Chapter 44 Forty-four, the combination of childhood

Lanyun specially took a weekend to listen to a lecture about "combination of young and old".During the one-hour class, Lan Yun concentrated on being a primary school student and took a large notebook of notes.In the classroom, the people who come to attend the lectures are all young parents whose children are about to enter school.When it comes to going to school, the parents are all suing their heads one by one. The teacher who lectures is also very young, but it is said that he is very experienced and has been engaged in this field for many years.The teacher said that the biggest challenge for children who have just started school is the problem of concentration.Some children have gone to kindergarten and received preschool education in kindergarten, so they know how to sit and stand well, how to raise their hands and ask questions.However, some children have not been trained in this area, and they will definitely not be able to sit still when they go from the completely open and free environment at home to the classroom all at once.

Lanyun heard many people around started whispering. The teacher also said that even children who have been to kindergarten will not be able to adapt. After all, a class is 45 minutes, and it is impossible to sit in a kindergarten for a class. The parents began to whisper again.Lan Yun heard someone muttering, "Are there still children going to school?" The teacher also saw the parents' doubts, and began to teach the method after selling off.First, gradually practice your child's concentration at home.Whether it’s reading books or playing games, we must cultivate his persistence. At first, he may only persist for a few minutes, then ten minutes, and then longer, longer...

The teacher also advises children who are not interested in learning to learn painting or piano.It is said that these two things can effectively cultivate children's concentration, and they both require one-on-one contact, and it is best for parents not to intervene and participate in the practice process.Let the children complete the communication with the teacher by themselves. Lanyun thought, no wonder so many children learn to play the piano, not for the sake of being Lang Lang, but for practicing and concentrating. In addition, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to think independently, dare to communicate, ask for help, and socialize in groups... Lan Yun recorded it in a small book, and corresponded to Lele one by one in her mind... After an afternoon, Lan Yun Suddenly, I felt a little panic. The abilities mentioned by the teacher seemed to be lacking in Lele; the things recorded in the notebook seemed to be made up by Lele.

After returning home at night, Lan Yun gave Lele a bath, watched him gradually fall asleep, and tiptoed into the living room.Yan Daoming was watching a football game. Lanyun came over and took the remote control in his hand, and said to Yan Daoming, "Stop for a while, I have to tell you about Lele's preschool education." Yan Daoming didn't want to take his eyes off the TV screen, but asked in support, "What's the matter?" Lan Yun took a deep breath and turned the TV to mute.Yan Daoming turned his head and saw Lan Yun staring at him seriously, and then asked with a smile: "What's wrong? It's so serious?"

Lanyun roughly talked about what she had encountered today, Yan Daoming was a little disdainful, and said: "'Public child combination'? How can we combine? Now you have found the best kindergarten for Lele, right? Elementary school We have also signed up, and that is the best primary school, right? What else should he be asked to do? I think this is already a great thing for Lele. " Lanyun sighed and said, "Of course it's a good thing on the surface, but if you think about it, just because it's the best school, the competition after school will be the fiercest. You know Lele's situation better than me, and you've lived with us. One year in my junior year, I only received some education in less than a year. My kindergarten teacher kept telling me that there was a gap between Lele and other children in the class. She started to study systematically since she was three years old. Lele Le fell behind from the starting line.

Now I am about to go to primary school. I inquired about it. In the primary school, besides our teacher's children, there are also many children who are selected by the city.Needless to say, the teacher’s children, our colleagues have children, which ones have not learned this and that since childhood.I know, there are Olympiads, piano, chess, everything.The city's merit-based examinations are even more terrifying, all of them are villains.You said, what about Lele? " Yan Daoming also had to get serious.It seems that the problem of going to school is far more complicated than I imagined.It turned out that I thought it was a great blessing that Lele could get her household registration into Beijing and Lanyun could accept her child.Being able to go to school in Beijing is much better than in Shaanxi.

Unexpectedly, Lanyun accepted and treated Lele as her own. What's more fortunate is that Lanyun guards such a good educational resource.Lan Yun sacrificed so much to get Lele into the best kindergarten and the best elementary school. Everything was beyond imagination.But the only thing I didn't expect was Lele's own problems.Can he adapt to this "good" environment?Can he survive in this environment? Thinking of this, Yan Daoming couldn't help but say: "Xiaoyun, I think your worry is justified. Is the environment we give Lele too stressful? Or, let's let Lele go to an ordinary elementary school? Will the pressure be lessened this way?"

Lan Yun lowered her head and thought for a while, then said, "I still think it's unfair to Lele. Besides, even if it's an ordinary elementary school, would Lele be fine? Make up lessons?" Yan Daoming asked in surprise: "Make up lessons? How to make up?" Lanyun took out her notebook and said, "I consulted with the teacher. If we take piano lessons two nights a week, we can train Lele and the teacher's one-on-one learning ability. We can do this. Also, mathematics, Hanyu Pinyin, and literacy are also to be learned. I asked the kindergarten teacher that this semester, the class has already started training in this area, and Hanyu Pinyin can follow the class to learn; mathematics requires extra effort The teacher said that the mathematics education in the kindergarten is mainly to let the children establish the concept of "number" and be able to recognize and write numbers, but addition and subtraction, including some mathematical thinking methods, are not taught. We need to find a teacher for Lele. extracurricular school."

Yan Daoming thought it was a bit funny, Blue Yun's plan didn't sound like it was prepared for a child who was about to go to primary school, but it seemed like he was going to take the postgraduate entrance examination.Yan Daoming said with a smile: "There is no need for mathematics! I have a master's degree in science and engineering, so I can't teach my son mathematics?" Lanyun also smiled and said: "You really can't teach. I believe you can teach college students, but how can you teach a 6-year-old child? Can you explain the method according to his thinking? The simplest, chicken and rabbit How do you teach about the cage?"

Yan Daoming thought about it for a while, and also, he would habitually use equations to solve the simplest problem of chickens and rabbits in the same cage; but for Lele, it definitely doesn't apply.Yan Daoming suddenly said: "You haven't gone to school yet, and the chicken and the rabbit are in the same cage! It's too exaggerated! Why do you learn this?" Lan Yun smiled again, took out a piece of paper from the notebook and showed it to Yan Daoming.Yan Daoming held it in his hand, and saw a cartoon picture printed on the paper, several children were queuing up, and the child in the middle had two numbers written on his head, a 7 and an 8.The following is the question: the children line up, counting from the front, Xiao Ming is the 7th, counting from the back, Xiao Ming is the 8th, how many children are there in the line?

Yan Daoming asked: "What is this?" Lan Yun said helplessly: "This is the exam question for the first grade enrollment of our affiliated elementary school last year." Yan Daoming said exaggeratedly: "No way! Is this question for children who are not in school?" Lanyun nodded even more helplessly, and said, "Yes! I was taken aback when I saw it for the first time. It took me a while to realize it. The teacher said, don't think that being a teacher's child means that you are definitely on the list. Accept, if the test is too outrageous, there is a possibility of elimination! This is the math test, and the four addition and subtraction within twenty. The teacher is not responsible for reading the questions, and the children need to read the questions and answer them by themselves. If you can't even recognize the characters, you don't need to take the exam." Yan Daoming said a little angrily: "I don't believe it, the child can answer it." Lanyun explained to him: "People have standards. Those who know that 7+8=15 get half of the points; those who know that 7+8=15 have to subtract 1 get full marks. The remaining four are added. Subtraction is a quick answer, and the teacher writes it on the blackboard, and whoever answers quickly and correctly will get extra points. During the test, three people will be in groups, and the teacher will be brought into different classes, and they will not be tested together." Yan Daoming said: "Mathematics is so difficult! What is the language test?" Lan Yun said: "Pinyin, simple Chinese characters, I heard that there are pictures and words. Some examiners will suddenly ask one or two English words." Yan Daoming was indignant: "If we know how to do this, why do we still go to school?" Blue Yun comforted him and said, "Who made Lele a Chinese child! You have to suffer this kind of crime when you are educated in China! And I asked, even ordinary primary schools have to take exams. Although it is compulsory education, we can't do it." Take it lightly. Lele calls me mother, and I have to be responsible for the child. If our financial conditions allow, we will be nervous for a few months, enroll Lele in a few more classes, and deal with the entrance exam first. Hit from the start." Yan Daoming shook his head and said: "I really don't understand! I didn't go to kindergarten for a day when I was a child, didn't I also study for a master's degree? I have been tossing my child like this since he was 6 years old. Is he still going to be okay in his life?" Lan Yun could only continue to comfort him: "I've asked, and all the children come here this way. We are ordinary people with no power or power, but we are economically good, so let's go. Lele will understand in the future Well, we are doing this for his own good. If Lele is my own, and we let them be freed from these things, maybe I can feel more at ease; but Lele is not, I am really afraid that I will be blamed by Lele in the future..." Yan Daoming could see that Lan Yun's eye circles were a little red, so he came over and patted Lan Yun's shoulder, and said, "That's it, wife, it's hard for you. Lele and I will keep it in mind."