Chapter 10 don't be a fast talker

No matter how cruel and ruthless the world is, human beings are still emotional animals controlled by emotions.If a person is on the way to work in the morning and says to a co-worker she meets unexpectedly: "You seem to be fat, you should lose weight, then she has made a big mistake, because she will spoil the mood of the co-worker for the whole day. Such People tend to think like this: "I'm a straightforward person, and I forget about things after they're over, so others won't hate me. "However, it is very difficult for people who are used to destroying other people's emotions to succeed. Of course, if they have outstanding abilities, they can also take a successful role in society, but they need to go through a more difficult process than others to achieve their goals The road of life is already full of thorns, why do you have to choose the bumpy road? As emphasized in many life books, people's speech carries their own past, present and future. Often say something that makes People who are happy with others and encourage themselves will also treat life with a positive attitude. Conversely, people who often hurt others with words easily will suffer the same harm in life. The strange thing is that people who often hurt others with words, But they are often even more unable to accept other people's negative evaluation of themselves, so they spend most of their time in an unhappy mood. If you are the kind of person who has something to say, I still advise you, everything in advance After brain conversion, no matter what method you use, you must get rid of this bad habit. Talking casually is the same as treating yourself casually, and people who treat themselves casually often have no bright future. This is a very obvious truth!