Chapter 7 Be an unobtrusive egoist

Only when my own storehouse is full can I feel the distress of the neighbors. There is a female student from a poor family. She is worried that she will become a heavy burden for her family after she is admitted to university. Therefore, her parents hope that she can work as soon as possible after graduating from high school to make money to support her family.But she kept going, supporting herself through scholarship and odd jobs.Two years later, when her younger brother was admitted to university but could not make up enough tuition fees, her parents urged her to drop out of school and use the saved tuition fees for her younger brother.But she insisted that she must finish her studies and she could not suspend school casually, but she was willing to give her younger brother the balance left after paying the tuition.In desperation, her parents finally borrowed money to help her younger brother pay his tuition, but she was said to be a "vicious person" and a "selfish ghost who only cares about herself."After working her way through college, she became a nurse.One day six years later, she took out a large sum of money and asked her parents to move to a bigger house.Her parents were amazed and said to her, "You'd better use the money to prepare for your wedding!" Looking at the passbook her parents gave back to her, she smiled and said, "You think I won't even prepare the money for the wedding, so I'll just pay for it." Give you this money?" As she said, her own wedding expenses have already been prepared.From then on, wherever she went, everyone would call her "filial daughter".

For girls in their twenties, one of their biggest burdens is that more and more people want their help when their own abilities are not yet perfected.There are many young people in their twenties who have to spend most of their monthly salary from their hard work for their parents or siblings, leaving little left over.Some girls even provide funds to help their boyfriends study. Most of the money is never returned. Before the boyfriend returns anything, they are already exhausted.After working so hard, all that was left to her was a few words of praise for her kindness, a passbook with no savings, and a confused future.The twenties are not the time to bear the heavy responsibility of raising children. First of all, we must plan carefully for our own future, first enrich our own treasury, and then care about the situation of others.