Chapter 70 Section 1

In the early morning of April 2, 2006, He Lin gave birth to a baby girl a week early at Haidian Maternity Hospital. In the afternoon of the day before yesterday, I had labor pains, and I was close to the hospital. The uterine contraction was slow. It took the first half of the night to go from one finger to four fingers, and the pelvis was relatively narrow.He Lin never planned to have a section. She wanted to naturally squeeze the birth canal to make the child smarter and healthier, and she didn't want to leave an ugly scar on her stomach. But she really couldn't bear the long suffering. If you don’t pay attention, you may roll out of the bounds and you won’t be able to come back. In addition, the doctor has tirelessly instilled the necessity and benefits of caesarean section. There are basically no side effects other than reproduction.Of course, caesarean section will cost twice as much as natural childbirth.

So the chubby little girl who was crying all the way slipped out ahead of time when her mother was stabbed, her voice was so loud—well, first of all, make sure she is not dumb. Under the semi-numbing condition, He Lin felt her stomach collapse with a whirring sound, like a big bag that had been full all the time was suddenly emptied of its contents. Like the wrapping paper, it fell down.Then I was very happy when I heard the baby crying, I was relieved, I didn't care about the belly, I just wanted to see her, although I knew it was a girl, but it really doesn't matter if it's a girl, it must be healthy and good-looking , Don't have two noses, three eyes and six fingers!

The nurse hugged her to congratulate her, and showed her. He Lin was a little dumbfounded. There was a small lump of wrinkled skin, like a little old man. The asymmetrical face was still sticky and unclean. Mom Hey, why are you so ugly? ! The baby weighs 3.2kg, is 49cm tall, and has five fingers on each hand. Everything is healthy and normal.When she was washed by the nurse and then hugged, she looked very cute visually. The mother and daughter were pushed out and received a hero's welcome. Chuanzhi, Lao He, and aunt had been waiting since she entered the hospital the day before, nervously guarding most of the night.In the middle, Lao He went back to cook egg soup and put it in a thermos. The nurse explained that he would eat and drink after 12 hours of delivery, and his father would rather cook it first and wait.Chuanzhi was sent by his aunt to the street to buy supper, extra sanitary products, etc., and also prepared red envelopes for doctors and nurses. It was not much, but it was just a celebration, and it was meant to indirectly urge the medical staff to be more considerate. Take good care of yourself.

What makes He Lin sad is that her mother didn't come, her heart is not good, so she sent her sister to California to recuperate.He Lin understood that her kneeling had hurt her mother's heart, hurt her inner restraint and pride, and the sense of dignity that she had maintained all her life suddenly collapsed. The mother was angry, sad, and lost, but she could not forgive her son. Fortunately, an aunt stepped forward in time. This woman who is more arrogant and happier in the ordinary world is not like her sister who has grown a noble and fragile heart in the ivory tower for a long time-like a loach, mud, muddy water or clear water, Nothing can hide her active figure.Just like He Lin's delivery this time, she sat motionless outside the delivery room, confidently ordering her father and husband, who are closest to the pregnant woman by blood and legal relationship, to go around, and she would be reprimanded if she moved too slowly.A year later, my aunt told her: She had seen too much unscrupulous and ugly things outside the delivery room, the unpredictable heart changes faster than the clouds in the sky, and childbirth is the weakest, most helpless and most vulnerable time in a woman's life. She was worried that the doctor would suddenly come out and announce that the pregnant woman would be in danger, hemorrhage or something, and only one of the two lives could be saved—she had heard that too many men stood in front of the doctor at this time, hesitated, hesitated, and finally left their sons and gave up the life of the pregnant woman... ...Even as a daughter, she doesn't want that choice to happen.Although she doesn't have the right to sign, she has the right to supervise. If my uncle hesitates, she will immediately pounce on him and tear his face apart!The child is very cute, but she just wants to have the present and doesn't want to think about the future.And once the pregnant woman comes out, she must greet her with extraordinary joy and enthusiasm. Sometimes the new father doesn't like girls, so she has to remind and stimulate him with a double atmosphere: It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's rare if someone likes it!

Maybe many years later He Lin would burst into tears when she thought of this passage. Her own mother gave her a noble heart to distinguish right from wrong, a vision to understand the world and the most essential standard of good and evil, and this aunt taught her How she resists, survives, and lives in the dark corners of reality, how she deals with her own destiny and plight, and how she avoids harassment and harm.This is a very down-to-earth maternal love in the real world. Due to the caesarean section, her lower body was painful and she couldn't move. He Lin stayed in the hospital for seven days, until she got so annoyed that she had to go home arguing.The hospital is too crowded and noisy, not as spacious and quiet upstairs as my own.Yu Hua booked the most experienced confinement wife early in the morning, with a monthly salary of 5,000, enough to Chuanzhi's two-month income.Chuanzhi's salary has risen, and He Lin is grabbing his salary card. Of course, bonuses and other gray income are ignored.

Chuanzhi is quite critical, not because he doesn't feel sorry for his wife and children, but because he feels wronged from the bottom of his heart. It's not right to spend money or not. The mother takes over to serve the confinement, and it seems natural for the mother-in-law to serve the confinement. After all, they are their own grandchildren.Even if the grandma is patriarchal, but there is a son in the middle, and the son is precious to the daughter, can the grandma go against the trend of the son?In turn, it also makes up for the criss-cross relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and increases the emotion between grandparents and grandchildren.

It's a pity that this idea was not only fiercely opposed by He Lin, but even his father-in-law remained silent. At this time, the aunt who took the lead didn't even listen. I always thought it would be fine to pay me back, this confinement sister-in-law please! Women in confinement also expect their natal family to treat them better. Good steel is used wisely, and now there is no sequelae during the recovery period, and no amount of money is too much I gave birth to two sons, and now I have a grandson, no one understands women of this period better than me, if you don't want to fight, don't worry about it!"

So He Lin lived a confinement period that was happier and more stable than most other pregnant women.The 5,000 yuan monthly salary of the confinement sister-in-law, Jue Fei, was extravagant for her reputation: massage, breastfeeding, washing baby clothes, stewing pig's trotters, cooking longan and white fungus soup, chatting with pregnant women, teaching new mothers how to take care of babies, etc.Doing everything, almost never resting twenty-four hours a day.The baby sleeps during the day, and He Lin has to eat during the day, and at night, He Lin sleeps, but the baby is fussy, defecating and urinating at a very high frequency.Because the child's skin is too delicate and tender, and there are some suspicions of allergies, the diapers are airtight, and the little buttocks are red all day long. The confinement wife does not hesitate to use soft cotton cloth, and can change a lot in a day.In order to prevent the bacteria from the adults' clothes from being transmitted to the children, the confinement sister-in-law insisted on washing them by hand instead of using the washing machine.A bamboo pole was set up on the balcony on the second floor, and the hostess didn't care about being an obstacle to the view. A dozen white diapers and colorful clothes fluttered in the wind like thousands of national flags.

Wang Chuanzhi suddenly felt relieved. There was nothing else for him to do except go upstairs to tease the baby who loved to sleep in the sun. He thought it was his to wash the diapers and his wife’s clothes, but then the mother couldn’t see it and put He was rescued, now it seems that he does not need to thank his mother, but his aunt.He only needs to cook a delicious meal, and the confinement wife is not responsible for the family's meals, except of course the stewed soup for the mother to promote lactation.In order to take care of the baby, the confinement wife does not go downstairs at night, so Chuanzhi sleeps downstairs.Compared with the new dads of his colleagues who go to work with their heads full and black eyes, he can be regarded as a happy and relaxed dad. He can still concentrate on work, go to class energetically, and sleep soundly.Sometimes I think about it and feel good about myself.

The elder brother Chuanxiang sometimes came to do the laundry, and he would look at his younger brother and laugh.There is a strange balancing ability deep in the human heart, just like there is an air hole in a closed iron room to let people breathe happily, this dress is not so decent Work People who are not so respectable have sons, but younger brothers who live better have no. This makes this farmer, who is only a little better than the bottom of the society, somewhat indescribably proud and superior. The key is that the younger brother has no chance after having a daughter. After giving birth, the daughter will accompany him for the rest of his life.

Chuanzhi is not as depressed and pessimistic as the eldest brother imagined, what's wrong with having a daughter?There are so many high-class families in the city with only one girl, and they are happy to be alive! But what makes him feel pressured is to find a way to increase his income. Adding a family member is not as simple as hiring a high-paying nanny. A child’s small mouth is like a bottomless pit. It will take at least eighteen years to eat and wear clothes. A lot of expenses such as clothing, training, carrying, playing, and receiving education are a huge systematic project, but money is the first priority. He Lin also felt this kind of pressure, let’s talk about diapers, use them intermittently, a pack of more than 100 yuan, more than 30 tablets, if she urinates like this, she will lose 1,000 a month; milk powder, breast milk is not enough, Dumex, Mead Johnson, one bucket is only enough for half a month, and there are various invisible but necessary expenses.These numbers are just the beginning, and the latter is the stable consumption every month and every year.Therefore, this new mother has a rare understanding of the truth that the head of the family knows that oil and rice are expensive and that a smart woman can't cook without rice. She also thought of increasing income and reducing expenditure.This thought reminded me of the big house I live in now, and at the same time, I remembered a sentence my mother-in-law said: dung beetles occupy the top of the mountain, and I am blind to that good land!Now this piece of land can't be blinded, she has to revitalize it!So she said to the child's father clearly: "You have to buy a small house, you have to buy it even if you borrow money, rent this house out, and raise a daughter!" What's the use of being extravagant and wanting to save face after this meal?He completely offended his mother-in-law because He Lin was made to kneel during the Spring Festival last year, and He Lin didn't like to talk to him. Now that his wife ordered him, he naturally climbed up the pole. If he can ease the relationship, he will ease it.Immediately, he confessed to his wife flatteringly: he bought the house, he had good vision and good luck, he made a small profit when the stock market was blowing out a year ago, and now it has increased more than seventeen times. "How much?" "Cash out immediately, it's no problem to ask for 150,000!" "Okay, just buy a one-bedroom." Receiving the approval in his wife's eyes, Chuanzhi was very happy, and discussed with his father-in-law, and he had to bear the pain to clear the warehouse. Old He said: "That's fine. How much can you buy with a down payment of 150,000?" "He Lin wants a place to live." "I have children, can I live in a one-bedroom? No, I can buy a second-bedroom for 100,000 yuan?" Chuanzhi immediately reported the news to his wife.He Lin watched his face and called her father: "Dad, do you have the money to borrow and borrow the money you earn if you don't keep it for the elderly? Do you think that if you lend us the initial easily, we can easily repay it?" You? I still don’t have a clue about the 500,000 that I borrowed from you last time. You think we are a securities company if you borrow another 100,000! Let me tell you, the RMB depreciates year by year. I bought a decent small residence in the third ring, and now I have to go outside the fourth ring, maybe I can’t buy it in the fifth ring! If you have money, you can keep it for yourself. It’s good if we don’t miss you. Throw it into the wolf's den!" It's a good story, especially the 500,000 IOUs that he personally issued. No one mentioned it for so long, so I really forgot.This time, it was a bit unpleasant for my wife to take the initiative to bring up the nose instead of the nose and the face. He Lin, who became a mother, is no longer that ignorant little girl. After calling her father clearly, she called again in private. The source of the funds for her husband's stock trading is suspicious. She has to ask, and the matter of her husband's stock trading Ninth, it should be attributed to his father. Old He Ming said that he should guide my son-in-law to speculate in stocks. "Dad, when did Chuanzhi start speculating in stocks?" Old He didn't know what to do, "You two got married not long ago, when stock Only 1100 points. " "Where did he get the money?" "Isn't it your own money? I thought you gave him..." He Lin suddenly remembered that the cash she put in the drawer was always inexplicably missing, and she was obviously passive twice, but it was a pity that she was too innocent at that time, and she didn't know anything about money.That is to say, he speculated in stocks with the gift money from her natal family or the money from her eldest sister!If it wasn't for the opportunity to buy a house, he wouldn't even know he had a small coffers.No, let him take it out! Since his wife and children are well taken care of, Chuanzhi is free to go around showings Son, I don’t want to buy one that is too far away, this area is good, there are North Fourth Ring Road and North Fifth Ring Road the University Regardless of the district, there are high-rises like Zhongguancun. Technology A place to get together, and Beicheng has always been the place where Beijing has the upper hand. He was looking for a house here, and the family members in his hometown were also in high spirits and couldn't sit still. They wanted to come to Beijing to see their granddaughter.