war quotes 1. If you don’t have to be responsible, men can like all kinds of women. Chunlanqiuju has its own taste.However, if you say that you like it, you have to marry and bring it home, and you will have this one from now on, and you can’t marry anything else. Then we can’t just focus on the entertainment function, but we have to talk about comprehensive national strength. 2. When there is a conflict between husband and wife, they would rather quarrel, even if they do it, and get a bruised nose and a swollen face, it is better not to bear the humiliation and settle the matter peacefully.Husband and wife can't be reasonable, if you are reasonable, don't be a couple.The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. If the relationship between men and women is mixed with plain water, it will be over.

3. Life is like a drama, so it is generally not a peaceful life; if drama is like life, then the drama will not be very good.It's best: life is life, drama is drama, it's better to separate. 4. "Yangliuan, the dawn wind and the waning moon, holding hands and looking at the tearful eyes", is it the wife's tearful eyes? "On the head of the willow on the moon, people make an appointment after dusk." Could it be that the appointment is a yellow-faced woman who honors her parents-in-law and has children? "Mo Cigeng sat down and played a piece, and translated "Pipa Xing" for you", for whom?It is only when they are writing mourning poems that they can think of their wives, and the wives have to die early. If they live long, they won't even have this kind of treatment.

5. You are a boiler, you can boil a boiler of water; if you are a kettle, you can only boil a kettle.Don't keep thinking about solving the problem of drinking water for people all over the world. 6. In the past, I especially admire the kind of women who can hold on and survive until the clouds open to see the sun until the sun rises in the mountains. Don’t care about how your husband jumps, whether you go home or not, it’s up to you It doesn’t matter if you give money or not, even if you give birth to little bastards outside, let’s bear with it, ten years, eight years, twenty years, thirty years, when your wallet is empty and your body is empty, you have no bounds to turn back to the shore. The husband and wife held hands and looked at each other with tears in their eyes. After the reconciliation was over, they reconciled as before, and comforted themselves by saying that those were small episodes in life, and in the end it was the two of us. This is called "value marriage".But now, I suddenly discovered that "value marriage" is actually not worth it—why does he make you a widow at 6,000 points and come to you to eat, drink, and retire at 900 points?I used to look down on those women who got married quickly and divorced and cut half of their property every time they got divorced. Now I think, from the perspective of investment, they are quite suitable, at least better than clinging to a "PetroChina" for a lifetime!

7. Therefore, it is difficult to be a woman—the difficulty lies in the fact that if you make "shark fin and bird's nest", others may like to "stick small fish with pancakes"; Of.And you can't say anything about others, they will say that this is human nature.Therefore, there is a saying that men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.Who wants to marry someone who always wants to change his taste?But the problem is, before you marry him, most men don’t know what he will become in the future—some men are like tadpoles, growing and growing into frogs; some men are like caterpillars, suddenly becoming frogs. Flowers and butterflies have been pollinated all over the world.

8. In the past, the reason why women were willing to "hold for a long time" was because in that era, if a man changed his mind, he would have to pay a high price, such as Chen Shimei, who died directly.With such a policy guarantee, women can certainly invest in men with confidence—if the investment is successful, the husband and wife will prosper, if the investment fails, they will accept their fate.The so-called "I gain my life and lose my life", there is nothing to complain about.But now, do we have such a policy guarantee? From Siege to War (Postscript) About two years ago, a film and television company approached me and asked me to write for them, adapting the award-winning novella by teacher Ye Zhaoyan.After I read Teacher Ye's novel, I told them that I can't change this story.

In the original book, Ma Wen and Yang Xin were workers in a state-owned factory. Later, when the factory closed down, both of them were laid off. Li Yi and them were colleagues in the same factory.The original book is around 40,000 words, and if I want to change it into a TV script with more than 20 episodes of 30,000 to 40,000 words, how many details do I have to add?And I don't know the factory at all, I don't know anything about the laid-off workers. I don't know how they talk, do things, or engage in extramarital affairs. Get together, otherwise the lines I wrote will definitely be ridiculed by the laid-off workers.

Of course, there is another more critical reason for my refusal. The characters in the original work are too far away from me.In the original book, "Yang Xin never considers the embarrassment of being a husband. She never knows how to brake. She usually walks farther and farther, and the farther she goes, the more outrageous she is. Her character is that even if she is a concubine, she is still confident." She has not yet divorced , just had a heated fight with Li Yi, and in broad daylight, it can be seen that their relationship is not serious. Everyone in the workshop knows that Ma Wen's wife steals people... Ma Wen pretends that he doesn't know what to do , the result is that the more he does this, the more stupid he looks.” (Excerpt from Ye Zhaoyan’s original work, the same below.)

"Li Yi is a very thick-skinned person. Ma Wen believes that he will walk into this house as if nothing happened, and then greet him like an old acquaintance." "Since Li Qin's husband has a concubine, he basically has nothing to do with her. He just sends a strong driver to send money once a month. The driver is just in his early twenties, and he is well-informed with the boss. The proprietress who was in loneliness did it. For a while, he would come here every month to have a good time, until one day, Li Qin suddenly discovered that her husband was not only an insider, but also the master planner of the conspiracy..."

After Ma Wen dated Li Qin, one day, "suddenly found that I really like this woman", but at this time Yang Xin refused to let go, and killed him back, and went to bed with Ma Wen directly and put her Li Yi was told about this.In the words of Teacher Ye's original work: "Yang Xin's method is to fight openly, just like the big divorce back then, she simply made things clear with Li Yi, telling all the details, even the excitement and excitement on the bed. Pass." "Li Yi's eyes straightened immediately, as if he didn't know her anymore... What's the matter with you, you were told not to divorce at the beginning, but you insisted on leaving, and you left by yourself, and then forced me to leave, and I left, and then You are obsessed with getting married, and everything is not completely settled, you are playing tricks again."

At the end of the story, the four people went to the park to negotiate together, and broke up unhappy. I told the producer that the background of such a story and the character of the characters are beyond my experience, and I am unable to grasp it.The producer told me that you are a screenwriter, you can change the fate of the characters, their personalities and even the direction of the story.Anyway, you just need to write a script for me, no matter what occupation, education or education the person in it has, as long as he encounters divorce, remarriage, newcomer and old man, we will be.

I said that I am only familiar with the city, the white-collar workers, the office workers, and their emotional entanglements.The producer said okay, then you can move the story to the office building, move the background to the current Beijing, and replace all the characters with those you are familiar with, no problem.I am very grateful to Teacher Ye Zhaoyan for his generosity. He agreed, and that's why we have this. Mr. Qian Zhongshu compared marriage to a besieged city, where those outside want to get in and those inside want to get out.In fact, not necessarily, especially marriage in modern society. Although marriage is still a city, getting in and out is no longer as tragic as a "siege city" - there are many people outside the besieged city who don't want to kill them at all; there are also many people inside the besieged city who occasionally I came out to see the scenery, but I never thought of killing it.There are also many, many people who have stayed in a city for a long time and got tired of it. They automatically opened the city gates, put down the drawbridge and abandoned the city. Come and invade.Marriage and divorce are getting simpler and easier in terms of legal procedures, but it is getting harder and harder to find someone who loves you and you love yourself.This is modern marriage, there is no need to "kill in" or "out" with blood flowing into rivers and corpses all over the field. On the surface, it seems "easy to come and go" and "easy to come and go". Modern people have more freedom and choices, but at the same time, they also have More tears and bewilderment, confusion and sadness.