Chapter 13 Section 13

At that time, He Lin was also sitting comfortably at the table drinking porridge, rice, black rice, red beans, dates and mixed beans, mixed with a cucumber and two cloves of garlic.According to my aunt, the past two days have been too greasy, so clean the intestines. Old He asked his daughter: "Why did you come back early in the morning and not eat at your house?" He Lin said: "His relatives are all there, I can't get along, and they are all leftovers, I don't like to eat." My aunt asked, "Who cooked the rice?" "His mother." Old He: "That's your mother-in-law!"

Yu Huaming: "We're all in the same family, we have to learn to tolerate and respect each other!" Yu Huaqing was far less disciplined, and continued to ask: "His relatives are like wolves, when will they leave?" "If people don't say leave, I don't have the nerve to ask." "Hey, why are you embarrassed to ask? You are embarrassed to ask when you eat, drink, and scatter at your house? Are you useless?" He Lin's mother and Lao He got dressed and were about to go out.He Lin's father walked towards his daughter with a stack of Mao Zedong, but was picked up by his sister-in-law halfway. "What do you give back, you will get moldy if you leave it?"

"It's enough to have a balance of income and expenditure. Old friends who have been friends for many years have a chance to get together. How can they earn the girl's gift money?" "There's no way to give it, and it's not for her to spend it alone. Let my sister open another account and save it for her, right?" He Lin didn't raise her head, she didn't pay for the gift money she received for the wedding, and she didn't care about it.So the 20,000 to 30,000 yuan was pushed back by my aunt, a busy person.As soon as Lao He and his wife went out, the shrewd woman turned her gun: "There are more than one table in Chuanzhi's hometown, did you give you the gift money?"

"No, anyway, all the gifts from my classmates and friends have been handed over to me." "What about his classmates and friends?" Shake your head. He Lin's casual expression made my aunt unhappy, "You will be the hostess of this family in the future. No matter how much the finances are, why can't you control them confidently? If you spend a penny in this family, you have to know where it goes! Don't control it Why do you want to get married? You have to ask him for the gift money from his family. It was originally money for your marriage! But when his family married a daughter-in-law, they didn’t spend a cent of the banquet money, and took away the gift money? What is our family? ? Your small family needs to have a start-up capital."

Alas, He Lin ate nothing. She always thought her aunt was vulgar, but she never thought it was as vulgar as it is today. It doesn’t matter if you want that little money. If you want it, you won’t be rich and you won’t be poor. , why didn't she stop talking about learning from her own mother! "If you don't come back to his house, they will think you are easy to bully, and they will treat you endlessly in the future. It's not scary to have many poor relatives, but you have to establish rules first, so as not to fill up the holes in the future. If you don't stand up now, it will be too late in the future! "

He Lin once understood why this aunt's husband ran away with someone a few years ago.Maybe it's because of that tight mouth, nagging and mean. Perhaps realizing that his attitude was a bit too much, Yu Hua calmed down a bit, "I said He Lin, how does your mother-in-law treat you?" "Okay." "What do you mean okay?" "Neither good nor bad." "You have to take the opportunity to tell her: she has three sons, even if the rural people don't rely on their daughters to support them, the three brothers have to take turns!" "Where is it? It's something that can't be done with eight poles..."

"You just got married, what do you know? You only know after you have experienced things. When you marry Wang Chuanzhi, you think you are marrying him alone? Brothers and brothers, three aunts and eight wives, you just married a big family. Son! Back when I married your fucking uncle, his mother, his aunt, and his cornered relatives and friends, Lili Lala, caused me trouble for most of my life. Until you resist!" "What year did you come from? It's old sesame seeds and rotten millet." "Hehe, you are impatient to say that you don't understand. In China, since the beginning of the world, the emperor has changed, and the dynasty has changed. No matter who the world is, the son has never changed the custom. The more rural the poorer this custom is. The place where the birds don't shit is more entrenched! There is no other hope, and raising such a child in a lifetime is counting on retirement. Children who grow up in such a family, especially boys, have a deep-rooted desire: he earns money to marry The purpose of the daughter-in-law is to carry on the family line and serve his father and mother. His purpose of becoming famous is to glorify his ancestors! Alas, although you can’t stop you from marrying into such a family, I can remind you in advance so that you can be mentally prepared. Come back crying."

Alas, my aunt's menopause is not over.He Lin is asking herself: hold back!Hold back! "Your parents are both honest and overly nerds. They have never been through complicated family chores in their entire lives. Damn girl, you will rely on me from now on. If Chuanzhi dares to treat you badly in the future, I will definitely make him regret more than what he gained! " He Lin wanted to laugh out loud. "Don't laugh, I'm going to put the words here today. Your big family, if I look carefully at the situation, I know it's not good. When the time comes, you will come back crying! So, from today on, you will Chuanzhi's salary card is coming back, if a woman wants to have a stable family and be invincible, in addition to controlling the man, she must control the financial power!"

Chuanzhi had no choice but to send his mother, uncle and other relatives to the train station, and the two taxis were still crowded.In the bustling waiting room, using the last chance, the old mother explained earnestly: "My son, I have a family, live a good life, earn money, save money--you spend money, and a penny is hard to die a hero It’s not that you don’t know the hero. Don’t forget to send two to your younger brother. Well, I’m married and have a family, so I don’t worry so much anymore. Work hard, you will be different from me in the future, you You are from the city, and you are different from your brothers and sisters. There is a difference between the city and the countryside! Don’t forget to help them live a good life. When you go to school, they are also rich and powerful. Don't forget your roots!"

In the eyes of the mother looking up with relief, the son nodded again and again.Forgetting his roots is not what a good man does, and then he watched his family pass the ticket check in the crowd with moist eyes. In the evening, He Lin came home, had a full meal at her mother's house, and her little face was flushed with a charming brilliance.And Chuanzhi was reheating leftovers in the kitchen, eating dried steamed buns left by relatives at noon.Seeing her mother-in-law gone, He Lin was really pleasantly surprised. It was very depressing to be crowded in a house with a bunch of strangers.Now she warmly hugged the groom and said, "Sister-in-law, tomorrow my wife will carry on the style of a good wife and mother and get up early to make breakfast for you. Eat less tonight and save some stomach for tomorrow." Then bow left and right bobo Bobo each twice.

The husband couldn't hold back anymore, he lost the dishes and steamed buns, and went upstairs with his wife in his arms.The charming wife slapped the husband's face beautifully, "Sister-in-law, slow down, don't fall your wife, if a beauty like me falls, how can you pay for it!" "Your uncle!" "Your second uncle!" The two fell onto the bed thumping and chattering, the more they beat, the faster the heart beat, the more noisy the less clothes, the less clothes the more sexy, the more sexy the faster the heart beat, just like this cycle, young people, and again It's a newlywed, a few rounds of love and affection, sweating... Hehe, happy. After finishing their work, the two of them lay on the bed and savored the beauty of life, "It would be nice to live like this every day in the future, without going to work, eating and playing, playing and sleeping, sleeping and eating, and being as happy as a fool." "Okay my wife, anyway, my job is stable, you can stay at home from now on, I will support you!" "real?" "real." "What if you don't have enough money?" "Spend less. I don't spend much, and I will spend it all for you." The sweet wife pecked her husband's face like a chicken pecking rice for a long time, and then remembered what my aunt said, "Will we quarrel over money in the future?" "No way. I spend less money." If you think about it, now that you have a house and a job, it is many times easier than the average young people in Beijing. "When do we buy the car?" "Well... When I have money, I'll save enough to buy it." To be honest, Chuanzhi hasn't thought about the car issue yet.Both the house and the wife came too soon and too easily, and I haven't digested it yet. The two of them took four days off and held a banquet, so they had no time to go out for their honeymoon.Wang Chuanzhi couldn't ask for leave. He couldn't be like He Lin who didn't care about work and would stop going when he was unhappy.For the rest of the time, you look at me, I look at you, you hug me, and I hug you to pass the sweet good time.The two of them have also made plans. Chuanzhi has officially received an employment notice from a certain state agency and has officially started working. The first year is very critical: during the probationary period, you must perform well, especially not to ask for leave.But you can make good use of the 11th Golden Week in the second half of the year, and you can go to He Jing's place to play. He Lin, who sees her husband so beautiful every minute, thinks about it again. My husband is handsome, but he is too upright. He lacks the wit and vigor of an urban young master. To be serious, he is a bit clumsy. The tongue is light, but the truth is less, especially the clothes are not paid attention to. At first glance, there is still some rustic atmosphere, so it needs to be tidied up. It's okay after bedtime, He Lin just stared at her husband and tried to dress up.Rich, didn’t He Jing send 6,000 US dollars, Amitabha, nearly 50,000 RMB, spent some, and left a lot, buy crocodile belts, buy Playboy, buy Shiseido, buy Philips razors, Buy a boss, buy Jiang Shidanton...a pack with all your strength, um, less smell, and a bottle of cologne. Those few days Wang Chuanzhi was beautiful, and he was obedient. He raised his feet when asked to lift his feet, turned around when asked to turn around, and wiped Xiangxiang when asked, and his little face immediately lowered.People rely on clothes and makeup, horses rely on saddles, and wear famous brands to go into battle. They have a high vision and a stable temperament, and they have a look of "Heaven will send a great responsibility to the people" in every gesture.In many cases, the spirit of a person can be inspired and shaped by the pursuit of people around him and looking up on tiptoe.Wang Chuanzhi is like this now.He Lin also likes this, she just wants her man to be masculine, manly, and interesting. He Lin is also good, she will really get up in the morning to make breakfast, cook porridge, or warm up the soy milk bought from the supermarket yesterday, make some small pickles, put them all on the table, and call upstairs to come down to eat.It's not about showing off virtuousness.In this society, men are quite willing to play the role of uncle. They have a good face and self-esteem. It would be even better if they could criticize a few times at random, such as the porridge is hot and cold, and the stir-fried vegetables are old and tender.Wang Chuanzhi didn't dare yet, even if he said it, he had to deal with it as a joke.Although He Lin is dissatisfied with her mouth, your uncle, your uncle's rebuttal, will pay attention to it in her heart.The model of marriage, the deeply-rooted and recognized model is that the man dominates the outside, and the woman dominates the inside. The man manages the human relations outside, and the woman is in charge of her own one-acre three-point land, doing laundry, cooking, and housekeeping, including providing food for men. And win praise.So no matter how willful a child is, once he falls into the rut of marriage, he can't help but rely on this model. He doesn't need to use his brain at all, it's all done by division of labor. Wang Chuanzhi became a national civil servant during the probationary period, and he had to perform well before he could become a full-time employee.Although she doesn't earn much, He Lin still keeps her husband tidy. After all, she will rely on this man to support her family for the rest of her life.Then she also went to work, but she was no longer the carefree and childish little girl before marriage. She often lost her mind and recalled the joy of the bedroom and the tranquility and warmth of the home. In addition, the new daughter-in-law always showed a lazy and pampered look. After quarreling with an eighth wife colleague, she resigned in anger and went home to become a full-time wife. Cutting first and playing later, Chuanzhi was stunned for a long time when he came back, and some of his words accused her of acting recklessly.He Lin knew that her husband was under financial pressure and his salary was low, and the water, gas, electricity, and property fees of her big house were a lot of expenses. "Don't worry, I still have a card, and I won't run out of water so quickly. Besides, I can go to my mother's house to eat after you go to work. Oh, I just don't want to go to work, I want to take a break." He Lin mentioned The card is the gift money that my father wanted to give a few days ago, but was interrupted by my aunt halfway.He also asked by the way, "You also gave gift money when you got married." Chuanzhi was stunned for a moment, "I received one after another, and spent one after another. You know that when you get married, you spend money everywhere." "What about your relatives?" "It's at your mother-in-law's place." He said frankly, "My mother said that I have to pay back the gift after receiving it, and she will pay it back in the future, so we don't need to pay it back." He Lin couldn't figure out the complexity, and couldn't manage it.Soon I got the gift money back from my mother.The mother also told her daughter: "Live a good life, don't spend money in debt." He Lin didn't spend it recklessly, and took 10,000 cash and put it in the right corner of the middle drawer of the bedside table, so that she could take it easily. Wang Chuanzhi consciously put the civil servant's salary card in the left corner.He Lin's plan: spend the ones on the right side for daily use. Anyway, I don't have much salary, so I save them. After a year, it may be a large sum. Oral calculation, about 10,000 yuan. Every day after her husband goes to work, she watches TV, mops the floor to wash his clothes, goes out to do his hair, and changes into a modestly priced dress, then goes to the supermarket to buy some beef, potatoes, and carrots, and stew them deliciously at home. Wait for the family to eat.It didn't take long for Chuanzhi to gain weight with strong legs and thick waist. The first month, a very happy start.A good start is half the battle. On weekends, the couple slept with their butts up until the sun was up, got up lazily, took two packs of milk from the refrigerator, and headed to their parents' house.It won’t be too ugly to buy a few catties of fruit halfway, and eat and drink. Generally, the Shanghai man Lao He is busy in the kitchen, and the Shanghai man's son-in-law is the one who helps.The mother and daughter exchanged a few casual words, and went back to each room to be busy.But this weekend, Yu Huaqing showed his skills and occupied the kitchen, and it didn't take long for him to get ready. Although he didn't have to go to the kitchen to fight, Wang Chuanzhi was shocked when he saw the tigress: Why is it half a head short? "Chuanzhi, I haven't had time to ask you yet, how much gift money did your family collect at the wedding banquet? You have to remember, you have a count in your heart, and it will be the basis for repaying the share in the future!" Chuanzhi Weiwei: "Not many." Lao He: "Rural people, how much income do they earn from farming, what do they think about?" The sister-in-law rolled her eyes at her brother-in-law, "Just because it's not easy for people to have a little money, they should remember all the more. When paying back in the future, they can only pay more, not less! Don't let them suffer!" Then she turned to He Lin, " Did you get it all?" He Lin shrank her neck and bravely met her gaze, "Yes." Yu Huaming: "What do you charge? There is no way to get money in the countryside now. There are too many children, the burden is heavy, and there is no welfare security. A serious illness can return you to abject poverty. Come here to have a wedding and make a point of it. Let's take a few A hundred dollars is not worth anything, it may be the rations for several months. He Lin will return Chuanzhi, let Chuanzhi send it to your mother-in-law, return it to relatives, buy some clothes for the children, and buy a schoolbag. It is also good. ! Will the wealth return to the cities in this way? The state will give farmers tax cuts.” Chuanzhi quickly waved his hand to refuse, feeling a little sad inside. Yu Huaqing snorted coldly, "It's not our family's fault that the countryside is poor, so what's the use of us sticking to it? A nerd, what kind of wealth is flowing back... the city is flowing into the countryside, I don't understand the road, and I don't bother to understand it. It’s a small people’s life, just follow the common people’s sophistication and human relations! This time we will refund the gift money, and next time someone’s child gets married, how can they accept He Lin as a gift? Even rural people understand this truth Yes, not to mention that in the hometown of Confucius and Mencius, there are many etiquettes, only you can't see it, no one can't think of it! But we have to make things clear first, so as not to lose the talk!" It was sonorous and forceful, and when it came out of the mouth of my little aunt, a seductress in the market, she had to be righteous and serious.He Lin was so impressed by this point!How can you gossip and chatter endlessly when you are just over fifty?She scratched her head now, and in order to interrupt her aunt, she said against her will: "Okay, just listen to my aunt." "That's right, set the rules first, and then follow the rules, so as not to mess up the rules in the future." Then he paused, "Well, by the way, how much did your mother-in-law pay for the change?" Chuanzhi shuddered, did he just mention it face to face?He Lin's eyes were blank, she really didn't know about this, so she spent it with the 6,000 yuan given by her mother, probably not much more, and she didn't feel much when it was spent.In the end, Lao He interjected to fool him. On the way home after the meal, Chuanzhi had a sullen face, "Your aunt really doesn't worry about eating radishes. She worries about everything about your family!" "Leave her alone." "It's also 'set the rules first, and then follow the rules, so as not to mess up the rules in the future' - the tone of the old and young of the Manchu Qing Dynasty, do you know how the Qing Dynasty fell apart?" "What are you talking about?" "She clearly doesn't like me, nor my family!" She said in a disappointed tone. "Don't bother with her, she's just like that." "Why is she dictating at your house?" "Hi, my parents are happy." "Why is she always judging us so critically?" "I've said it all, don't worry about it!" "Let's not go back to your house in the future, we can't bear it." "You don't want to eat and drink?" "I'll do it later!" From now on, the weekend lunch will be taken by the willing host as a matter of course.But Chuanzhi is not a piece of food for cooking. Without honing, boys in the city have the opportunity to cook for themselves and their families after their parents go to work; in rural areas, there are many brothers and sisters, and their parents don’t work in the fields according to the hour, so they can come back. In addition, boys who study well are relatively favored, and their hands-on ability is actually weaker. He Lin said to herself: You have to get used to it, you have to get used to it, and it will be fine if you get used to it. After a long time, your cooking skills will improve.So this little girl who has transformed into a little daughter-in-law is more leisurely, and has more time to make hair, straight, curvy, flowery, big flowers and small flowers. Of course, the floor, kitchen, and bathroom are also cleaner. Wipe it with a mop, when you lose weight and exercise.