it has been difficult to switch from TV to DVD, let alone mobile phones.A Nokia mobile phone has been used for N years and has not been replaced. The reason for not replacing it is very simple, she will not use another one.Marvin bought her a new one, and she threw it away after two days of use.Asked her, she said it was too troublesome and had to relearn various functions.Marvin taught her for half a day, but it was useless.Before Ma Wen, when I was in school, I thought Yang Xin was so cute, silly, and knew nothing, taught her something, blinked her big eyes for a long time, you thought she would know it, but in fact she still couldn't.That feeling made Marvin feel very refreshed, and a sense of pride in his accomplishment arose spontaneously.But you said that sloppy is now nine years old, and Yang Xin is a mother of a child. If he is still like that, Ma Wen thinks that Yang Xin is really stupid, not only stupid, but also annoying——Yang Xin once asked Ma Wen how to play the ringtone. Ten years ago, Marvin was very patient. Isn't it ten years later, Marvin threw it over without raising his head: Do something that is within your IQ range.

Ma Wen regretted it now, how could he let Yang Xin hand over the phone to him at that time.He didn't even think about the text message that crazy girl would send him at one o'clock in the middle of the night. He thought it was Song Ming, or their boss.Ma Wen is in the technical support department. Whenever a call comes in the middle of the night, it is definitely a problem with a big customer. In fact, it is not impossible for those big customers to wait until dawn, and they have to call home in the middle of the night. Yet?So if there is something wrong with the machine, we will immediately mention it to you without delay.Once, a customer called and yelled that the computer could not be turned on.He also said that there were many important documents in it, and Ma Wen had to get them ready for him within an hour, because he would have an important meeting in an hour later, and he had to print out those documents.Ma Wen rushed over in a hurry, and saw, shit, it was because the power was not plugged in.Marvin immediately got angry and said to the idiot, can we plug in the power first next time?

As a result, Marvin received complaints that he was impatient with customers and had a sarcastic look on his face.Later, Ma Wen made a special trip to apologize to the client, saying that he was a scruffy boy, and it was not his fault, but his parents.His expression at that time was actually admiration, not sarcasm.It was a female client, a wealthy lady, who glanced at him, and said indifferently: "You think I'm mentally handicapped, right? Can I not tell the difference between ridicule and worship?" There are peach blossoms on the cheeks, the light flashes on the chest, and the corners of the eyes and brows are full of affection, like the wind passing over the pond, the moon passing over the willow branches, whether there is or not, the value lies between having and not having.

In an instant, Marvin's whole body was like being electrified. However, Marvin didn't dare to have any unreasonable thoughts if the electricity was passed.If there is, the most I hope is that Yang Xin can also treat him like a rich lady.But after teasing Yang Xin a few times, Yang Xin didn't know the point at all, and she was completely upright and upright like a good woman.When Ma Wen saw that there was nothing going on, Yang Xin was secretly disappointed. Yang Xin still didn't understand what was going on, and felt that Ma Wen was getting more and more boring. He just went home to eat, and when he was done, he just played games. He couldn't even say a word to him. cheer up.When I asked him what was wrong, he said it was nothing, then sat in front of the computer, put on a headset, and played for most of the night, his face turned green, and he was still tireless.

Once, Yang Xin went on a business trip for half a month, and when he returned home from a night flight, the room was dark, there was no food, and there was a pile of dirty bowls, dishes, and chopsticks in the sink that had accumulated for more than ten days. Marvin hunched over in front of the computer, yes Not only did she not have the enthusiasm of Xiao Bie Sheng's newlyweds, but she didn't even have a word of greetings.Yang Xin suppressed the fire and asked him if there was anything to eat at home.Marvin said you should look for it yourself.Yang Xin opened the refrigerator, and it was smelly inside.Yang Xin couldn't bear it anymore and asked him, "Can you stop playing games?"

Ma Wenli said bluntly: "What are you doing if you don't play games? Playing with women, is it okay?" Yang Xin was also confident: "Success. I'm not a woman?" Marvin didn't even think about it, and immediately said: "You are a woman, but you are not fun." This was originally a joke, but Yang Xin became anxious on the spot and talked to Ma Wen until tears filled his eyes and he couldn't make a sound.Due to the situation, Ma Wen had no choice but to put down the mouse and cook a bowl of instant noodles for Yang Xin.As he cooked, he lamented that the attempted humor of dare to love was as boring as the attempted rape.In fact, Yang Xin would rather coax her with Ma Wen's words, but Ma Wen would rather wash a pool of dirty dishes than coax her.

Yang Xin has a problem, she has to give in to everything.For example, if the two stopped talking, Marvin had to speak first; if they had a quarrel, Marvin had to apologize first.This problem was also developed by Ma Wen in the past. At that time, Ma Wen was chasing Yang Xin for nothing, so Ma Wen should pay for it first, right?But now that Yang Xin is half-mature, Ma Wen doesn't like to give in to Yang Xin anymore.If you don't speak, it's just right, I still have a clean ear. Therefore, Ma Wen and Yang Xin spent most of the nights doing their own thing - Ma Wen played games, Yang Xin watched TV dramas.Well water does not violate river water.Yang Xin had an opinion that Ma Wen was not romantic enough, so Ma Wen said to Yang Xin: "Which family doesn't live like this? Eat and sleep, have sex every two weeks?"

Marvin often wondered what his life would be like without the "what are you doing" text message from that crazy little girl that night? At that time, Yang Xin was watching a bad TV series, when the text message came in, Yang Xin yelled at Ma Wen: "Your." Ma Wen didn't care about it at all, he also knew that Yang Xin was bored, and finally her husband's cell phone rang, so he could talk to Ma Wen without losing face.Marvin opened his mouth and said, "Hand it over." A few years ago, when Yang Xin's market was good, she would definitely say "why", but now, Yang Xin knows what's going on, and she knows that if she says "why", Ma Wen will definitely say "then don't worry about it", and then go on again. There was no sound.Then, Ma Wen played Ma Wen's games, and Yang Xin watched Yang Xin's TV.And then, Yang Xin sleeps with Yang Xin, Ma Wen sleeps with Ma Wen, after waking up, each go to their respective shifts.And so on and on and on.

Although Yang Xin was reluctant and emotional, she still got up from the sofa and went to get Ma Wen's cell phone.Ma Wen's mobile phone is charging, and it is plugged into the charger. Yang Xin is clumsy and took a long time to pull it out. He accidentally touched a button, and the words "what are you doing?" If you want to turn it on or off, you wake up with a jerk.She passed the mobile phone to Marvin calmly, her face was so dark that water could drip.Marvin was completely unaware of the seriousness of the problem. He took over the phone and glanced at it. The phone number was unfamiliar—Marvin didn't save the girl's number at all, and she was a poor kid who came to practice. Ma Wen didn't reply to the text message, and continued to "Fight the Landlord".He got a good deal of cards, and he was a "landlord", so he didn't care about text messages.But Yang Xin was furious. In Yang Xin's view, the reason why Ma Wen didn't reply to the text message immediately was because of a guilty conscience and because she was in front of her.Yang Xin held back, because Ma Hu was at home, even though Ma Hu had fallen asleep, Yang Xin still didn't want to quarrel with Ma Wen.Firstly, she is afraid of being sloppy, and secondly, Yang Xin is still willing to show her demeanor and self-cultivation. She is not happy to be like a shrew. After all, she is an educated person, and her ancestors are also from a scholarly family, and her mother is also from a wealthy family. You can't just cry, make trouble, and hang yourself when you encounter something. Yang Xin lifted the weight lightly, and asked lightly, "Who is it?" Ma Wen really didn't take it seriously, and said casually, "I don't know." Yang Xin restrained: "Who would ask you 'what are you doing' at this hour?" Marvin was completely unaware that a nuclear war was about to break out. His narrowed eyes were almost glued to the computer screen, and he said impatiently, "I'm sick!" Yang Xin continued to restrain himself: "Aren't you going to call and ask?" Marvin said, "Am I crazy?!" Before the words fell, Yang Xin unplugged the power! There was darkness in front of my eyes - astonishment, grief, rage, rage... Marvin slammed his fist on the table: "You are crazy!" Yang Xin said hoarsely: "Divorce!" In fact, they did not say goodbye.Ten years of marriage, nine years of sloppy.You're not a child anymore, can you leave as soon as you say it?Besides, they only have one house, and they still owe bank loans for twenty years.Divorce is easy. Who will own the house after divorce?Where does the one who moved out live?It's all about.So they discussed divorce for two days, gave each other a step, and they all stepped down.When Marvin talks, what is he to be away from, who is he with?Find another one and have to readjust to belching and farting, so that's it.Ma Wen's attitude was interpreted by Yang Xin as that Ma Wen did not dare to divorce, so she "should change the leftover courage to chase the poor" and check Ma Wen's cell phone every day.Although Ma Wen was not happy, there was nothing he could do.You say that a woman is your wife who lives with you every day. She wants to see your mobile phone. If you don’t show it, she will be hysterical. Is there any way to live that day?Ma Wen tried his best to delete his phone as clean as possible. Of course, he had nothing to shame, but it was also strange that the little intern girl always sent him text messages such as "what are you doing" and "have you slept?" in the middle of the night. Say what she has, and she has nothing, you say she has nothing, and what she has.Yang Xin was so angry that she couldn't speak out, she asked Ma Wen to explain, and Ma Wen said that she was an intern in the office, a senior, and the little girl was a little bit two hundred and five.Yang Xin broke up with Ma Wen, saying that if you don't recruit people, can they send you this kind of text message?Ma Wen didn't take it seriously, and he was poor with Yang Xin, saying that he didn't say anything, didn't he just greet him? Yang Xin sneered and said, "Greetings? Hey, let me ask you, if I have a handsome guy who always greets me in the middle of the night, what do you think?" Marvin didn't even think about it: "Me? I just think my wife is really attractive!" Yang Xin is the kind of person who doesn't forget to ridicule even when he is smoking with anger. She immediately sneered and asked Ma Wen: "Hey, do you think you are very attractive? You are a man in your thirties, you want a car, you don't have a car, and the house is still on loan. Why does this little girl fall in love with you?" ? Didn’t you recruit people?! Hey, did you agree to help people find jobs or something? Bragging?” This hurt Marvin's self-esteem.Marvin really didn't! In fact, Ma Wen and the little girl were at most joking in the office.Ma Wen speaks Qingdao mandarin fluently, and when he speaks jokes, his eyebrows are shining brightly with color printing. In addition, Ma Wen is good at technology, no matter what technical problems, usually on the phone, after listening to the general, you will know where the problem is. Directly tell people what keys to press and what commands to type, then turn it on and off and restart it, and work together.The little girl likes Ma Wen, and now the little girl likes a man so she doesn't care whether he is married or not. Anyway, she is an intern, and she will leave after the internship. Why not make her internship happy?This is called youth without blankness.The problem is that Yang Xin couldn't take it anymore, she finally broke out one night, it was around 2:30 in the morning, the little girl sent Ma Wen a message "What to do if I can't sleep", Ma Wen was already asleep, and he even deliberately put it on before going to bed. Phone off.But who would have thought that Yang Xin got up in the middle of the night to squat in the toilet, and when she was idle, she turned on Ma Wen's mobile phone and played Tetris in it.Playing around, "What if I can't sleep" jumped in.Yang Xin's face turned green with anger. Marvin was lifted out of his sleep, and it was impossible to say anything.Yang Xin insisted on forcing him to call the little girl back immediately, but Ma Wen refused, so Yang Xin tossed about—that day, Sloppy happened to be at the summer camp, and Yang Xin was not at home, so Yang Xin ignored him, hysterical, and insisted that Ma Wen scold the little girl in front of her. "Shameless"—to ask Ma Wen to say to the little girl: "I have a wife, so don't send me text messages that have nothing to do with work in the future. This is seduction and shameless. I hope you will respect yourself in the future!" Ma Wen couldn't be forced, so he had to make a phone call.He didn't follow Yang Xin's original words, but just said what he meant, his tone and tone were much more relaxed, roughly saying: I have a wife, don't send me similar text messages in the future, it will easily cause misunderstandings.Ma Wen spoke nervously, sweating profusely, but the little girl listened calmly, and hung up without saying a word.What a fool to Marvin. Since then, they have had no peace at home—they can quarrel for a long time over a trivial matter, and they have been arguing for more than a year, and they can't even stand sloppy.One day, Sloppy said to them: "You guys get a divorce!" Divorce is now easy.I went there after ten o'clock in the morning, and it was done by eleven o'clock.After the work was over, Yang Xin went straight to work, and Ma Wen went home, tidied up briefly, and then went on a business trip.A month later, Ma Wen came back from a business trip. As soon as he entered the house, Yang Xin had already reassigned the room.The master bedroom belongs to Yang Xin and his son, and the former sloppy room is now given to Ma Wen.Marvin's clothes, books, etc. have all been moved for him, and sloppy clothes, books, etc. have also been transferred to the master bedroom.Yang Xin put on a cold face, and gave Ma Wen a key. Ma Wen was stunned, and Yang Xin said, "It's in your room." Then he handed Ma Wen a printed and bound book on A4 paper, which read "Divorce Convention". Ma Wen laughed, and almost wanted to hug Yang Xin into his arms.Yang Xin is so cute like that.Very solemn, very formal, with that little effort.Damn, isn't it just that divorce is separate, and there is a "Divorce Convention", making it look like the country is independent and the nation is free. "Is this considered a draft for comments?" Marvin threw a sentence with a playful smile while flipping through the "Divorce Convention". This has to be put in the past. Before the divorce, Yang Xin must have laughed so hard.The reason why she liked Marvin at the beginning was because of his mouth—it was so funny!But now, when she annoys Marvin, she also annoys his mouth—too poor!Never serious, always laughing and joking about everything. Yang Xin glanced at Ma Wen and said righteously: "Final draft!" Marvin nodded, and then asked, "Is there only one key? You didn't keep a spare?" Yang Xin raised his eyebrows and raised his eyebrows: "Stop talking nonsense! Why should I keep it?" Then he felt that this was inappropriate and lacked diplomatic distance, so he added: "If you are worried, change the lock cylinder yourself." After speaking, he turned around and went into his own room.Ma Wen instinctively followed, but Yang Xin stopped on the brakes, turned his face, and said to Ma Wen: "We are already divorced! There is no way to live together temporarily. Please read the "Divorce Convention" carefully. It's all clearly written on it." Ma Wen: "What should I write clearly? Have you discussed it with me? Why do you live in the big one and I live in the small one?" Yang Xin: "Just because your son is sloppy living with me! We are two people, living in the older one; you are alone, living in the smaller one. It should be considered fair, right? Monthly payment, utilities, gas, property, phone bills are shared equally. Sloppy living expenses It belongs to me, and the tuition fee belongs to you. Other expenses, 50/50." After finishing speaking, before Ma Wen could respond, he closed the door of his room abruptly in front of Ma Wen.In this way, Ma Wen was locked out of the door, one step away from Yang Xin.Ma Wen originally wanted to knock on the door or something, but it was boring to think about it, so forget it.Besides, Yang Xin's "Divorce Convention" was really fair and did not take advantage of Ma Wen at all. Soon, Marvin realized the benefits of divorced life—he could now freely play games, cards, and Landlords in the room that belonged to him, surf the Internet, chat with crushes, and even blatantly fall in love. Fall in love with a girl who is more than ten years younger than him.As for Yang Xin, if he wanted to tease her, he could tease her anytime. He even felt that Yang Xin actually loved him quite a bit, so he didn't dare to provoke Yang Xin too much.Generally speaking, he tried not to bring the girl home. If he had to be together, he would either open a room or go to the girl's house.Moreover, he would make up a reason every time, such as going to a friend's house to play cards, drinking with colleagues, or working overtime, or going to a meeting in the suburbs.He still didn't want Yang Xin to think that he was going on a date, with other women. On the one hand, he felt that it would hurt Yang Xin's heart, and on the other hand, he always felt that Yang Xin was still his wife.Even though he was divorced and freed, Yang Xin couldn't control who he was with and how he was with Yang Xin, but when he really was with other women, he still didn't want to let Yang Xin know, and even felt a little sorry for Yang Xin. However, no matter how stupid Yang Xin was, she had been married to Ma Wen for more than ten years, how could she not know what happened to Ma Wen?She actually hated Marvin quite a bit in her heart - she felt that Marvin was too unfeeling.She was a flower back then.Marrying Ma Wen is considered a marriage, right?Based on her conditions, it is difficult to marry a diamond king, but it is not difficult to marry someone who has a car, a house and a savings account, right?Marvin what?The father is a worker, and the mother is a housewife. The family is destitute, with three older sisters above and two younger brothers below. The wages of the first few years of work all subsidize the younger brother's education.When Yang Xin's mother stopped Yang Xin, Yang Xin didn't hesitate, and lived in the basement with Ma Wen with her shoulders on her back.What did Marvin say to her then? On the first night of their wedding, Marvin said to her: I will never wrong her in this life. From now on, Ma Wen will cook the meals, wash the clothes, and do the housework. Marvin is only good to her, not to any other women. .Absolutely listen to her, don't do or say things that make her unhappy, if she is unhappy, he will coax her until she is happy... Yang Xin leaned in Ma Wen's arms at that time, and said deliberately: "What do you mean by coaxing me, coaxing me until I am happy? I don't like men coaxing me..." Ma Wen hugged Yang Xin tightly: "Then I'll kiss you until you're happy..." Yang Xin smiled and asked Ma Wen: "What if I'm not happy?" Ma Wen jumped up, pressed on Yang Xin, and whispered softly in her ear: "Then I have to fuck you... until I make you happy." Later, Yang Xin realized that what a man said on the bed was insignificant.The first is housework, although Ma Wen still does it, but he does it with a lot of complaints; second, it is impossible to only treat her well and not any other woman; To say that she is unhappy is even more nonsense.In fact, Ma Wen often did things that made her unhappy, said things that made her unhappy, and said plausibly, "Are you also unhappy about this? Are you okay? Do you want to see a psychiatrist?" The strange thing is that once Yang Xin was so angry that she said to Ma Wen: "You said before that if I am unhappy, you will coax me until I am happy..." Ma Wen even made a "puchi", laughing so much that the snot bubbles came out of his nose. Ma Wen said: "I said something so mentally retarded?! Impossible, you are framing, slandering and spreading rumors, insulting my IQ!" A week after the divorce, Yang Xin quickly corrected her attitude - she was thirty-six years old, not young anymore, if she didn't hurry up, she might end up alone like her mother.But hold on, where do we start?She got married at the age of twenty-five. After eleven years of marriage, she became pregnant in the second year of marriage. After that, she was busy giving birth, and then took care of the children, earning money, and buying a house with a mortgage. There was even a possibility of the opposite sex around her. Not at all——Yang Xin used to look down on the kind of women who were married and still had a lot of friends of the opposite sex outside, such as Liu Ru, who was in the same department as her, who flirted with male colleagues all day long.Now she suddenly realized that Liu Runa never left his fists, never left his tune, and practiced diligently.It's not like her, once she got married, she was determined, like a poultry, she got up on time, took a shower on time, laid eggs on time, drank water on time, and ate meals on time, but in the end, she was really divorced, and she didn't even know how to find another home for herself!For female animals, attracting male animals is a primitive instinct, but for someone like Yang Xin who has been married for more than ten years and has devoted herself to the family, according to the theory of "use it or lose it", her primitive instinct of "catching the opposite sex" has been abolished. up.Just like a pet cat can't catch mice, Yang Xin can't even put a man in front of Yang Xin to hook him up. Liu Ru once introduced one to Yang Xin, who was divorced, five or six years older than Yang Xin, the child belonged to his ex-wife, and lived in a house of the unit, a public institution, and a department-level cadre.After going on two dates, Yang Xin was asked, "How am I?" Yang Xin said, "It's pretty good." People said: "I think you are also very good." Yang Xin blushed and said, "Thank you." After that, someone stretched out his hand across the table, grabbed Yang Xin, and said, "Come to my place tonight?" Yang Xin froze, she regretted how she put her hand on the table, it was inconvenient to pull it back now, and she felt uncomfortable if she didn't pull it back. Seeing Yang Xin like this, people put a little more effort into their hands, and said more earnestly: "We are not young anymore, we can't fall in love like young people, we meet several times a week, chat, drink tea and watch movies, it's not that that's not okay. Well, yes, we should go deeper... you know what I mean? We've both been married and should go deep, deep..." Of course Yang Xin knew what "deep" meant, so she said "I understand", and after she finished speaking, she drew her hand back.She saw the other party's disappointed expression, and the demeanor of holding on after disappointment. The next day, Liu Ru chased after Yang Xin and asked, "What's going on?" Yang Xin said, "We've only met twice, so let me go to his house!" Liu Ru said, "Oh, how many times do you think we should meet?" What time?" Yang Xin was left speechless for a long time. After Yang Xin divorced herself, she realized why her aunt never left her.My aunt has cooked and washed clothes for my uncle all his life, but my uncle has other women outside.My aunt should cook and wash clothes, and she doesn't ask any more questions.Yang Xin wanted to fight for her aunt, but her mother stopped her and said to her: "A woman who has been cooking at home for more than ten years and washing clothes for more than ten years, if you let her divorce, there is nothing wrong with releasing the pet you have kept for many years." What's the difference?" Yang Xin now understands the desolation of this sentence. In the past, Yang Xin didn't like to talk to Liu Ru the most.Liu Ru belongs to the "value-exporting" woman. The two of them are in the same office. Whenever there is an opportunity, Liu Ru tells Yang Xin: "Women, especially married ones, must not reject the favor of other men." Liu Ru's reasoning is that this kind of goodwill will make a woman feel good, and if a woman is in a good mood, her face will look confident, moist and radiant, and this kind of self-confidence, nourishment and radiance will make her look better than those who are reluctant to eat and wear clothes all day. A woman with children is much more attractive. Yang Xin was upset when she heard that, she was "proud" and "proud" for marrying Ma Wen at that time.There are so many older leftover women in Beijing who can’t find a husband. She Yang Xin is married. Although Ma Wen is not the richest man, he is a young talent with an annual salary of several million, but he is still a computer engineer. His occupation, education, future and status Ah, it makes sense, and Yang Xin has never done housework at home, so Yang Xin thinks the marriage is worthwhile.What's the point of marrying into a rich family and being invisible all day long?This husband and wife live their lives like a loving couple, day and night, eating what's in the bowl and worrying about what's in the pot all day long, it's boring! However, Yang Xin usually doesn't directly answer Liu Ru's words. She made a detour and asked, "Aren't you afraid that your husband will be in a hurry with you?" Liu Rukuai spoke quickly, heartlessly, and didn't understand the teasing in Yang Xin's tone, and immediately confided in Yang Xin: "First, we can't be women who let our husband know everything. If a woman has no secrets in front of her husband, The husband has no interest in her; second, we are not afraid that a man will think about us, what we are afraid of is that he has no idea about us; third, if we are an unattractive woman, our loyalty is worthless , and if so many people like us, but we are only loyal to our husband, our husband will feel that Bel has face. Men are such animals, the more you follow him with all your heart, the more he feels that you have no one in his hands Yes. This is the Matthew Effect. The more people chase you, the more people chase you, and the less you get chased, the more nobody chases you. In the end, even your husband doesn’t like you and doesn’t like to talk to you.” Yang Xin now regrets that she did not listen to Liu Ru's words earlier.Look at what Liu Ruguo said, if you want the wind, you will get the wind, and if you want the rain, you will get the rain.She and Liu Ru went to the company one after another. In the beginning, she had many more customers than Liu Ru, but after so many years, she had almost no friends.That's right, she is a woman who comes home after get off work and spends all day with her husband and children, what kind of friends can she have?As for Liu Ru, her husband also had a baby, and she called at night and said that she would accompany a client to discuss business, and her husband went to the kindergarten to pick up the baby.Yang Xin was also curious, why is Liu Ru's husband so good-tempered?Liu Ru smiled at Yang Xin and said, "Men, you have to be able to coax. In the past, men told women that military medals are half as much as you and half as much as mine. Well, this woman is willing to be a cow, a horse, a housekeeper for a man." Courtyard, now we women have to learn this too, and share half of our flowers, applause, and military medals with men, and men are happy too!" Yang Xin observed quietly, and it was true.Liu Ru's friend not only got along well with Liu Ru, but also introduced business to Liu Ru's husband!Can Liu Ru's husband disrespect such a cash cow and diplomat?Alas, look at other people, they are family members all over the world; look at yourself, it is deserted.Picture what?Just look decent?One loyalty?A woman from a good family?There is an idiom "the more you get, the more you help, the less you help". Yang Xin found that when it comes to being a woman, basically, the more decent you are, the more "less you help". After Yang Xin divorced, besides Liu Ru, there were other people who introduced Yang Xin, but most of them were more than ten years older than her.Yang Xin also went to see her, but after seeing her, she felt blocked.She is only thirty-six, why should she look for someone who is almost fifty?And what Yang Xin couldn't accept the most was that the introducer still thought they were a good match.Damn, turn around and try, does anyone dare to introduce a 30-year-old man to a 50-year-old woman?