Chapter 16 Sixteen, he doesn't learn, do you have a problem?

After sending Lan Yun away, Jian Ning finally had the space and time to talk to Jiang Xin.Soon after entering Shuai Shuai's kindergarten, a parent committee was established, and each class has one.Because Shuai Shuai was the last one to enter the kindergarten through a "special relationship", the teacher invited Jian Ning to be a parent committee member with insight.In the eyes of the teacher, Jian Ning must have a very strong relationship, otherwise, how could he be so calm and able to enter the kindergarten until everything is over?The teacher didn't know how much effort Jian Ning had to go through to get in.

The Parent Council has just held its first plenary meeting.The parent committee members who came to participate, in the words of the teacher, "are a group of people with high quality and great experience in educating children".Jian Ning was a little hesitant when he heard this, wondering if he was included in this group of people.But since you are also invited, you can join with peace of mind.The teacher said straight to the point that we parents are of high quality and have high demands on our children. We invited you to set up a parent committee to make our education more transparent, to make our teachers more likely to be supervised, and to let parents The opinions of children can be better conveyed to kindergartens.Everyone applauded quickly to express their gratitude to the teacher for his frankness.

The teacher also said that because early childhood education is the first formal education that children receive after leaving their parents, it directly affects the establishment of children's good habits and correct outlook on life, so we have to communicate with parents in advance about some problems. Jian Ning saw that some parents had already taken out their notebooks and carefully recorded every word the teacher said.Jian Ning didn't dare to be negligent, and hurriedly fumbled in the bag. After fumbling for a long time, he found a dozen scripts that the director had given to him. They were on A4 paper, with words on one side and blank paper on the other.Jian Ning quickly turned the white paper over and touched the pen again.A father next to him thoughtfully handed over a pen, and Jian Ning hurriedly expressed his gratitude with his expression, and began to write vigorously after taking it, for fear that the teacher would think that he was not serious and would have a bad influence on Shuai Shuai.

The purpose of the teacher calling the parents this time is very simple. First, it is to solicit everyone's opinions.At present, kindergarten education is simple preschool education, but in line with the principle of being in line with primary schools, these contents alone are not enough.Therefore, the kindergarten decided to expand quality education, including piano, abacus and mental arithmetic, martial arts, painting, English and Chinese pinyin, etc.However, these contents need to hire relevant professional teachers to come to the kindergarten for education. The kindergarten is responsible for opening up special time and courses, and professional teachers will teach.Take piano for example. Kindergarten has spent a lot of money to build more common piano classrooms in the past few years. There are piano teachers to teach every day, and children can choose their class time according to the principle of voluntary.English, abacus and mental arithmetic, etc. are also available.But these are extra charges. You need to pay separately for several courses and any courses you take.These are to be notified to parents in advance.

Jian Ning did the math, the kindergarten alone is not expensive, more than 800 per month, but if these courses are added, it will be 1500 per month.Jian Ning was thinking about whether to suggest necessary simplification of the curriculum, when she heard a well-dressed mother next to her say to the teacher with infinite respect in an exaggerated tone: "Oh, this is great. Our girl has always been I was learning the piano, and I originally thought about going to a boarding kindergarten, and I had to pick her up to practice piano three times a week, this time is great, the kindergarten really cares about our parents!"

Other parents also echoed, saying that the quality education in the kindergarten is doing well, thinking more about the parents and being responsible for the children.Seeing this posture, Jian Ning quickly raised her hand in agreement. The first item on the agenda for the Parents Council passed without a hitch.What if it doesn't pass?The teacher said that it doesn't matter if some parents don't want their children to take these classes. When other children are in class, we also guarantee that there will be teachers who take the children who are not in class.What to do with these children?Play with toys and bask in the sun!

Jian Ning thought to herself that it was lucky that she came to the meeting. If Jiang Xin came, she would definitely have to tell the teacher that it would be nice to play with toys in the sun, let's just bask in the sun!If the other children have gone to class and Shuai Shuai is basking in the sun alone, will he die alone?Jian Ning thought, isn't it just double the money?It's just a sponsorship fee.Isn't it just to let Shuai Shuai have a good educational environment by sharpening his head and coming to this kindergarten?Well worth the money. Next, the teacher said the second content.Kindergarten starts in September, and October is the National Day and Garden Day.According to the usual practice, every year at this time, the kindergarten will hold a series of celebration activities, and the children will have a program performance.Can you parents provide some help?

Jian Ning thought, what help does this need? The teacher said: "We looked at the list of parents and the unit. It seems that some parents in our class belong to the TV station?" Jian Ning quickly raised her head and looked around. The javelins on the faces of other parents clearly said "it's not me", it was herself.She hurriedly raised her hand and said, "I work in TV, how can I help?" The teacher asked kindly and extremely politely: "Look, every time we hold a show, many parents bring DV players to shoot. The scene is very chaotic, and other parents have objections. Some parents suggested that we Kindergarten shoots by itself, so parents don’t want to. After finishing, engrave a DVD for parents, and everyone can pay. This way the scene is quiet, and there is special shooting. However, our kindergarten’s technical level is limited. Can you give us provide such assistance?"

How could Jianning refuse!Quickly stated: "No problem, please tell me in advance when the show will be held, and I will bring someone to shoot." The teacher said very understandingly: "You can engrave a disk for me when the time comes, and any parent who wants it can come to me and get the disk out for engraving." Jian Ning thought to himself, the cost of engraving one sheet is the same as engraving 10 sheets, so why not engrave a few more sheets.She said to the teacher: "I will engrave 10 sheets for you. Parents want more, so you can take a few more and go out to engrave them."

Jian Ning came back and reported the truth to Jiang Xin, and sure enough, Jiang Xin said to Jian Ning: "Why do you have to go to so many classes? You have already learned it, so why do you want to go to elementary school? Boys, just learn martial arts, and you won't suffer from fighting in the future. I Look at piano, abacus and mental arithmetic, forget it!" Jian Ning said: "Do you know how good the kids in Shuai Shuai's class are? Some learn piano, some draw and win awards, and there is a kid who has a foreign father!" Jiang Xin smiled and said, "What are you doing? Want to change Shuai Shuai to a foreign father?"

Jian Ning raised his hand and slapped Jiang Xin, and said, "Bah! I mean, that kid has a bilingual environment since he was a child, and he's slipping away in English! If you were a foreign father, I wouldn't worry about being handsome! You can get a 100% in the exam. Peking University, they are called international students. Is it okay to be handsome? If you don’t learn all these things well, what will you do in the future? I inquired, and in this kindergarten, teachers from New Oriental teach English, and those who teach abacus and mental arithmetic are masters of mathematics from Peking University. The piano is from the Central Conservatory of Music. Parents of children in other kindergartens are envious, and you are still pouring cold water on it. I have decided that I have to learn English, abacus, and piano. Martial arts and painting are handsome.” Jiang Xin said: "Shuai Shuai is just three years old, forget about exhausting him to death. Forget about the piano, a boy, do you still expect him to be Lang Lang? Our two families have never produced music in eight lifetimes. Things that are not inherited or gifted cannot be practiced.” Jian Ning retorted righteously: "Who said you want to be Lang Lang? The teacher said that practicing the piano is to cultivate the child's concentration. In a closed space, the teacher and the child teach one-on-one, which helps to help the child's mental health. Concentrate. After going to school, children tend to be unable to sit still and lose their minds in class. Practicing the piano early can put an end to these bad habits." Jiang Xin was poor at what she said, but she was unwilling to do so.He made the last effort and continued to persuade Jian Ning: "The pearl heart can be considered to give up? Children have learned it before they go to school, so they don't listen well in class." Jian Ning curled her lips and said, "I'll test you with a question. Kids line up. There are 7 people in front of you and 8 people behind you. How many people are there in total?" Jiang Xin thought for 10 seconds, and was really a little dazed, and finally realized: "14 people. What are these?" Jian Ning said: "This is an exam question for primary school entrance. The children of our colleagues took this exam when they took the exam in June this year. Those who don't know get zero points. Those who know that 7+8=15 get 60 points. If 14 people are counted, the score is 100 points. Our colleague’s child didn’t answer the question, and he himself didn’t answer it. When we asked the child who was known, and said he had learned it in the abacus and mental arithmetic class, our colleague’s intestines were green with regret. He It was your idea at the beginning, kid, you must have fun before going to school, how comfortable you are. Look at the results, don’t you have to find a way to make up for it? I heard that it’s more troublesome to go to school, and other people’s children can do it. The children at home can’t. They can’t read and write, they can’t write their own names, and they can’t keep up with anything. The teacher invited the parents. What’s wrong with you? Let Shuai Shuai follow him?” Jiang Xin completely died down.He knew that since getting Shuai Shuai, Jian Ning has devoted all her attention to it, almost becoming an expert in children's education.Especially when it comes to dealing with educational concepts, Jian Ning has a lot of experience, and this is not just blown out.Jiang Xin thought that she should just stop speaking. Now that Jian Ning is the main person in charge of Shuai Shuai, she has the right to make suggestions but not the right to make decisions, so she might as well exercise her rights verbally, and don't say much else.It's just that Shuai Shuai, who is young, is unlucky enough to learn so many things. On the weekend when Jian Ning picks up Shuai Shuai home, the first thing he does is talk to Shuai Shuai and tell him that he will learn a lot of new courses from next week.Shuai Shuai has just adapted to the boarding life in the kindergarten and has a good time, but he still can't help thinking about his parents.Shuai Shuai seemed to understand when his mother said that he wanted to learn more.Jian Ning briefly told Shuai Shuai that starting next week, Shuai Shuai will learn English, mathematics and piano with the children.Shuai nodded.Jian Ning asked Shuai Shuai again, as well as painting and martial arts, which one do you want to learn?Jiang Xin waited for Shuai Shuai to talk about "martial arts", Shuai Shuai asked Jian Ning: "Is painting a small person?" Jian Ning said: "Yes! There will be other things, such as little rabbits, little people, etc. Tiger or something. Whatever you want to draw, the teacher will teach you what to draw." Shuai Shuai firmly said: "I want to learn how to draw." Jian Ning asked: "What about martial arts? Do you still want to learn?" Shuai Shuai shook Shaking his head, he didn't learn.Jiang Xin is so disappointed. God is not as good as people.Jian Ning said everything that should be said, and did everything that should be done.But at 10 o'clock on Monday morning, just over an hour after Jian Ning sent Shuai Shuai to the kindergarten, the teacher called and said that Shuai Shuai would not go to practice the piano.As soon as he entered the piano room and saw a strange teacher, just the two of them in a closed space, Shuai Shuai became frightened and started crying.The piano teacher couldn't say anything, so he had to send Shuai Shuai to the class.Back in class, Shuai Shuai didn't cry anymore, everything was as usual, but this won't work. Jian Ning put down the phone and returned to the kindergarten without saying a word.The teacher brought Shuai Shuai out and told Jian Ning that it is still time for piano class, so you can try it yourself, maybe it will be better.Jian Ning led Shuai Shuai to the piano room.When Shuai Shuai saw his mother at first, he thought he was here to pick him up, and he was very happy, but when he saw the piano room, Shuai Shuai started crying again.No matter what Jian Ning said, it was useless, all the good temper disappeared, and Shuai Shuai still couldn't stop crying.Jian Ning pulled Shuai Shuai into a corner, and she was also full of anger, and said to Shuai Shuai: "You won't listen to what mother says, so just cry, cry enough." Then, Jian Ning Watching from the side, Shuai Shuai continued to cry himself. Jian Ning pinched the watch, twenty minutes, thirty minutes, forty minutes, Shuai Shuai was almost crying, and gradually died down.Jian Ning came over and asked, "Are you still crying?" Shuai Shuai shook his head.Jian Ning said: "Now let's visit the piano room. It's not for you to practice, but for you to watch. I promise I won't leave you." After speaking, Jian Ning took Shuai Shuai's hand and left.Shuai Shuai was a little overwhelmed, but he was also a little scared seeing his mother's angry appearance, and followed her mother mechanically, his little hands were tightly clutching Jian Ning's hand, and he was sweating. In the piano room, there was a lot of ding ding dong dong.Jian Ning picked up Shuai Shuai and looked in through the small glass window above the door.There is a teacher and a child in each piano room.Outside a window, Shuai Shuai saw the little girl sitting in the room, and Shuai Shuai called her: "Niu Niu! Niu Niu!" Jian Ning knew that this was Shuai Shuai's favorite Niu Niu.She hurriedly taught by chance, look, Niu Niu comes to practice the piano every day, can you come with her?The teacher said, if you practice well, there will be stickers for you as rewards.If you cry again, Niuniu will ignore you and will laugh at you for being timid and afraid to talk to the teacher. After painstaking persuasion, Jian Ning finally led Shuai Shuai into the piano room.Jian Ning told Shuai Shuai that Niu Niu practiced the piano by herself, and her mother could only stand outside the door and close the door. If you have something to do, come find me outside.But if you don't look for me, the teacher will reward you.The teacher quickly said, that's right, that's right, if Shuai Shuai behaves well, the teacher will give you the biggest sticker. Shuai Shuai obediently sat on the piano bench, Jian Ning winked at the teacher and retreated outside the door.Through the door, Jian Ning heard the teacher and Shuai Shuai having questions and answers, and Shuai Shuai touched the piano keys for the first time under the guidance of the teacher... Shuai Shuai's first piano lesson lasted for 40 minutes, and Jian Ning stood outside the door for 40 minutes.For the whole morning of a Monday, Jian Ning devoted herself to her son in this way.However, seeing Shuai Shuai coming out of the piano room happily, seeing him promise to himself "I won't cry in the future", and hearing the teacher's praise of Shuai Shuai, Jian Ning thought, that's it.Anyway, I have to work hard for him all my life, do I still care about this morning?