Chapter 5 Section five

But if you think about it with your toes, you know that the only counselors Gu Xiaoying can find, counting on his fingers, are Duan Fei and Xu Xin. On Monday night, Gu Xiaoying and Xu Xin went to see Guoguo at Duan Fei's house.After eating, they put Guoguo to sleep, and the three of them gathered in Duan Fei's bedroom to chat.As soon as Gu Xiaoying sat down, she began to complain about Chen Guantong's "not going on the road" with righteous indignation, until Xu Xin got tired of listening to it: "Fly, you'buzzing' makes me dizzy, go and turn on the TV for me."

Gu Xiaoying was very angry: "Did you listen to me carefully?" "Listen, isn't it because you want to have a baby and your husband doesn't cooperate?" Xu Xin stretched on the bed, "I thought it was a big deal, and I heard you making noise after dinner. If you have time, buy a bus ticket to go Pu Yin, if you fuck him, it’s over. Anyway, you’re not missing someone..." Duan Fei smiled "hehe" before saying seriously: "Speaking seriously, he is doing it for your own good. You don't know how hard it is for a woman to take care of a child. Am I just an example?"

"It's so evil. I didn't want children very much before. I don't know when I suddenly became enlightened overnight." Gu Xiaoying also sighed, "You all don't know, I can dream of children at night A child put his arms around my neck and called 'Mommy'." "No way? Are you serious?" Xu Xin looked at Gu Xiaoying in horror, "Why are you always thinking ahead of me? You got married before I fell in love; you plan to have children even if I'm still not in love Already!" "This is my normal way of thinking. A child like you can't understand it." Gu Xiaoying pushed Xu Xin in disgust, keeping a certain distance from her, and was kicked by Xu Xin as expected.

"Don't blame me for not vaccinating you, Junior Sister," Duan Fei said slowly while looking for TV channels with the remote control, "Having a baby is not an easy task, and there are too many preparations that need to be done. You The mental state during pregnancy is very fragile. A little stimulation will make you feel extremely wronged and difficult. You are alone now. Once you are pregnant, Guan Tong has not come back. Are you going to live with your mother-in-law? Wait until you start Morning sickness, I'm afraid you don't even want to look at the food she cooks, and there's no one around you who runs errands to buy you food, what should you do?"

"When I was pregnant last time, who said that I have friends besides my husband?" Gu Xiaoying pointed at the two women in front of her with righteous indignation, "You! And you! You two turn your back and don't admit it!" "Of course it's different. You were already pregnant at that time, aren't you not pregnant now?" Duan Fei glanced at Gu Xiaoying, "I tell you seriously, having a baby is a systematic project. From the closing of the mountains to cultivate forests at the beginning, to the hard work later on, you have to find food for you in different ways after morning sickness, and you have to be helped to turn over at night when you have a big belly. Apart from your husband, there are really not many people who can stand it."

"But it will take another year!" Gu Xiaoying frowned. "It's only one year, why are you in a hurry?" Duan Fei wondered, "It's not ten or eight years, what's the rush?" "A full man doesn't know that a hungry man is hungry..." Gu Xiaoying sighed. Unexpectedly, on the phone with Guan Tong the next night, he actually said the same sentence: "But it's only been a year, so why worry?" Gu Xiaoying rolled her eyes through the phone line: "When you come back, prepare and prepare, fight for another year and a half, wait until you conceive a child, three years have passed!"

Guan Tong strongly disagreed, and categorically and confidently denied it: "That's impossible! Isn't it just to have a baby, so why fight for a year or so? Three months at most!" "Hehe," Gu Xiaoying smiled and widened her eyes, "Guan Tong, you are very confident! Do you have confidence in me, or in yourself?" "It's not a difficult thing at all," Guan Tong disdainfully said, "Isn't it just to have a baby? We are so young and strong, so we can have a baby whenever we want, and we can have whatever we want... ..." "Wait, wait," Gu Xiaoying held back her laughter and interrupted the county magistrate, "Guan Tong, have you had a drink tonight?"

"I drank a little, not much," Guan Tong realized after answering, very dissatisfied, "I'm not drunk, I'm just stating the facts, isn't it just to have a baby, why are you making it so complicated, and going to the hospital again , It took another three years to complete, you see our parents were able to conceive at the wedding night in the bridal chamber, and the child was born in nine months..." "Wait a minute, stop," Gu Xiaoying was very unkind, "That's your parents, not my parents! Back then, my parents got together less and separated more, and they weren't as efficient as your parents."

"Honey, my parents are also your parents," Guan Tong sighed again, "It's been two years, when will you be a little conscious?" "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I was wrong, I was wrong again," Gu Xiaoying replied repeatedly, "But Guan Tong, my parents will never let me go back to see them on vacation just to save five hundred dollars in travel expenses Yes, my parents never hide how much they miss me, and now they all wish I could go home and be with them every day." "Oh, the old ideas are hard to change," Guan Tong frowned and sighed, "My parents have lived in the countryside all their lives, and they have been oppressed by money all their lives. When they heard about loans, they thought it was a big deal. I explained it, but they couldn't listen."

"Then don't let me go back to my mother's house, I didn't spend their money!" Although Gu Xiaoying has a lot of forgetfulness, she gets angry very quickly when she thinks of things that get angry, let alone this kind of thing that she will definitely get angry when she thinks about it. Flame thing. Guan Tong is completely helpless, and now he has discovered that apart from not being able to take care of each other, the worst consequence of living in two places is that they cannot effectively put out the fire face to face in the first time. The two parted ways again.

As soon as the phone was put down, it rang again. Gu Xiaoying was delighted when she saw the number—it was Gu's father and mother! "Girl," Gu's father's voice was as cheerful as ever, "How about calling Guan Tong?" "Don't mention it, this person is really good at bragging," Gu Xiaoying repeated Guan Tong's allusion of "I can give birth whenever I want, and I can give birth to whatever I want", and I laughed, "Dad, tell him How shameless!" "Theoretically speaking, it's not impossible," Gu's father laughed, "Then when are you going to give me a hug from my little grandson?" "Just wait," Gu Xiaoying kicked the ball out instantly, "Your son-in-law said it will be a year later." "Actually, it won't be a year later," Gu's father obviously couldn't wait, "I'm not by your mother's side, so your mother gave birth to you? Besides, after you're pregnant, tell us honestly, don't hide it. Although we haven't retired yet, aren't your parents-in-law rushing to accompany you?" "Oh, forget it, Dad, you are better than Guan Tong at depressing my enthusiasm!" Gu Xiaoying wailed, "He said it for so long that it was useless, and your words wiped out all my thoughts about having children Son! You are so great! Forget it, let’s wait for a year, when Guan Tong comes back, we will have a baby slowly.” "Why is your child always like this, you haven't made any progress at all?" Gu Shaoquan also had a big head, "You can't look down on the working people. If you think back three generations, everyone was born as a farmer." "I know, my grandfather is also a farmer, and my grandma is also a farmer..." Gu Xiaoying lay sprawled on the sofa and sighed, "If I really looked down on farmers, I wouldn't have married Guan Tong in the first place. He is simple and hardworking, and he is willing to be with him only when he struggles hard and is so motivated. You have seen it all these years, and I have been wronged a lot, right? Yes, at first I was ignorant and looking for trouble, but now I really think it would be good to marry a 'Phoenix man'. Don't tell me, although we still quarrel frequently, I just think that I am a good man, and no matter how good other men are, they are not suitable for me. So, my thoughts are really It’s very healthy. But Dad, let’s be realistic, good Guan Tong. It doesn’t mean that my father-in-law and my mother-in-law can talk together and have a common language. And on the contrary, my father-in-law and Comrade Guan Liming, that is It’s quite impossible to communicate. You know, just a few days ago, he told me that a loan of more than 100,000 yuan is a terrible thing, so in order to save money, he told me not to go home to see you and my mother during the National Day. , can save some money." "Haha," Gu Shaoquan finally couldn't help laughing, "What did Guan Tong say?" "How dare he say that?" Gu Xiaoying stared, "Anyone who dares to stop me from going home to see my own parents, I will kill him!" "You are planning to become a mother, so be cautious about what you say," Gu Shaoquan said cheerfully, "Come back, come back, I'll make sweet and sour fish for my girl!" "Hehe, let me just say, it's better for my parents." Gu Xiaoying smiled and flattered her. "Wait a minute and call your mother. If I talk to you and you don't let her talk, she will blame me when you turn around," Gu Shaoquan whispered, "Your mother is becoming more and more narrow-minded." "Who are you talking about?" A shout fell from the sky, and the phone changed hands in an instant, "Xiaoying, I'm going to the provincial capital for a meeting on Friday. If you want something, I'll bring it to you." "Ah! Really? Why didn't my dad say that just now?" Gu Xiaoying jumped up from the sofa, her eyes glowing green, "I want crabs, Mom, I also want autumn shrimp, and I also want my father's smoked fish , I want to..." "Slow down, slow down," Gu's mother was obviously looking for a pen and paper, complaining as she searched, "Gu Shaoquan, you've been rambling on for so long without talking about business, it's a dream to expect you to pass on a message... hey, find me a pen , he would just stare at me busy, why after so many years I still don’t have any vision at all..." Gu Xiaoying listened with great interest to Gu's mother scolding Gu's father, but Gu's father was obviously looking for a pen without complaint, and while looking for it, he justified: "Didn't I have time to say it?" Gu Xiaoying couldn't help laughing, and thought while laughing: Guan Tong still thinks his wife is nagging, looking for trouble, easy to get angry, and has a bad temper. This is hereditary, and she can't help it! Chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, plus constant small quarrels, small disputes, and women who are always nagging, and men who always think that women are nagging, but in fact they will become more and more nagging when they get older... These , is life, right?