Ever since I was a little lazy, I was very afraid that I would be used as a talking point by others. Mainly because I don't have much confidence in myself.After all, he is a mortal, and in the language of the TV station, he is a petty citizen who does not violate the law or discipline.I am an ordinary clerk in a company in Beijing. I don't have too many unrealistic ambitions, but like most people, I am busy and busy in order to live every day in reality. Not as gentle and subtle as readers think.When encountering troubles, I often feel anxious, crazy, and even angry. ——Having a relationship with Xiaolan for six years and marriage for more than four years.Happiness and self-confidence, rare confusion, cynicism... are all experienced in stages in life.

Love has slowly transitioned from the initial enthusiasm to the current peace and harmony. Both parties "hide" their "flaws" in the struggle, and contaminate their "bad habits" in the indulgence.The days passed slowly with the enthusiasm of both parties, just like a piece of milk of love quietly flowing into our big bowl of tea with the years. Two people compromise in the struggle, accept in the compromise, cooperate in the acceptance, and maintain this love in the cooperation. Work boils in the busyness, and life continues in the ordinary. Responsibilities and obligations have become more and more the topic of eating with Xiaolan.

Traveling, buying a car, raising a puppy, and having a child are all our visions when we were walking. The house has been settled. We believe that these visions will gradually become reality, just like believing in China's economic growth prospects, full of confidence . It is beyond my expectation that "All World Love II? Four Years of Silk Marriage" will meet readers so soon. I can only hope that everyone will like our stories as always, like those trivial things, and like the big women from the north and the little men from the south. "Domestic Nonviolent Warfare."

In terms of style, it may still continue the style of the first part, because Xiaolan didn't let me read it in his creation, so far, my understanding of this work is still at the level of half-hidden. Here, I would like to thank everyone for their support all the time. This is the result of Xiaolan dragging his waist and lighting up the night battle. Of course, it is also the result of Mu Mu being chased and intercepted by Xiaolan, racking his brains, and asking all kinds of strange questions. . So there is this book that is spread out in front of you now: the fun things in life, the language of cola, the nonsensical gossip... just like that, show them one by one.

I used to be obsessed with two well-told love stories. One is the typical traditional "raise the case with the eyebrows": it tells the story of Liang Hong, a talented man in the early Eastern Han Dynasty.Liang Hong is very educated but poor. One day he meets an old leftover and ugly girl named Meng Guang.Liang Hong, an excellent man who is equivalent to a provincial postdoctoral fellow, came to propose marriage on his own initiative after hearing about it.After the two got married, they lived in seclusion in the mountains and lived a happy life like men farming and women weaving.Every day when Liang Hong came back from working in the fields, Meng Guang had already prepared the meals. The couple respected each other very much. One would hold the plate up to the eyebrows and never look up at her husband's face, while the other would always take his wife with both hands. The plates that were handed were very courteous.

The other is the atypical traditional "Zhang Chang Thrush": Zhang Chang, a native of the Western Han Dynasty, who was the mayor of the capital Xi'an at the time when Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty used to draw eyebrows for his wife.One day, someone complained to the emperor and told the story in a big way, saying that Zhang Chang was too "frivolous".Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty asked about this matter in front of all the ministers.As a result, Zhang Chang said very calmly: "I heard that in the boudoir, the privacy of husband and wife is more than that of thrush." Common sense.Your Majesty, you should pay more attention to state affairs.The emperor thought it was reasonable, not only did not punish him, but also set him and his wife as a model of love between husband and wife.Later, people also used "Zhang Chang Thrush" to describe the love between husband and wife.

These two stories are just two forms in the classic Chinese love allusions.Since ancient times, many love stories have been handed down in the form of idioms, such as respecting each other like a guest, loving a house and crow, flying together, childhood sweetheart, Yingying and Yanyan, love between a man and a concubine, love over gold and so on.In order to pursue love, the ancients tried their best and performed countless classics.There are not only the final marriage of the gifted scholar and the beautiful woman in "The Wrong Flower Field", but also the earth-shattering and soul-stirring scenes in "The Peacock Flies to the Southeast" and "The Butterfly Lovers".

When I was in a daze, I would think, what type of love between me and Xiaolan belongs to? ——Of course not tragic. There is no shortness like peach blossoms and running water, and it should not be as vigorous as each other. It seems a bit like a twists and turns, and the sympathy of two people is also a bit of a side.Personally, my nympho idea is that it would be fine if both "raise the eyebrows together" and "open the thrushes" are used. It seems a bit greedy ^_^. The self in life is sometimes rough and will commit the problem of machismo. When you are crazy, you will receive violent text messages such as "Hurry up and get back to my mother!", "My mother divorced you!", and you can also receive "There are watermelons in the refrigerator, and there are washed cherries.", "Today I went shopping and bought you some clothes, don’t say I don’t like them!” This kind of text message seems to be affectionate.

This kind of "two-faced nature" sometimes makes me feel that I am lazy and feminine enough, often reckless in doing things, often too boring, and not gentle enough. Of course, I also have many shortcomings, such as being lazy.When I feel lazy, I will do a little trick, saying: "Oh, I feel dizzy, I can't move my neck again, I can't cook today, come on!" Maternal love complex, boldly said: "These old ladies are covered!" When I'm free, my favorite is Xiaolan's massage technique.Every time when the cervical spine and shoulders are sore and swollen, she greets you, and she will do her best to rub it for you.The saying that often hangs on her lips is "One day my mother will stop writing and become a skilled masseur". Whether it is the Eighteen Dragon Palms or the Nine Yin White Bone Claws, she will have a lot of momentum, including you Get rid of illnesses at hand.

This is our life. Perhaps it is also the similar and simple love that many ordinary, unknown, and ordinary people who work hard for life have. The times have given our generation more opportunities and a bigger stage than our parents' generation, and it has also provided many possibilities for life.Maybe we have no unattainable ambitions, no unattainable desires, no big ups and downs and too many difficulties, but we have the most real life. If this is the case, then, in my eyes, it means that in ordinary life, each other understands the weight of each other in each other's heart, and has and enjoys this unshakable respect and love.