Chapter 12 Section 12

When she came back that afternoon, the old lady told her son in earnest, "Son, you can't live like this. As the saying goes, the days to come are thicker than leaves, and you can't earn enough if you spend money like running water every day! What are you doing, daughter-in-law?" It’s all good, but you can spend money! Seeing that her mother and father are people who just live, why do you get so much money back from her?” Chuanzhi said: "Her family's financial conditions are good, so I'm used to it." "She is used to it, but we are not used to it. As the saying goes, a good woman is trained by the man in charge. She spends one more, and we have one less in our pockets. We have a lot of money at home, so you can't let it go." She is full of nonsense! Alas, if you are not in charge, you don’t know the price of oil and rice. If you are in charge, can you know? Look at your building, what is hung here, what is placed there, small bits and pieces, big pearls and small pearls, aren’t they all money I bought it!"

"Most of them were bought by her family," her son said proudly. "If you don't buy it, it would be nice to turn it into money and put it in your hands!" "That's her family's business." "Oh, son, I have to save two dollars in the future. It looks like two dollars. If you don't spend it, it will be gone. In the future, you will have a child with oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and the child will have a small mouth. It’s all money! You still have to go to school in the future, and you have a boss!” The day of the banquet is coming soon, and the He family's wedding invitations have already been sent out. Most of the guests are relatives, friends and colleagues accumulated by Lao He and Yu Huaming over the years. The only ones who are relatively close in blood are Yu Huaqing and her Two sons and daughter-in-law.Lao He has no brothers and sisters, and his parents died early, but because of his popularity, a group of friends are willing to come and join in the fun.There is another group of people, namely He Lin's classmates and friends and a few little sisters who are usually close friends, and Chuanzhi's guests can be dismissed with only one or two tables.So most things are still worrying about Lao He, and he is also the main spender.The banquet was held at the four-star hotel where Mrs. Wang stayed last time. Due to the relationship, there were a lot of discounts. Each table was 1,200 yuan. There were 17 tables, including two main tables: the woman's family and Yu Huaqing's family were one table. , the other man at the main table is a close relative brought by Mrs. Wang from his hometown.Others are arranged in the normal order of relatives and distances.

China is a country with developed personal relationship, and red envelopes are an important proof of human relationship.The wedding banquet of a family with good social relations is absolutely indispensable. Red envelopes are absolutely indispensable. Usually, when you give help or benefits to others, this is all affection, and you always need a suitable opportunity and excuse to repay it. This is a normal human relationship.Society also needs this kind of communication. The result of your coming and going makes the relationship between people reach a state of emotional and financial relative balance, so that friendship and relationship network can continue to be maintained.This is also the social psychological and cultural background for Lao He to organize a grand wedding for his daughter.

Since the father-in-law is behind the scenes, Wang Chuanzhi, the hero of the wedding banquet, is much more relaxed. In addition, He Lin asked not to meet each other for the next two days. The picture is fresh.At the "critical point" when every bridegroom is exhausted and exhausted, he is also happy and relaxed, stealing half a day's leisure, taking his mother, brother, sister and the two children who came with him to Carrefour. outfit.In that kind of hypermarket, ordinary clothes are not too expensive, and you can't damage your image at important banquets.Each person spends 200 yuan, shoes are not included, so the whole family walks around in the clothing open area.

Mrs. Wang sighed again and again, "I'm going to wear the new clothes my son bought. It's not in vain to suffer and suffer, and it's worth it!" And she thinks a coat of 100 yuan is expensive!Pants worth 100 yuan are so expensive!How can I let others earn our money, dragging a dark red striped twenty-nine-nine coat and a nineteen-nine black velvet trousers to line up for the checkout.Chuanzhi's brother and sister were very honest and used up the upper limit of 200 yuan, and each grabbed an extra pair of leather shoes; the children also took a total of nearly 500 yuan of clothing under the guidance of their father and mother. .Chuanzhi spent nearly half a month's salary in this way, more than one thousand yuan.

On the way, the old lady often accused her daughter and son, "It's not that I don't feel bad when I spend my money. What's the use of buying such an expensive product? Isn't it the same as covering the body?!" "It's hard this time, of course we have to dress decently, we can't embarrass Chuanzhi, we are in-laws!" Wang Chuanxiang smiled while changing new shoes in the taxi. "That's right, He Lin's family is rich, just once, and he can't wear him down!" The eldest sister smiled. Zhaodi also said enviously: "Second uncle and second aunt earn money every month!"

The driver yelled: "Why is it so smelly!" He Lin was tired and excited. The night before the banquet, three bridesmaids were brought in—oh, all the friends who were not married, those who wanted to be brides but didn't have the guts, all came here for training and practice.There is a bridesmaid who has a wide range of connections and knows a makeup and stylist for a TV drama crew. She specializes in urban romance drama models and urban white-collar makeup.So she said a few good words, and exchanged a pack of white rabbit wedding candies for the most fashionable bridal makeup of the year, with fluffy and dignified hair, which was both noble, fashionable, and charming.He Lin vowed to prop up her head occasionally when she dozed off or something, until it naturally loosened and deformed.

A group of little sisters chattered in the bride's last boudoir, laughing and making noise to their heart's content, vowing not to let the groom's officer pick up the bride so smoothly tomorrow morning.For some reason, when they mentioned their mutual friend Xiaoya, everyone sighed: The old woman in her family is too messy, is she marrying a husband or an old woman?I think my daughter-in-law's family is poor—isn't her own family poor?I think my daughter-in-law's work unit is not good, and she has a bad reputation working in a hotel-what's wrong with her bad reputation?Most people don't have the ability and opportunity to be a lobby manager!I think my daughter-in-law doesn't make enough money, so 6,000 yuan a month is more than enough!Our undergraduate salary is far from that!Her son's salary is so high that he has to work overtime until midnight every day. What's so great about a company that uses people as livestock?If you trade health for money now, you will have to buy health with money again in a few decades!By the way, I still think her diploma is low, what's the use of having a higher diploma and reaching the undergraduate level?Isn't our group an example?cut!A poor old woman with a dog's eyes, no one is worthy of her son except the Seventh Fairy!WTF.

Hehe, He Lin once again found a balance in her heart. How should I put it, her own mother-in-law, apart from being stingy, she still looked at her carefully in other aspects.The little sisters' evaluation of Chuanzhi is quite high: handsome, stalwart, masculine, motivated, hardworking, not sissy, and a national civil servant! He Lin was very happy.As for his lack of property and money, talking about material things is a bit of a bummer at an age when he is talking about love and drinking water. That day when the old He and his wife lived in the university, Yu Huaqing came over early in the morning to give advice to the bridesmaids: when the bride and groom are toasting at each table tomorrow, how to mix white wine into white water, have quick eyes and quick hands, and learn to divert the attention of the guests. Isn't there three bridesmaids? , Relay!By the way, don't be guilty.Anyway, you can't let a couple, especially the bride, get drunk, talk incoherently, and then fall to the ground.The girls of our He family must be polite and generous from beginning to end, without squinting!

At six o'clock in the morning, the float arrived. It was a Rolls-Royce hired by Mr. He for his beloved daughter. The bullish one had a high rate of turning heads. Behind it was the Audi team arranged by the wedding company. There were a lot of flowers, balloons and dolls on the car. The groom was dressed in a crisp dark gray suit, a festive red striped tie, and shiny leather shoes. He didn’t care about the temperature for the sake of his style. In the cold wind, accompanied by his best man, he happily rang the bride’s doorbell. He didn’t expect to eat closed the door.The groom and the best man are all born with melon eggs. They don't know much about Beijing's wedding customs, and they don't teach them in school. It's a bit dumbfounded and short of breath.Chuanzhi still had a bit of low self-esteem in his heart, he couldn't bear to coax others like the local handsome handsome guy, and spoke soft words, he was stunned like a frost-beaten eggplant for a while, and just relied on his best man to knock on the door hard.

After teasing the bride and groom for more than half an hour, they felt that they were almost frozen, so the bridesmaids put forward the conditions for entering the door: this tree will be planted by the bride, and this road will be opened by the bride. The groom obediently stuffed ten cards of Grandpa Mao through the crack of the door, and then stuffed his ID card as required, and the door opened.Once inside, the bride cannot come out by herself, nor can she put on shoes—she cannot take away any traces of her natal family.So Chuanzhi left the mother-in-law's house with the bride in the inflated wedding dress and red socks on his back, entered the elevator, and carried it into the car in a hurry. Only then did a bridesmaid take out a pair of small high-heeled red leather shoes from the bag and put them on. Then the convoy started amidst crackling firecrackers. When we arrived at the hotel, amidst the louder and longer crackling sounds, the camera started a continuous long-shot tracking: the groom opened the car door for the bride with great hospitality, and the most beautiful, sweet and happy woman in his life was like a peony among flowers. Smiles burst into everyone's expectant eyes.There was crackling applause and tut-tsk sounds. The master of ceremonies announced emotionally at the door: "Spring, spring is a beautiful season, and many happy things happen in this season. Please look - the handsome groom and the beautiful and happy bride are coming to us , they made us realize once again what is a perfect match between a man and a woman! Let us welcome this century's happiest, most happy and most perfect couple into the hall with the warmest applause—" Then the guests at the seventeen tables in the room were crackling again. The moment Mai Demen came, the bride said to the groom happily: "My mother paid 6,000 yuan for the change of mouth, and you have to shout louder then!" The groom was taken aback. "Fool, we're making money again!" The bride's nails pinched him through the white gloves. The groom understood, and broke out in a cold sweat at the same time. Hey, he forgot to tell his mother. He should have prepared a change fee at the wedding. If he received the change fee but He Lin didn't, how embarrassing it would be. Lin's aunt chews her tongue?And He Lin will be disappointed too! He hurriedly turned to his best man and whispered in a hurry, but the surrounding sound was too loud, especially the microphone of the master of ceremonies, the reception area was deafening!The groom couldn't stop, rolled his eyes, and looked at the suspicious eyes of the best man who hesitated to speak. He could only secretly blame himself for his carelessness, but he really didn't know this crucial link, and no one reminded him.I just hope it won't be too ugly when the time comes, make up!Make up for it when you go back! As soon as the bride and groom came out, Wang Chuanzhi's two concubines at the man's table said to Mrs. Wang enviously, "Your daughter-in-law is so handsome! She looks like a fairy." "Three-point looks, seven-point dressing." At the woman's table, a guest said to the bride's mother: "The bride is so beautiful!" Yu Huaming was very happy: "Young man, this is the most beautiful time in life!" Yu Huaqing was even more blunt, "Of course, our He Lin has been beautiful since we were young! We are garden flowers in kindergarten, and school flowers in school!" The master of ceremonies is a guy with excellent eloquence. He is enthusiastic, passionate, eloquent, and he can recite some words that don't make sense: "...In this warm and festive wedding hall, I think it is fate that brings this couple who love their lives together sweetly, lovingly and lovingly...Happiness! It is the collision of their two pure hearts Together, it shows that our bridegroom feels true happiness and looks more handsome than ever before, everyone said... and our bride feels inner happiness more than ever before. Excited, even more charming, beautiful and gentle, let’s talk about it together... At this moment, I think there is something more excited and happy, and that is the parents who have cared for the bride and groom. Taking this opportunity, we In order to thank their parents for their kindness, the bride and groom specially offered a glass of wine to their parents to express their sincere thanks and deep blessings..." The bride and groom each took the wine from the bridesmaid and best man (I don't know if it was wine or cold water, but it was arranged by Yu Huaqing anyway), and first presented it to the bride's parents respectfully.The daughter thanked her parents for their upbringing, and the son-in-law called his parents and promised to treat their daughter well for the rest of his life.The father-in-law and mother-in-law were very happy, and the mother-in-law took out the red envelope and handed it to the uncle.The son-in-law weighed his hand, it was quite heavy, and he was ashamed, but he handed it to the bride without showing any signs of expression.The bride took it happily and handed it to the bridesmaid. Then he paid respects to the man's parents—the mother, and the father was vacant.He Lin called Mom sweetly. "Hey—" the old lady agreed loudly, drank the wine in one gulp, put down the glass, lifted her skirt, pulled out a plump red handkerchief from her trouser belt, and solemnly handed it to her daughter-in-law. Hehe, red handkerchief and belt, this technique is very post-modern, the three bridesmaids are smiling and find it interesting.He Lin also felt that it was too funny in public, so regardless of the amount of money, she happily handed it over to a more happy bridesmaid. The groom fainted with joy!Afterwards, when he brought up this incident gratefully, the old lady gave her son a disdainful look, "I eat more salt than you eat! Anyway, I have married a daughter-in-law and a daughter-in-law. Do you think people call me Is it easy to scream "Mom? What can't be bought with money? It's sweet and loud for money, but no one wants to scream without money. How practical people are now!" There was also a funny thing happened at the wedding, the bride and groom toasted at the table and received individual gifts by the way.Some people like to give red envelopes to the bride or groom face to face.When a group of old friends of my father came to the table, one of the leaders stood up to show his respect, put his cup on the bridesmaid's tray, and delivered an impromptu speech of "a hundred years of love, forever together" , and took the lead in applauding.When I took the wine glass again, I took the wrong one and took the bride's away. The bride didn't notice, and the three of them clinked glasses and drank them all in one gulp—the groom was still handsome and unrestrained; He stared at the empty wine glass, then at the bride, choked, coughed, bent over a hundred degrees, tears and snot flowing down his nose.The three bridesmaids panicked. It was Yu Huaqing who made it up in time, with Moutai in his right hand and a glass in his left hand, toasted with the guests again, "Welcome! This wine is good, with a light fragrance. I also bought shares in Moutai!" The guest drank it down and praised: "This cup is good!" "Actually, the wine is the same, sometimes the taste..." The guests sat down and laughed: "At that moment, I thought about it, it's broken, I have to sell Moutai's shares! Now it's ups and downs, it's normal, and it's still so fragrant!" Even eating and seeing off guests, I was busy until after four o'clock in the afternoon. The bride's high heels couldn't stand it anymore. After a few days of excitement and less sleep, plus a long day of bowing, saluting, and toasting all the way, the nerves in the legs were numb to the limit.Come on, let the parents clean up and go home!go home! The exhausted bride came home, pushed open the door of the new house, almost had smoke from her orifices, and cried loudly, wishing to turn around and meet the groom!The clean and spotless home three days ago!The ideal life where the wallpaper has just been pasted and the household appliances have not yet been opened!Now walnut skins, melon seed skins, peanut skins, candy bags and stains cover the pale green floor, water stains are everywhere in the bathroom, leftover steamed buns, egg shells, vegetable leaves, and half-eaten convenient foam boxes in the kitchen. Pulling and pulling, pulling and pulling all the way to the microwave oven with the door open, the floor is full of mess! He Lin went up to the second floor angrily, and immediately burst into tears, oh my god, someone slept in her marriage bed!Oh my god, that bunch of furry teddy bears is missing a few!Oh my god, that lovely carved woodpecker is gone!My God, there are still a little bit of peanuts, red dates, and dried fruits in the small flowerpot on the bed... There were footsteps on the stairs, the bride slammed, slammed, slammed, three times, and shut the groom out of the door, and continued to cry loudly. She also slammed the small pot of dried fruit, smashed the lamp, and threw a drinking glass.No matter how my husband calls "baby" and "little pig", it will not help. There was a commotion here, and the in-laws downstairs came back from the hotel, talking and laughing happily.Pushing open the door, the headed by the old lady saw the bridegroom standing on the stairs with drooping eyes. What an old lady who knows how to watch her words, when she saw that the wind direction was wrong, she quickly drove the relatives into the room in a low-key manner, and asked her son in a low voice: " What's wrong with you? Put on a face!" The son couldn't help complaining: "There are so many people living here and there, why don't you know how to clean it up?" His mother didn't have much expression, and said objectively: "There are too many people and children are messy, and there are places that can't be seen at a glance." "Who's sleeping upstairs?" "Your sister. She just looks fresh and lies down." His sister Wang Qingxia poked her head out of the room, disapprovingly, "Why are there so many messes, I went up to have a look, and sat down, why do you look like a hedgehog?" The groom went upstairs to coax his wife.He has the key. Mrs. Wang hurriedly asked everyone to clean up, sweeping the floor for a while, cleaning the kitchen, and mopping the toilet. They did it very quickly. The bridegroom's elder sister-in-law said: "You have a big temper, and the daughter-in-law in the city is hard to take care of!" The old lady: "It's just that there are many stink problems, and I don't know my last name soon." Cousin of the bridegroom: "My cousin is too honest. If he is cured, it will be difficult to turn over in the future." Sister of the bridegroom: "Walk in the nest!" The old lady swept hard and fast. Upstairs, He Lin angrily threw a new quilt to the floor, turned around and carried a new one from the closet, it was not a festive bright red, but light ocher, spread out and kicked off her high heels and clothes, and went to sleep.Marriage anxiety, fatigue, and panic attacks in recent days were all decompressed and released because of the temper just now, and I fell asleep soundly. The groom also climbed onto the bed and hugged the bride in the most intimate manner, like a pair of spoons lying side by side.Even hugging, he is also tired. Sleeping until midnight, the bride went to the bathroom in a frightening dream, untied the groom's hand lovingly, got in again after returning, and clasped his hand again.With a beautiful heart, he blows on the groom's face. The groom was woken up, pecked the bride with a "boo", lazily went to the bathroom, trotted all the way back, jumped into bed, the two began to strip off the last little pieces excitedly and enthusiastically, looking at, touching and rubbing each other , with a sincere and greedy heart, hiding under the quilt, shaking, squeezing, panting... Sex is really a wonderful thing, like a piece of jade thrown in the thorny field, even if it is stabbed bloody and beats the chest, the warmth and release are enough to make up for it.Are men and women united for sex?Absolutely, this is a kind of driving force given to animals by life, born from instinct and grown from subconsciousness, an extra reward from God to mediocre beings.It can be said that the purpose of our maturity is to dance together, on the bed, in the depths of the soul, let the extreme happiness gushe out, let the soul stand at the highest place and make noise, let the soul sing like clouds&& stretch out your arms, revealing the most private and dark In the corner of the corner, who makes your mind sway, who makes you beautiful... In just a few minutes, it gives us the most positive and optimistic meaning of life, and an instant heart fullness, so that the soul no longer feels lonely, anxious, fearful and sad. That's the value of sex.Its happiness can dissolve some trivialities in life.So there is the motivation and reason for patience and compromise. The next day, the young couple slept peacefully until they woke up naturally. The sun was shining on the quilt. The groom turned over lazily, pointed to the quilt on the floor and said, "Speak up when you have something to say, don't do this." The bride said coquettishly: "Who doesn't cover a new quilt that has never been used once? They also want to use a pure and flawless "virgin quilt"! You also have to make sure that no one who has nothing to do with us will sleep in our marriage bed in the future!" The bride is a little clever, mentioning "virgin quilt". Although she was not a virgin last night, she was still a virgin when she was with the man in front of her one night earlier.Sure enough, the groom promised. The bride continued her efforts: "Where's the woodpecker? Get it back for me quickly. But the gift my sister-in-law gave me, I like it very much!" When the groom heard that the small gift from his sister was so valued, he immediately agreed. The bride raised her hand to pick up a fluffy toy from above the head of the bed, and said very sadly: "Daughter, life is so lonely, your father gave away your brothers and sisters on your mother's wedding night, isn't your father a Big bad wolf! But it doesn't matter, mom will buy you more companions in the future, so don't make your dad angry again!" The groom couldn't laugh or cry, "I didn't give it to you!" "Then why is it gone?" The bridegroom thought: Alright, I'll find it for you again. It was almost noon, the two got up slowly, fought and washed up, and then went downstairs lazily and embarrassedly.The relatives downstairs were having a meal, and it was quite hearty. They were the leftovers from the wedding banquet brought back yesterday. There was not much left on their table, and they were collected from other tables.Both adults and children enjoyed it. The groom didn't think there was anything leftovers, so eat more if it suits your appetite, and eat less if it doesn't suit you.But the bride didn't like it. I don't know who's leftovers, I don't know how much saliva, and I lost my temper last night. Under the silent eyes of the relatives, I really feel uncomfortable.Fortunately, the experienced aunt gave a countermeasure in advance: I don’t feel comfortable eating and go home to eat.So he exited a little awkwardly. In the taxi, I also sent a text message to my dear one, telling him where she was going, and I still hope that he can follow. The old lady cooked rice porridge and filled a bowl full for her son. "She just left, and she doesn't know how to say hello to your sister-in-law!" Her son bowed his head to eat. "We have to go today." Her son looked up in surprise, "Don't you stay one more day?" "Where do you live, everything is not casual, there are many people and things, so let's all go." Then he sighed softly, "My son, I have a family, the days to come are denser than leaves, how long will it be?" In my heart, it is not easy for us rural people to mix with big cities. You are too honest, you will not cheat or cheat. Let’s live well with He Lin, this house is also available, and the job is better, just don’t spend money lavishly, Sometimes don’t forget the difficulty of not having time! Who cares about your money?” Her son hesitated for a moment, "Everyone is in charge now." "In the future, you have to manage the money, and a man has to be in charge of the house. A man can only afford to let it go, and be a good house, so that there will be no trouble. My son, you have to be a good house. He Lin is too good at spending money, buy what you see , They are useless, in case there is an urgent emergency in the future, there are no two people in the hands who will make every day ineffective, and the earth should not respond." Her son seemed to be impatient with this question, "Got it, got it." His second uncle took the opportunity to squeeze into the kitchen and said, "Nephew, don't listen to me. If the daughter-in-law you married can be obedient? Hang! She has a big temper and doesn't know how to deal with the world. I will show it to her in the morning." I met you twice, but I didn’t even look at me!” Subtext: I’m your natal uncle, I look down on my in-laws! As expected, the old lady couldn't hold back anymore, "Marrying a wife means marrying a character. If the daughter-in-law has a good character, there will be no troubles in the family! If the character is not good, the family will be ruined. Look at He Lin, her parents are still big intellectuals. If you can talk and behave, your children will not be well educated..." Her son argued: "He Lin is usually good at talking and doing things." "Then the performance of the past two days--hanging! Crying and making noise, isn't it for my sister's face? My sister is also a mother-in-law and an elder! You can't lose face like this, and you didn't even say hello early in the morning. To flatter her is like looking at her face! Nephew, my sister, it’s not easy for a widowed mother to support you brothers and sisters! Now you are considered a Beijing official anyway, give your old lady some face, let your parents I have nothing to say about Uncle’s cold heart, just leave it alone, don’t let the old lady feel cold again! Listen to who threw the cup and smashed the bench yesterday, who hit who? This morning with a cold face, the big guy came to drink wedding wine, give gifts and money No, it’s not for begging to get you dew to drink!” A few words made the groom's face blush, and Wei Wei apologized to his uncle, saying that the daughter-in-law is ignorant, and she will definitely change it in the future!change! His sister sighed again outside the door: "Brother, you are the most promising person in our family. How can you be expected to be filial if you are like your daughter-in-law?" The younger brother immediately smiled and promised: "Don't worry, I will take care of my mother in the future!" These words made the mother and uncle who had been frowning all the time smile.He has never hesitated to praise his children with all kinds of compliments. "Okay, nephew, with your words, no matter how hard my sister suffers, it's worth it! Since ancient times, there have been people who are filial and don't bully their mothers! Work hard, listen to the leadership's arrangements, and think about it even if you earn a salary." Take care of my mother's difficulty, and it will be complete." "Good brother, mother didn't give you in vain." The elder sister turned around and scolded her son again, "What are you looking for, you know how to play all day long! I will learn from your second uncle in the future, study hard, make progress every day, and get admitted to Beijing. to marry a daughter-in-law from Beijing—you can only repay your mother in the years of the monkey!" Then other relatives rushed to the door to laugh, looking at the relatives of Beijing officials with pride and envy. The old lady was a little proud, and the bridegroom officer also felt smug, so seeing her elder sister's son running around holding He Lin's woodpecker, and recruiting his younger brother to play with another child with a furry toy, I was too embarrassed to say yes. Too stingy, too fussy, too magnanimous.