Chapter 20 Twenty, little red flower

Jian Ning has been running to kindergarten these days.Just helped Shuai Shuai overcome the psychological barrier of learning the piano, but also to film their National Day performance.But Jian Ning enjoyed it very much, because she found that when she appeared in front of Shuai Shuai and the children in a working state, Shuai Shuai's pride and pride were beyond words.Shuai Shuai is an introverted child, which has always been a problem for Jian Ning.But the teacher told her that personality cannot be changed, only temperament.Jian Ning tried every means to integrate into Shuai Shuai's little heart, and intervened in various ways, hoping that her son could open up some of his heart.

Because of the frequent visits to the kindergarten during the two weeks, many children in Shuai Shuai's class knew Jian Ning.Seeing Jian Ning coming to pick up Shuai Shuai, she would shout: "Shuai Shuai Mom!" Jian Ning enjoyed this kind of address very much, and also took advantage of this kind of scene in a timely manner, asking Shuai Shuai to introduce these children from time to time.What are their names, what do they like, who and Shuai are good friends and so on.Under Jian Ning's guidance, Shuai Shuai obviously talked too much, and Jian Ning also left Shuai Shuai with homework in a timely manner: "That kid is so cute! Do you know her name?"

Shuai Shuai said, "It's called Sakura." Jian Ning asked again: "Then have you talked to her?" Shuai Shuai said: "No." Jian Ning said: "Then you go and ask where her family lives now, and tell me later, okay?" Shuai Shuai really went to ask, and after a while he ran over joltingly and happily told Jian Ning the result of his question.The teacher praised that Jianning would think of a way, which would encourage Shuai Shuai to talk more, communicate more, and not recognize students.Jian Ning is working hard here, and the teacher is also working hard there, rewarding a little red flower every now and then. Shuai Shuai can go home with a little red flower every weekend, which is very beautiful.

Jian Ning came back to show off her educational achievements to Jiang Xin, but Jiang Xin was disdainful and dared not say anything.Taking a bath for Shuai Shuai in the evening, Jiang Xin took the opportunity to talk with Shuai Shuai, and asked his son how many little red flowers he got this week and how he got them.Shuai Shuai thought about it seriously, and told his father: "I got three flowers." Jiang Xin asked, "Why did you get the first flower?" Shuai Shuai said: "Because I raised my hand and told the teacher to 'pee'." Jiang Xin said: "This way you can get a flower. Does everyone have other children?"

Shuai Shuai said: "I said to 'pee' to have it, but they said to 'pee' and they didn't." Jiang Xin was overjoyed and said, "Oh, it turns out that the handsome one is the 'Flower of Civilization'. What about the second flower?" Shuai Shuai said: "I eat well." Jiang Xin concluded there again: "Well, this is the flower of health. What about the third flower?" Shuai Shuai said: "My stool is my own." Jiang Xin was happy again.Before going to the boarding kindergarten, Shuai Shuai had always had a bad problem. He needed someone to defecate, and he didn't want to sit in the basin.Because the confinement wife and grandma love him, this bad habit has been used to it.Within a few days after entering kindergarten, this problem seems to have been cured.Jiang Xin said: "Okay. Can Shuai Shuai get another little red flower next week?"

Shuai Shuai thought about it seriously and said, "Why do you get one more flower? I'll get six more flowers!" Jiang Xin said exaggeratedly: "Is it okay? Is Shuai Shuai so good?" Shuai Shuai said, "I'll eat more and poop more, wouldn't that be enough?" Jian Ning was listening outside, almost spitting.Jiang Xin was still there earnestly teaching: "Son, besides eating and shitting, can we get some other little red flowers. For example, do well in study, class, sports?" Shuai Shuai looked very disdainful, and said: "The little red flower who eats and poops is good."

Shuai Shuai fell asleep at night, Jiang Xin sincerely told Jian Ning that his son had made great progress.In the past, I didn’t sit on the toilet by myself, I cried when I took a shower, I didn’t scream when I saw people, I didn’t like to talk or move, but now I look at it, these problems are less and less, and there is a tendency to change.Jian Ning put her pride on her face and said, "Tell me, whose credit is this?" Jiang Xin said exaggeratedly: "Of course it's my wife. The most invincible mother in the world is none other than you!" Even an invincible mother has problems that cannot be solved.A week later, when she picked up Shuai Shuai again, Jian Ning found two bruises on Shuai Shuai's arms and legs, not big, but very conspicuous on Shuai Shuai's white and tender skin.Jian Ning immediately took Shuai Shuai to ask the teacher. The teacher looked very surprised, and kept saying to Jian Ning: "Shuai Shuai didn't fall, it must not have been bumped, so don't worry." Then the teacher lowered his body and asked Shuai Shuai: "Shuai Shuai, what's going on here? Did the kids do it? Does it hurt?"

Shuai Shuai obviously didn't realize the greatness of the problem that happened to him. He said to the teacher, "It doesn't hurt." The teacher then asked: "How did you do that? Did Shuai Shuai fall down?" Shuai Shuai said, "Bang Bang pushed me." The teacher asked, "Then what?" Shuai Shuai said: "He pushed me on the table. He didn't even say sorry to me." The teacher said, "Why didn't Shuai Shuai tell the teacher?" Shuai Shuai said: "My father said that you can't sue the teacher, and it's not boys who sue."

The teacher smiled and said, "When a child makes a mistake, other children come to tell the teacher. This is not called a complaint. Only after the teacher knows about it can he remind everyone not to make another mistake. This is to help the child, right?" Shuai Shuai nodded in understanding. The teacher comforted Jian Ning again, and said: "The problems between the children are actually very simple, and they are not intentional. Don't worry. Bangbang is the naughtiest kid in our class. He usually looks at Ultraman and sees the children. Let’s just say it’s a monster, always fight monsters. We’ll definitely keep an eye on him this week, don’t worry. You’ll talk to Shuai Shuai again when you get home. Next time something like this happens when the teacher doesn’t see it, you must come Tell the teacher."

Jian Ning took Shuai Shuai home a little angrily.She is not angry with the teacher. There are 25 children in a class, and it is inevitable that there are places that the teacher cannot take care of.She was angry with Jiang Xin, how could she tell Shuai Shuai like that?The only thing a child can rely on in kindergarten is the teacher. If he is wronged and does not tell the teacher, can he bear it? When Jiang Xin came back in the afternoon, as soon as she hugged Shuai Shuai and wanted to kiss her, Jian Ning came over with a sullen face and said to Jiang Xin: "What's the matter with you? Tell Shuai Shuai what you can't complain about. Take a look, my son is in class." When I was pushed down, I didn’t dare to tell the teacher, saying that you taught me, and I wouldn’t let you sue. Look at the bruises and purples on this body.”

Jiang Xin hurriedly checked and found two bruises on Shuai Shuai's body.It's really obvious, but it's really not big. It's estimated that it will be fine in two days.Jiang Xin said to Jian Ning: "How can there be black and blue, you are a journalist, you are so exaggerated. It is common for little boys to play and fight in kindergarten. When we were young, we must not come back with a little injury that day? How bad it is to find a teacher! It will make people look down on you." Jian Ning was very angry and said: "He is a 3-year-old child. If he encounters a problem, he will not go to the teacher. Who will he turn to? When he is pushed down by others, he is the one who hurts. You don't even give him a chance to get justice!" Jiang Xin was also on fire, and her voice raised a few degrees: "Do you know that a boy with a bruise is not important. He goes to the teacher to give a small report, and he will be depressed if he is looked down upon by his classmates. The kid that the teacher sued. That's what girls like to do." One sentence touched Jian Ning's nerves. She was the class monitor when she was a child, and there were many complaints about bad children.Jian Ning raised her voice an octave, and said, "Then tell me, other children have done bad things. Besides telling the teacher to let him be criticized, what else can you do to punish him? How do you let him be punished? Do you want to punish him?" Is it reasonable to do bad things? Is it just to condone and raise traitors like this? Watch him continue to be bad in the future, until he becomes full of crimes and becomes a public nuisance of the state?" Jiang Xin didn't know whether to laugh or cry and said, "How can a child become a public nuisance if he is naughty once or twice? Even if Shuai Shuai suffers from it this time, it doesn't mean that Shuai Shuai and that child are not friends. Let's talk about a boy, how can he suffer a little bit?" Now, can you guarantee that he will not fight and suffer losses for the rest of his life?" Jian Ning showed unprecedented arrogance and said: "I won't be able to control it in the future, but now I can control it!" Then, Jian Ning pulled Shuai Shuai, who had fainted from hearing, and said, "Son, remember, If this kind of thing happens again, and a kid pushes, hits, or kicks you, you either go to the teacher, or push, hit, or kick him. Beat him hard until he cries.” Jiang Xin felt amused seeing Jian Ning gnashing her teeth, but she had to face it seriously.He couldn't understand how a mother felt sorry for her child. He was only used to thinking about problems from a man's point of view.From a man's point of view, the two blue spots on Shuai Shuai's body are really nothing; but from a father's point of view, it does feel a little distressed.After all, I haven't seen my son for a week. These two bruises can make parents have infinite reverie, and they can make up many scenes of their children being bullied in kindergarten, and they can scare themselves for a long time.Thinking of this, Jiang Xin has some understanding of Jian Ning, forget it, pity the hearts of parents in the world, just this one, how much a mother loves her son can't be overstated. But how can Shuai Shuai appreciate his mother's painstaking efforts?Just now, when he saw his parents confronting each other, Shuai Shuai was already a little scared. He had never heard his parents speak so loudly before.Hearing his mother talking to him so harshly again, Shuai shook his head pitifully, expressing a firm denial of his mother's opinion. Seeing Shuai Shuai shaking his head, Jian Ning felt a little resentful, and said, "Why do you shake your head, Shuai Shuai doesn't want to do that?" Shuai Shuai whispered, "Mom has violent tendencies." Jian Ning died of anger, Jiang Xin died of laughter.