Chapter 27 Section 1

He Lin and Chuanzhi kissed me affectionately again.After all, young people are very malleable, pouting their mouths and yelling sweetly: baby, piglet, pig head, honey, cook a few delicious meals, have two high-quality sex, and most likely reconcile as before.The so-called family ostrich, except for work and career planning, is generally passive in family affairs and rarely makes achievements.When there is a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I try my best to make love with each other, and coax both sides. If I coax well, I will be complacent.After the old lady left, Chuanzhi forgot about his past suspicions, and was able to focus on coaxing his wife until he no longer felt a sense of crisis.It's not easy.

He Lin saw her husband's hard work, but she couldn't forget the messy scene of her mother-in-law when she was there. Apart from being loving, she also learned to do ideological work: Please ask her mother-in-law to come less often. The reasons are as follows: 1. When the mother-in-law comes, the husband's primary status has changed from someone else's husband to someone else's son, and the husband's responsibilities and rights have also been adjusted to those of other people's sons.The wife can no longer see her husband, but only sees other people's sons, and is upset.

2. In my own home, I am the hostess. When the mother-in-law comes, the mother-in-law takes it for granted that she is also the hostess.One mountain cannot contain two tigers, unless one male and one female, the two women will quarrel over powers such as status, dominance, and personnel rights in this family, annoying! 3. At home, the daughter-in-law wants to see her husband busy for herself, but does not want to see this man around his mother, and the same goes for the mother-in-law.Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are jealous of each other, annoying! 4. The mother-in-law loves to praise her son too much, dotes on her son too much, and often inadvertently treats him as a child, which seriously affects the responsibility and obligation of the husband as someone else's "husband".internal injury!

5. The mother-in-law wants to control the son's money through blood relationship, which affects the wife's right to be the master of the house, and also violates the legal provisions of the joint property of husband and wife. Five for now. Chuanzhi agrees, explaining item by item: 1. That's my mother. It's hard for a son to forget his mother when he marries a daughter-in-law.Filial piety is the first philanthropic act of human beings. One must be filial piety. The so-called rebirth is not rebirth, and filial piety is the greatest of all good deeds.Not only be filial to my mother, but also be filial to your parents.

Second, mother-in-law and wife should love each other.The mother-in-law is old and can't do any work, and the daughter-in-law has to take care of her and be more open-minded to have a good life. 3. It is only natural for a mother to love her son.We are going to have a son, and you will also be a mother-in-law in the future.If your daughter-in-law complains about you like this, will you feel uncomfortable? 4. The mother-in-law is old and wants to rely on her son. The daughter-in-law is more generous and bears with her, and the husband will repay her. 5. The mother-in-law is only saving money for her son, but she is also saving money for her daughter-in-law in disguise.The mother-in-law is so old, why does she need money?The daughter-in-law is too sensitive and suspicious.

After explaining one by one, the clever Chuanzhi promised: in the future, the mother-in-law will be less likely to come, and she will not come if she can. He Linquan thought she had won.Then he talked about money, "In the future we will save money to buy a house." "It's not that there is no place to live." "House appreciation is fast now! Investing in anything these days is better than investing in real estate. The money comes in quickly! You see that you have worked for four or five months, and there is no penny left. From now on, we must save food and money. In the future, you will It’s 250 yuan a month, I’m 200, and I need to save the down payment. Then hand in your salary card, and I’ll arrange it.”

In this way, He Lin took over the family's financial power again. To get other people's wages, I have to eat two dates. At least I think it would be good for me to let you hold the money.So on weekends plus Mondays and Tuesdays, He Lin's company organizes employees to go out to play, and they can bring their families for free.He Lingao happily took Chuanzhi with him, and the large force marched to the wild hillside.Everyone toured the mountains to see the scenery, rode horses, took slides, ate roasted whole lamb, and lived in mountain villas.On a very hot day, the temperature in the mountains is like an air conditioner, and it is naturally shady and cool, and the air is surprisingly good. The negative oxygen ions all over the hillside make a group of people go crazy and waste a lot of camera batteries.This young couple is as gluey as paint, it's time to spend their honeymoon.Originally, I had planned to go to Phuket or Hainan Island, and I also considered going to my sister’s house in California, USA, but I just didn’t have the money left.Chuanzhi also felt guilty. His salary was spent while his mother and sister were living together, and he even took the train ticket with him when he left. The value of his card was close to negative. No wonder He Lin was angry.

Because of this, he doesn't need his wife to coax him, it will be fine automatically.The two came back from the wild hillside leisurely, okay, saved a lot of money.I'm married, and I know how to use oil, salt, rice vinegar and tea. If I can't spend two, I have to plan. But He Lin found out that Chuanzhi was always calling behind her back, and it took him a long time to talk, so he must be talking to his family, sneakily.He Lin didn't like him like this, and didn't like that his family was still clinging to him so far away, but there was nothing she could do. One day Chuanzhi said with a smile on his face, "During the summer vacation, my younger brother Chuanlin wants to come and play."

He Lin's heart sank, and her heart ached for the fifteen hundred yuan she had just saved in her account.She knew this family somewhat, they were the masters who went to the Three Treasures Hall for everything, and when she first went to her in-law's house, her mother-in-law still vaguely asked her husband behind her back for money for this younger brother to go to school. "Why doesn't he go home? He should miss your mother after being away for so long!" He Lin was careful not to stimulate her husband's sensitive heart. "His second brother is in Beijing and has settled down. Come and have a look. I'm glad."

He Lin finally couldn't help but muttered: "Do we have to pay for the travel expenses? Are we still saving the rent?" Chuanzhi suppressed his temper and snorted, "You can't be too repulsive to my family, right? My younger brother just planned to visit me in the summer vacation, and you thought of the travel expenses. Why did you get into money after work? How do you know that he has no travel expenses to borrow from us? Even if you save this travel expenses, can you buy the house that has disappeared immediately?" "You can save a lot of money!" "Save! Save! You only know about saving now, but that's my younger brother, a compatriot!"

He Lin is dumbfounded, now she fully understands how irrational her husband is, as long as his family, his mother and brothers and sisters are involved, he maintains it sensitively and worriedly, as if she can hurt them.He can show his family his heart and soul, but for her wife, he thinks that she is living a good life now, with food, drink, work and income, and he still accommodates her so much, she is so dissatisfied, jealous and interferes with him. concern for his family. "Then how much do you earn a month? What about the money you've earned since you got married? Isn't it all spent on your family?" Chuanzhi walks away. He Lin was so angry that she grabbed the chocolate and ate it piece by piece.She hates him for avoiding problems like this, hates how his face becomes so ugly when he mentions his family, hates him for considering his family more important than her! Fortunately, this unhappiness is just a small episode, work must go on, life must go on, she has learned that things are over when they are over, and she should eat, eat, drink, drink.The following days became boring for a while, and a surprise appeared like a pie falling from the sky.One day at noon, I received a call from the post office, saying that she had a package.I deliberately got off work early and ran to the post office to see a big box. I moved it home and opened it, and a woodpecker about one foot long showed its simple and playful head.Oh, her surprise and surprise. Designers generally have an instinctive aesthetic and interest in shapes and colors. This woodpecker is visually simple and even austere. A large piece of wood cannot be said to be smooth on the outside. The form of the relief has been treated with the visual outline of the body. The head, eyes and folded wings can barely be distinguished, and it is decorated with gray and brown red. Most of them are still in the original color of wood. At first glance, it looks like a fire stick or unfinished The job is really too simple.But it is this primitive, rough and simple energy that grabs people. As the first wedding gift from the sister-in-law who had never met, one of the two wood carvings was grandly placed in the most eye-catching position in the bedroom by He Lin, and the other was reluctantly given to his younger brother He Chong.During the banquet, when the woodpecker was taken away by the eldest sister's child, Xiaohuzi, she felt distressed and angry-this also indirectly affected her later bad attitude towards the eldest sister and little Huzi.Bad emotions are accumulated. Now she forgot the previous suspicion, took the initiative to ask Chuanzhi for her sister-in-law's phone number, and dialed, "Ah, Hongxia, I'm He Lin, your sister-in-law. I received the package from you, oh, I like it so much! Thank you, thank you!" Inside was a girl's soft voice, a little hoarse, not as enthusiastic as hers, a little timid, "Hi, sister-in-law! Oh, there is nothing to give, as long as you like it, it is produced by my factory. Before For a while, I heard from my brother that yours was taken away by my sister’s child. Alas, don’t be angry, that child is like that. As long as he likes something, he must get it. Alas, I didn’t manage it well. I Most of the various animal wood carvings produced in the factory here are exported and made to order. The boss is rather stingy and won’t let them take them. Only when there is a return, the employees will have a chance.” "Then, you have to spend money, too?" "Not many, internal employees, the boss is too embarrassed to earn our money. We will also ask us to pick some small wood carvings during the holidays. I will send them to you later." "Oh, thank you Hongxia!" "Sister-in-law, you are welcome. You usually take good care of my second brother. My second brother is honest. Sometimes he is not very good at expressing, but his heart is definitely good." "Well, that's right. I heard from your brother that you are going to Beijing to play, right?" "Well, I've been there. A few days ago when the company wasn't too busy, I took a break and walked around Beijing with a few friends. Tiananmen Square is so big! I finally saw it." "Why didn't you come home?" "My mother, my sister, and the little tiger have all lived with you for so long and caused you so much trouble. You should also take a good rest. You are usually tired from work, so I am afraid to disturb you..." "You are too polite... a family..." "My sister-in-law will have a chance in the future. You can call me when you arrive in Guangzhou. I know you well here. I will take you shopping..." Unexpectedly, the youngest girl in the Wang family, who is only twenty years old but has been working outside for four years, is the most sensible, understands righteousness, and is neither humble nor overbearing.He Lin happily told Chuanzhi about this big discovery: "You little girl, your temperament is really different from your family's. I just like her on the phone." "That's right, if my younger sister didn't have difficulties in her family, she could go to college like you, perhaps better than you." Chuanzhi was very happy and full of interest when he heard that his wife recognized his family. "Your family favors sons over daughters! You and your younger brother can both work, but your little sister has gone out to work at the age of sixteen. She is a child laborer!" "That can't be helped. My mother naturally thinks that men are more important than women going to school." "Your mother is too eccentric!" "Oh, I will pay for everything, even if my mother is exhausted." "Then why is your mother raising so much? You can't pay for it!" Chuanzhi hit her with a pillow, "Who told your mother to have fewer babies, so jealous!" "Hey, my younger brother He Chong is out of the plan. He didn't get registered permanent residence until he was ten years old, so my mother's work is so hard. My father used to work in a state-owned enterprise and gave him an ultimatum not to let him do it, so My dad, a family-loving man, has completely shifted his work focus to the family, so he has become a Shanghai man." Chuanzhi said: "Hongxia and Chuanlin were also superborn, but at that time the rural areas were not too strict, and fines were fined." "I just can't figure it out. Isn't it a vicious circle that the poorer you live in this rural area, the poorer you live? As far as your family is concerned, if there are only you and Hongxia, Hongxia shouldn't have to go out to work so early, right? Sixteen years old It’s not easy for a girl, the place in Guangzhou is chaotic.” Chuanzhi was silent. He didn't have a deep impression of this little sister. She went to school since she was a child, and lived in school since she was in junior high school. There are many brothers and sisters in the family, so I haven't really seen her well.But part of his college money came from her factory.Suddenly seeing his wife admiring this younger sister who had almost forgotten her so much, I felt really guilty. He Lin put the woodpecker in the most eye-catching position on the table, and looked at it every day, and she didn't feel so disgusted with her husband's family anymore.