Chapter 12 Don't take expressing happiness as hypocrisy

Someone wrote something like this on the Internet: "Looking online recently, I often feel that people are acting very hypocritical. I believe that everyone has their own distress and pain, but here people seem to be so fake every day. Very happy. Don’t they have the courage to express their truest side?” Many people responded with the same feeling, but I have doubts.As she herself said, "everyone has their own troubles and pains", this is a well-known fact, but it is necessary to write one hundred and eight kinds of troubles in life on the web page , Infect the atmosphere of misfortune to everyone?

The reason people in their twenties hesitate to be happy is because they think expressing happiness is hypocrisy.They doubt whether feeling happiness and striving for happiness are escaping from reality. These doubts and timidity prevent them from pursuing happiness to the fullest.Yet such an attitude is precisely escapism.People with this kind of thinking should change their thinking from now on, care about and value every little happiness, and find the value of happiness from it. This is the real life, not what young people say and think. , Treating happiness as a cheap and meaningless thing is a life with personality.Although modern society has undergone many changes compared with the past, traditional culture still cannot allow everyone to express happiness at will.We often see in the mass media that most people feel numb or even disgusting when they express happiness. It is difficult to see anyone who can honestly say that they are happy.Don't people express their happiness in the media, don't they look good?When faced with the word "happiness", many people always think that it is cool to have reservations.For what we want, we should like it, look for it, and pursue it. This is the law of the world, but everyone hates pursuing happiness and expressing happiness so much, how can we get happiness?From now on, we should feel and express happiness with a more tolerant attitude.Starting from daily life, find out the bits and pieces of happiness, and try to outline the appearance of happiness, this is the magic that makes happiness accompany you for a lifetime.