Chapter 26 Section 12

Before nine o'clock that day, my aunt brought He Lin back home.Because it was the weekend, Chuanzhi was also at home, watching TV.His little nephew didn't dare to watch the TV anymore, so he was blowing soap bubbles in the corridor to play.His mother and sister were cooking chicken drumsticks in the kitchen. As soon as Yu Huaqing entered the room, "Whose child is this, playing so much fun! He Lin, you rented the first floor to someone else? How much is it a month?" Chuanzhi turned his head and was stunned. The daughter-in-law brought the number one shrew back without moving her parents-in-law. His mind went blank for a moment, and he forgot to say hello.On the contrary, his sister heard the movement, looked out from the kitchen, and saw a well-dressed, bright-eyed old woman standing in front of her sister-in-law, looking at him coldly, she felt familiar, but she didn't remember who it was.We met each other when my younger brother was having a banquet at his wedding. It was a busy time to patronize, so I don't remember it.So she called her mother.Mrs. Wang remembered that she had a face similar to that of her mother-in-law, but her temperament was different.Jiang is still old and hot, so she opened her mouth and came: "Auntie, here you go, let's eat, let's have breakfast together! I woke up late today, ate late..."

"You eat, you eat, I eat early, I'm old, and I can't sleep late. I'll come and see if there's anything wrong with the house," Yu Huaqing said in a loud and clear voice, "He Lin said that I can't open it, Crowded, I thought the first floor was rented out to someone else. Why is it crowded if you didn’t rent it to someone else? There is a small building of more than 300 square meters in such a good location in Beijing, go enjoy it! Most people here struggle all their lives to have a The place where she stays is not bad! She is young, what are you thinking, her parents regret giving her such a big house now, she just graduated and got married, so let’s rent a house and go slowly! Young people don’t pass by You can't become a master if you don't encounter some difficulties through training!"

As Yu Huaqing said, he inspected the corridor, "Tsk tsk, it's so dirty, why don't you know how to cherish it? Now the house price in this area is close to 10,000, let's not talk about renting it out for 10,000 to 20,000 a month. " Wang Chuanzhi didn't even hear clearly because he was too nervous.Mrs. Wang can understand, this is to speak.Not stage-frightened, she immediately took off her apron and sat on the sofa in the living room, "Auntie, things belong to the children now, and the children live their own lives. We adults can't say anything about how things are going..."

Yu Huaqing walked over and sat opposite the old lady, "The child lives on his own—that's what we planned to marry He Lin's building at the beginning. We love the girl here, and don't want the girl to bear the mortgage for 20 or 30 years as soon as she gets married. , Monthly reminders to repay the bank loan; we also love my uncle, it is not easy for young people, and it is really not easy to gain a foothold in Beijing. Every year in Beijing, more than 100,000 college students leave school, and the famous college students on the street grab one by one. Damn, there are really not many people who can really get out in this city! We love my uncle, a boy who has nothing, and Gu Xiao’s family has to take care of work when he just got married. Get married, solve my uncle’s worries! The woman leaves the house, and it’s not counted as the man stepping in! In Beijing, a man with a Beijing hukou wants to marry a wife if he doesn’t have a house?! Hehe, you know it without telling me, it’s the same as in rural areas, If you marry someone else’s girl and don’t come up with some real money, who’s girl will dump you! Chuanzhi, is that so? Given you this house, did your parents-in-law ask you for anything else?”

Chuanzhi was a little ashamed, and said "uh" and "uh" twice in a daze. Old Mrs. Wang was like a mirror in her heart, knowing that the other party was talking about the house, she was neither humble nor overbearing, "My in-laws are broad-minded and can think about the children - anyway, this house is given to them, and they can't go back if they go back. With my son's name..." Yu Huaqing immediately grasped this point, "The house has jointly named Chuanzhi. First, we think that Chuanzhi is a good person, worthy of our joint name and marrying He Lin to him; second, Chuanzhi is a man, so we have to worry about him as a man. Otherwise, we will live and eat at the mother-in-law’s house, like a soft food—we have taken this into consideration so as not to embarrass the children. Ordinarily, He Lin’s parents are more qualified to live in this house, It’s not because there are too many people, there will be conflicts between generations, and the young couple’s life will be unhappy—the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are born unhappy, and the son-in-law and parents-in-law are also born unhappy. If people do not know themselves, there will be more unhappy things Right, Chuanzhi, your parents-in-law didn’t say anything and didn’t show you anything when they gave you this house, right?”

Wang Chuanzhi blushed like a red flag, and said "uh" and "uh" twice. Mrs. Wang couldn't bear it anymore when she saw her son was so ugly, "The countryside in our country is no better than the city. We raise a child with shit and piss, and then sell pots and iron for him to go to school. I begged my grandpa to sue my grandma to borrow money everywhere——My family Another special situation, five children, and his father died early, all the responsibility fell on me, a woman! I didn’t wear cotton shoes when I went to dig the ground in winter. It was too hot to wear and I worked every day. Hard work... all the work and all the hardships in my family have been suffered by myself. Now that I am old and I can hardly do the work anymore, relying on my son, what is there to say?"

"Not too much, nothing to say!" Yu Huaqing strongly agreed, "Old sister, you are more blessed than me! You still have five children, it's hard work, but five children are lost, and one child depends on two months. It’s almost the end of the year! I only have two sons, and they were brought up with a lot of shit and urine, but none of them said that they would support me or pick me up when they were old, they were all fucking selfish Live your own happy little life! They still live in my house temporarily! They are all sons, why is there such a big difference? Compared with you, Chuanzhi is filial to you, and you get married right after graduation. I live in a big house in the big house, and I feel empty and bring my old lady to live with me! Old sister, I am not as good as you in raising a son, and I am not as good as you in raising a son! You just lived in your wife’s villa when you were 60 years old. No chance! You still know how to educate!"

Qingxia couldn't hold back, "My younger brother is not bad, he is a good-looking person with a high IQ. How many of us can be admitted to a university in Beijing? Now he has been admitted to a national civil servant as soon as he graduates. He has a solid job and good benefits. , and there are three risks. This condition is not much different from that of Beijingers, you don’t need to point fingers at Sang and talk about Huai, as if we are flattering you.” He Lin was so angry that she was about to refute, but was stopped.Yu Huaqing rolled Qingxia's eyes and said without saying anything, "We adults talk about family affairs, what do you say for the younger generation? You have to act like a relative if you live in a relative!"

Little Huzi, who was blowing soap bubbles in the aisle, saw that his mother was robbed, and suddenly said: "Don't you fucking talk nonsense at my uncle's house, we live at my second uncle's house!" As soon as these words came out, everyone was shocked.Yu Huaqing was not angry, stood up, walked in front of the child, raised his hand and slapped his face, and said loudly to the child's mother's screams: "There is no such thing as a tutor, and you have your share! Ask your uncle if he dares to insult me ​​like that!" ?” Qingxia ran over, hugged the child, glared sideways, "Why did you hit my child?"

"Educate him for you." "Do you need education?" "You can't educate well, I will educate, and others will have to educate in the future." Then he went back to the living room as if nothing had happened. At this moment, He Lin admired this little aunt to death. She spoke concisely and acted quickly, and immediately suppressed the arrogance of the whole room.Even the child didn't dare to cry after being slapped, let alone rolled on the ground. Mrs. Wang continued her daughter's meaning: "I dare not say that my family's biography is one in a thousand, but it is definitely a talent! I think that when thousands of troops crossed the single-plank bridge in the college entrance examination, my son was the number one in the district! Even the township mayor I came here to congratulate you in a small car... now I have graduated from a bachelor's degree and joined the government..."

Wang Chuanzhi flushed with shame. Yu Huaqing looked sideways at his niece, "He Lin, do you understand, everything we pay is a matter of course! Because his son is noble and worth the price! Thinking about what I said at the beginning, firstly, girls look for The in-law’s family must be well-matched, if not, buy a pig and watch the pen! Whether the pig is good or not has a direct relationship with the pen; second, the marriage must be married, and the daughter-in-law who spends 2 million is married with 20 yuan There is a world of difference! Let’s talk about cash gifts and meeting gifts, you must, and you can’t give less, otherwise people will not value you! A daughter-in-law who doesn’t spend money will think that you are in a rush to marry, and they won’t feel sorry for you at all. ;Third, among other things, you are an undergraduate student, the daughter of a university professor, it is a mistake to find an undergraduate student! In marriage, a man looks down for dignity; a woman should look up, If you don’t want a Ph.D., you have to be a master’s student, and low-income civil servants can’t even consider it. Once you get married, you have to think about living a stable life, having children, and raising children. Children, can a man give birth to you? Can you take your surname? What is the picture? Ah? Why don’t you just plan a good life!” Mrs. Wang: "My son is a talent. He will earn a lot of money and become a high-ranking official in the future. The mountains are not built in a day, and the rivers are not dug in a day. Sooner or later, you have to enjoy it..." She didn't finish speaking until her son stopped him. . Yu Huaqing raised his face, "Ha, what big officials? How old are the officials? Beijing lacks everything but no officials. Eight people were shot to death with a brick in the street, at least four division chiefs, three section chiefs and half a minister. The streets are smelly! In the future? Sooner or later? Where is all this? Anyway, the family is in trouble now, and your family bullies one of your daughter-in-law, isn’t it because she is an outsider?" The eldest sister argued again: "Let's be reasonable, whose family bullied her? She also beat others less..." "Didn't hit you, you can talk, the whole family is around her, if she doesn't resist, she is waiting to be beaten to death by you?! Didn't you also get beaten at your in-law's house but ran here to avoid disaster? The scar is not healed Just forget about the pain? Doesn’t it feel humane?” Mrs. Wang finally said: "Okay, my son's house can no longer live, I will leave tomorrow!" "You don't live in your son's house, you live in your daughter-in-law's house!" "What's the difference between a son's family and a daughter-in-law's family, isn't it a family?" "Yo, there's a big difference! If your son built this home, your tone of voice is really tough and your back is straighter. After all, your son also has a back to support you. The wife's house, let you live It's love, and it's duty not to let you live. What kind of family relationship is there between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Without your son in the middle, who do you know? With your son in the middle, you have to live under the same roof and be forced to be relatives. ?” Old Mrs. Wang has been killed. All her theories, such as the son is her own, the daughter-in-law is her own, etc., not only do not buy it, but they are also resolved one by one.Looking at the person in front of him who refuses to eat oil and salt, and refuses to eat hard and soft, he probably came prepared, while his son kept silent at the side, couldn't help sighing, and said something heartfelt: "If I marry a rural wife Well, those who know the cold and the hot will not be subject to this kind of anger. According to the customs, rural daughters-in-law should still respect and be filial to their mother-in-law, what good is it to climb others?" Yu Huaqing was also heartbroken, "Old sister, you are right. If you are able to marry a rural wife, you will really enjoy yourself! At least the rural daughter-in-law comes from an ordinary background and has little education, so I don't think there are many chances to find a good job." , and no house for dowry! Compared with your son, he is far worse in all aspects. In order to curry favor with your relatives, he treats your son like an ox like a horse, serves you, and serves your other children. I guess he will admit it. It is also in line with rural customs. But first of all, your son broke this custom first, and he was unwilling to find someone with a lower family background than yours. He had to come to our family He Lin! To find our family He Lin, of course, we have to follow modern rules, not according to The customs of your family. In fact, according to the customs of your family, you are also wrong. Marrying a daughter-in-law in a traditional rural area still requires a house, three gold, a few big things, and a meeting gift that can be handed. The two figured out their own way, wanted to provide for the elderly, and thought about tradition and customs. In fact, regardless of traditional customs or modern times, whatever is in your favor! Sister, you have lived a long time, so don’t be sorry! ?” The old lady cried, and she didn't feel that she was guilty. She never said that others, children, especially her son, didn't speak for her. This round ended with Yu Huaqing's complete victory.Let it go when you see it, the purpose is not to divorce, but to beat the dog in the water.General Chang Sheng of the Yu family got up to leave, and took his niece to leave.It's not okay to walk like this. When he reached the door, Yu Huaqing turned his head again and said to the son-in-law who had been dumbfounded: "I will take your wife away first, and you will pick her up when the house is tidy. If it takes too long, I will take her away personally." Send it back!" So He Lin followed her aunt and disappeared at the door. Mrs. Wang burst into tears, beating herself while crying, "Sin, what good is my son who has worked so hard to raise! I can't be a family, I can't support my mother, and I will drive my mother out after marrying a daughter-in-law—— " Qingxia also cried, because her son was wronged, and because her younger brother couldn't stay at home any longer, and she was going back to the old Liu's house in the countryside, that lawless, lawless, warm wolf's lair!And I wanted to change my destiny, so I applied for three nannies, but none of them called to ask for it... Isn't this a dead end? "Son, do you think it's easy for your mother to raise you? I think back when you were living in high school, the money was spent, and the door was closed in heavy snow. Your mother ran to give you money and pickles! Isn't it true? I'm afraid you'll be wronged because you're hungry... My son, you've only been married for a few days, and you thought your mother was a burden, so you drove your mother out. Do you think your mother can still work in the fields after she's over sixty? ? Sigh, my mother hurts my son, I can take out my heart, if I want my son to be filial to the old, I can't even point to it with a little finger!" Wang Chuanzhi knelt down on one leg, and wept with his mother, "Mother, what do you think, you want me to leave, okay, I will go through the formalities with her today! Let's move out!" Mrs. Wang froze for a moment, "Silly boy, why did you move out? This house has your name, so you have to live in it! They let the mother go, if the mother is not welcome, the mother will make room for her. You Why move away?" Wang Chuanzhi cried again, "Mother, I feel bad for you leaving like this!" The old lady helped her son up, "Son, just know what your mother has suffered for you, just don't forget it, just don't forget the old lady who ate chaff and swallowed vegetables in the broken house with air leaks around the walls when you ate meat." , then it’s worth it for me to raise a child! You have to live a good life, and you don’t have to worry about running out of firewood if you keep the green hills. I believe that one day my son will be a high-ranking official and earn a lot of money. It’s a good house, and then take out the seventy-eighty-year-old mother! My son, you must have this heart!” Wang Chuanzhi nodded violently as he wept violently. The old lady just gave up, stopped crying and making trouble, and went back to her room to rest.Qingxia seized the opportunity to say a few words to her younger brother, but was pushed back by her younger brother, "What are you talking about? Wherever you go, you bring the mess, why did you bring him here? He doesn't have his own home? It's because you have too much to do! " Qingxia hurriedly pulled her son back to the room. Wang Chuanzhi felt so uncomfortable, scratching his heart, feeling humbled and failed, his wife didn't understand, and his wife fell apart in front of others.Angry at my own family, my son just got married and his foundation is shallow, and he doesn’t have enough accumulation. When he first arrived at his son’s house, he wanted to be the master of the house. Don't know where to restrain yourself?Make yourself difficult! The daughter-in-law is also hypocritical, squeamish, and selfish, and cannot tolerate her own family.Is it too big to live in such a big house?The mother-in-law is not idle, cooking, sanitation, washing clothes, cleaning the room, everything is done, and there is no end to the trifles that are trivial and trivial, and she runs out and runs to her mother's house every now and then. Husband's family.How are you doing this day?Don't you just say you love your husband?Isn't this husband raised by his mother?If you love your husband, you can't love Wu Jiwu and be more tolerant to his family?Is it okay to open one eye and close one eye?Is it love to reject her husband's family?What kind of love is it?Besides, married, married, no matter what form, you have to get closer to your in-laws, right?What else would you do if you were still married?Make your husband ashamed in front of his family! He Lin was also angry at her natal family. Chuanzhi was fine with everything, but why did she suddenly become another person in front of his family?Unprincipled, obedient to his family, especially his mother, like a pug, obedient with no personality, no distinction between right and wrong.And the more he guards his family, the colder he is towards his wife, and he also likes to show a certain desire to dominate. What do you want to prove?To prove that his family is noble?Or use this way of not caring about your wife to show a comfortable masculine dignity and pride?Or prove in front of your family that you are still your original self and have not empathized with others?It's really hard for his family to understand. They can't see how well their son treats his wife. Once the son and daughter-in-law are at odds, how much success they will achieve.What a goddamn harmonious family nemesis!This is the legendary hidden third party?It seems that the story of Xiaoya's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also staged in his own home to some extent. The mother-in-law is vaguely becoming that kind of tough third party?Without a husband to balance, this family is not good! But at last the mother-in-law is leaving, and the incident has reached this point, and the number of people has fallen on her face, so she can't do it if she doesn't leave.Mother is gone, Chuanzhi should return to normal—smart, rational, gentle, hardworking, with independent personality and wise discernment, right?Then he should go to his mother-in-law's house to plead guilty, make a deep self-criticism, and then invite his wife back.Hmph, let him suffer for sure, and never let him go lightly! What she didn't expect was that the wait was ten days.Waiting anxiously, impatiently, remorse, even a little disappointed, cold hearted. Originally, three days after his mother left, Chuanzhi missed his wife, and the house was empty, so he had to go to his mother-in-law's house to make amends.Mom is gone, life has to go on, right?Men are sometimes an ostrich policy. They say which step to go, especially when it comes to household chores. Now they have been pushed to the door of his wife's mother's house, and a call came from his hometown. It was the second uncle, who was furious, and scolded him bloody on the phone: "Chuanzhi, I really didn't expect you to be able to make your mother die." The mother-in-law was kicked out of your house directly! As the saying goes, a child does not think his mother is ugly, and a dog does not think his family is poor. Are you still a human?! That’s when you were born in October, and you were dragged away by shit and piss The mother who grew up and sold iron for you to go to college! You have a hard heart?! Drive your mother out of the house overnight, what's the use of raising you, a fool! Even your mother can't protect you, let your wife and her Family bullying, you are your mother's own son, you can't support her to grow up! What's the use of raising you, a white-eyed wolf? Daughter-in-law is nothing! There are so many women, and you are also a member of the government after you finish college. Are you worried about not having a wife? But you only have one mother! How could you cheat your mother for a woman? Your daughter-in-law, the thing you were looking for, I thought it was not a good thing from the beginning. Wa, if you don’t teach this unfilial daughter-in-law a lesson, how can she expect to be sensible! An incompetent daughter-in-law fan! Even sheep know how to kneel and breastfeed. Do you, a bastard, feel that you are out of the countryside, and even your mother despises you?! I knew that, What kind of education did you have at the beginning? It’s fine to plant an acre of land at home and suffer. It’s not that the more you know, the more money you make, the less conscientious! Think about your dead father, you stupid and unfilial thing, the government found out No, I will go to Beijing to sue you on behalf of my sister, and petition your superiors to investigate you, so that you will not be able to live a good life..." Chuanzhi was sweating profusely, every word and every word gnawed at his heart.For a while, I also felt that I had forgotten my roots and finally climbed up from the bottom of poverty. I didn't care enough for my family, especially my wife.Presumably the mother ran back to her natal home and cried to the two brothers.Thinking of the gray-haired mother crying in front of outsiders, Chuanzhi couldn't help but feel sour. This mother who raised five children when she was young and was a widow when she was old has dedicated her life to several children. There is someone who stands out, save this impoverished family... Thinking of the hardships of life in the countryside, the suffering of his mother, and the few acres of cornfields relying on her rough, callused hands, Chuanzhi's eyes are moist, and his heart is full of joy. Bitterness, memory and guilt fill the brain.For three days, I didn't think about He Lin. After this momentum, life is still going on, my mother is gone anyway, no matter how regretful it is, it will not help, just make up for it in the future.I have to go to my mother-in-law's house to invite my wife. Calls from my uncle came one after another. Unlike my second uncle, who has a hot temper, my uncle speaks in a gentle and drizzle manner: "Chuanzhi, your mother is sick and getting old, and you have been on the train all night. I'm a little angry with you. Go home and have a look when you have time. It's not easy for your mother to make you grow up. Alas, it's not your uncle who said you, a little married and forgot your mother! It's okay if your family is not good, now you are truly filial How many good daughter-in-laws are there? But the son is unfilial, but people point to the spine and scold! Your old mother said: If the daughter-in-law is not filial, don’t blame the daughter-in-law, and blame the son, the son is useless! I am thinking about the same reason: one is You are not married to a filial daughter-in-law, and the second is that you can’t support yourself, and you can’t suppress your daughter-in-law! Chuanzhi, we don’t like this. You work slowly on the wife’s side, if you can do it, you have to do it if you can’t. , This mother needs to be raised! Your mother is too old to work for a few years, and you still want to exhaust her to death! Although you have five brothers and sisters, you are the only one who confessed, and you are the most capable, no Who do you rely on? You can’t collect hundreds of dollars a year for an acre of land at home. You sit in an office, and it’s easy to earn money. Straighten things out, and then think of a way, okay nephew?" Chuanzhi's brain was full for another three days.In the countryside, the uncle is considered a very authoritative elder. When there is a family conflict, the uncle is usually asked to mediate. The mother's brother, the father's peer, the relationship is close and detached, and respected.Under normal circumstances, everyone buys their uncle's account, and they also follow this set.Therefore, he was reprimanded and advised by two uncles successively. Chuanzhi also took it for granted, and made a deep self-reflection. So he delayed until the tenth day before he knocked on his mother-in-law's door slowly. Lao He and his wife had complained about my uncle's late arrival, but they finally resolved the problem with sincerity, and they welcomed it happily.As usual, Lao He cooks in person; as usual, anyone who comes to the house to cook must eat together, and Chuanzhi will also help in the kitchen.In the kitchen, the two men who walked together because of their in-law relationship were very polite. The modest old He first made a self-criticism, saying that his daughter was more spoiled at home and had a bad temper. He also hoped that the young couple would respect and love each other in the future. Tolerate and understand each other.What he said was from the bottom of his heart, and Chuanzhi was very moved, so he naturally agreed, and promised that after he became a regular civil servant, he would take the postgraduate entrance examination, study hard, earn more money and live a good life with He Lin, etc.In fact, what Lao He and his wife like is the uncle's self-motivation. Who knows who is quick to talk, Yu Huaqing also came to join in the fun.Chuanzhi felt dizzy when he saw this shrew. Uploading a blog at the dinner table was very attentive, served tea and water, took chopsticks, and helped He Lin with everything. He was considerate and well-behaved, and he apologized eight times in private.Lao He and his wife also cooperated to drive their daughter away, preventing her from living in her mother's house. Reserved and reserved, He Lin is also very happy to go back to live as a husband and wife.On the other hand, Yu Huaqing started making troubles at the dinner table and took the opportunity to educate my uncle: "Chuanzhi, you are all married and have established a small family. Of course, a good man puts his family first and will raise children in the future. Honoring your parents is of course a must." Filial piety, filial piety means you have to live together? Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and the relationship is not an ordinary difficulty. Many people get married because their mother-in-law interferes in it! Together all day, it’s not that the east wind overwhelms the west wind, Even if the west wind overwhelms the east wind, and a fire at the city gate brings fish in the pond, your life will not be much easier! You have many brothers and sisters, and your mother may not necessarily be at your house. High, it’s not easy to raise one more person! The living standard in the countryside is a bit low, and there are few places to spend money. The key is that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can’t see each other and everyone lives in peace. You see, I’m not ten stops away from my son’s house Land, I don't like to go, why go to other people's house? Is it to see the face of the daughter-in-law or to see the face of the daughter-in-law? Relatives, the smell is far away and the smell is near. If you can't get together, you must separate. Go for a walk during the New Year and give money to the two to have fun. It's fine for anyone to have a good-looking face. Let's say you are more talkative and face-saving parents-in-law. If you come to the door every day to invite you to eat, sit and drink, you will get annoyed when you grow up!" After hearing Chuanzhi, it made sense. Most of my classmates in Beijing did this, so the guilt towards my family gradually subsided, so I went down the donkey, and took He Lin home after dinner.