Chapter 36 Nothing can be done without care

We often see some honest and hardworking people, but their lives have not changed in the slightest.Even the people around them are anxious for them, saying that the world is really unfair.Of course, there are indeed some people who are unlucky and have not yet met the opportunity.However, most people are not "careful" enough.They give their best to the task at hand, but are never willing to devote a little more energy to anything other than the basic task.In this world, there are too many people who can complete basic tasks.Doing the bare essentials and expecting more in return is an unreasonable demand.In any case, if you want to realize your wish, you must work hard.

Another face of this "desperate" is "hard work".Everyone's concerns are different, and therefore, the things they pay special attention to are also different.Therefore, there is no need to conclude that you are a person who is not hardworking just because you cannot persist in embroidering a "cross-stitch".Interestingly, people who can do one thing well can do the same in other things.A person who can take care of his own affairs is also the same for his lover.People who only think about things in general, will do the same with love and mate selection, and will lose many good opportunities in vain.This is because being attentive is also a habit.Although there is no need to waste energy on everything, but those who can devote themselves to the things they care about and value, will eventually realize their wishes.Only "heart" can let you know how to collect the information you need, how to do what you should do, and finally let you make some achievements.

There is a friend who likes to play a gambling game similar to bingo on the website he logs in every day.Choose a number, and when it is the same as the preset number, you can get points.He found that when he concentrated on choosing numbers, he was more likely to guess the same number than when he clicked on the numbers casually.This kind of thing that seems to be entirely dependent on luck will also be affected by "intention", not to mention things that are affected by the mind.If you fail frequently in doing things, then you are probably a person who is not very good at "attentiveness".If you want to accomplish at least one thing, then don’t just throw it to God if you don’t do it casually without sincerity, saying that “it’s up to people to plan things, and it’s up to God to make things happen”.

In fact, it is your sincerity that can control "God's will".No matter in which aspect, the experience of successful people, at least one "idea" (idea) will become the key to solving the problem.When you find that there is no chance of success in business with ordinary cabbage and meat, you can switch to charcoal grilled meat to make your business a success; you can make a lot of money by selling artificial mink blankets that are not sold in China to the Middle East.These examples are all derived from a decisive "idea".In our lives, we are constantly in need of new ideas.If you want to turn someone you like into your partner, don't you need different methods at each stage?

People always think that the only ideas that can be successful can only come from a few extremely capable people.However, the people who can roast cabbage and meat on charcoal fire, and the people who transport blankets to the Middle East for sale are just ordinary people, and the key to success is to focus on their own affairs.Yingqiao, who is quite interested in children's clothing, runs a small online shop.At that time, the store was not doing well, and she was distressed by the return rate. "I'm really serious about selling. It seems that it's because of the recession!" I went to her website and saw that there were not many types of products, and the outer packaging was directly provided by the supplier.The pictures in the product introduction cannot fully express the charm of the product itself. "You'd better use snacks!" When I persuaded her, she said, she has been busy from morning till night, and she has exhausted her mind.But, in my opinion, she just took her time and didn't really put her heart into it.

At the same time, another online store that sells well not only uses a web design that matches children's clothing, but also sells pants, accessories, etc. that can be matched with a piece of clothing.I don't know where they got the pictures from, and they also put pictures of child models with matching clothes on the webpage, so that people will have an impulse to buy after seeing it.Yingqiao's problem is that she is not like other business owners who always think about "how can I make my products sell better" and seriously consider better ideas.She thinks that worrying and fidgeting every day is doing her best, and she feels self-satisfied with it.The real intention should be to ask yourself "what else can I do?", and you should always think about how to solve the problem.