Chapter 27 27. A conversation between a woman and a girl

What is the biggest difference between women and girls? It's not about height, not thinking, not age, not to mention whether there are wrinkles on the skin. It's an interpretation of love. "Love" is a woman's lifelong subject. Whether they are eighteen or eighty years old, they all have a heart beating for love. This is the same biological evolution phenomenon as the habitual change of men. Women will say "I see through men", but deep down they still look forward to "love" coming again.In other words, what she expects is not the man himself, but the "love" that follows him.That "love" can stimulate the secretion of dopamine in women again, making women radiant, nourished by love, and making a heart beat alive again.

And girls will say "I want to fall in love", this is because girls' youth has just begun, and their minds are not yet enlightened, so they have not yet tasted the taste of true love.In other words, even if you come to her with a piece of true love at this time, she may not be able to distinguish the ingredients of this true love. It is not until she becomes a woman who has gone through a thousand sails that she will suddenly realize: "Oh, love came and it went... I fucking see it through." Wen Jiajia can be regarded as a representative of a woman, and Julie is a girl through and through.

They are in the two extreme factions to detoxify "love", one is rational and the other is emotional. But whether they are rational or emotional, they all like romantic movies, such as "Sleepless in Seattle". Wen Jiajia has watched "Sleepless in Seattle" dozens of times, definitely surpassing Julie in the number of times, but in terms of the self-control ability of tear glands, Julie is even better. Of course, Wen Jiajia blamed this on the fact that she was pregnant, so she was emotionally unstable. "Sleepless in Seattle" on the screen came to an end, and the last scene appeared in front of the audience as expected.With so few audiences around, most consumers don't spend their time watching the same movie over and over.

Wen Jiajia burst into tears while stuffing popcorn into her mouth. Julie couldn't help but conclude: "This is love." Wen Jiajia wiped her tears and said, "This is an illusion, not love." You see, this is the different interpretation of "love" between girls and women. The former expects and dares to express it, while the latter still expects it but refuses to admit it. Julie sticks to her guns: "This is love." Wen Jiajia sniffed and spoke with practice: "There is no such story in life." Julie added: "You haven't heard everyone's story."

Wen Jiajia was thinking, even if she had heard the most romantic, touching, enviable and yearning love story all over the world, as long as a woman hadn't experienced it herself, she would question its existence. Women long for love, because they long for love to exist in their own lives, not others. At this point, women are always selfish. The famous Starbucks coffee shop in Seattle was crowded with people. Wen Jiajia and Julie squeezed out of the shop with a big cup in their hands. Their topic was still in the ascendant, and it still revolved around "love". Men can never understand why women are so happy with a topic that can never win or lose, just like men always chatter about women when they get together, but they can never come to a satisfactory conclusion.

Wen Jiajia said to Julie: "That's right, but it's like I haven't been to Boeing, but it doesn't prevent me from knowing that it's an airplane. A glass of caramel macchiato for four dollars, and a glass of star ice for four dollars and five Le, you can see it, feel it, taste it, smell it, this is real. Love comes and goes without a trace, who has seen it? Tell you that it is a kind of screenwriter who has no good intentions and makes it up to deceive You ignorant little girls use it." Wen Jiajia didn't notice that when she laughed at the ignorant little girl, she scolded herself too.

Compared to the ignorant little girl who plunges headlong into believing in love, a woman like Wen Jiajia struggling on the edge of the precipice of self-deception is even more pitiful. Julie was speechless for a while, as if she was thinking: "The air can't be seen or touched, can't be tasted or smelled, but it exists." Wen Jiajia rubbed her forehead with a headache, and she realized that she couldn't argue with a little girl! Julie continued to ask: "Didn't you come across it? Then how can you have a baby?" The little girl had always been innocent, and she hit the nail on the head, and Wen Jiajia's head was bleeding with a single sentence.

Wen Jiajia lost all confidence: "This question is very complicated... oops! It's a child's family, what kind of love, love, I will have to sue your father later, you are too precocious!" Wen Jiajia decided to surrender, so she moved out of Frank.At this moment, she could almost see through the petite Julie that she would grow into a woman in the future. This must be a character who is invincible and a headache for all men in the world. Wen Jiajia expresses deep sympathy for Julie's future husband in her heart, but at the moment she sympathizes with Frank more. Julie reminded: "My dad went to New York."

Wen Jiajia whistled: "Oh my god, he went to New York by himself to have fun and leave you home, how beautiful it is!" Julie continued to reveal the truth: "My dad is going to take the board exam, not to play." Wen Jiajia asked: "What? What is the test?" Julie said: "Board is a doctor's license." At this moment, Wen Jiajia's expression was really subtle. Until Julie shouted: "Look, look...the fish is for sale..." Julie dragged Wen Jiajia through the crowd, and saw the most distinctive fish selling performance in Pike Market. Several people yelled loudly while selling fish, and they threw fish around.

The two women, one big and one small, watched and laughed, and quickly put the "existence of love" behind them. It's just that this truce is temporary. After Julie tied the dream catcher to the bedside before going to bed, Wen Jiajia gently opened the door, and opened up the topic that stopped abruptly in the evening again. Wen Jiajia asked without hesitation: "Are you still asleep?" Julie immediately saw through the meaning behind Wen Jiajia's opening remarks, and asked self-consciously, "Are you here to tell me that you believe in love?" Wen Jiajia choked for a moment, then asked again: "Tell me, is your father in New York now?"

Julie nodded. Wen Jiajia asked again, "What's the date today?" Julie said, "February 12th." Wen Jiajia let out an "oh" and turned back the topic of dissatisfaction: "Listen, even though I don't believe in aliens, it doesn't mean I don't like watching "Star Wars". Do you understand? It's like I don't believe in aliens. Don't believe in that shitty romantic love, but I still want to shed tears watching "Sleepless in Seattle"." Julie laughed slowly, she was such a big kid. Wen Jiajia continued: "Also, I also think it would be cool to celebrate Valentine's Day on top of the Empire State Building." Wen Jiajia finally got the point straight, Julie sat up excitedly, and widened her bright eyes: "You mean..." Wen Jiajia winked at her: "Do you want to go to New York to pick up your dad?" Julie nodded hastily: "I really want to...but..." Wen Jiajia continued to abduct: "If you accompany me to the Empire State Building, I will consider teaching you my own three ways of dating men." Julie "cut": "Only three styles?" Wen Jiajia gestured: "Seeing the Marquis of Blood make a move to control the enemy, that is a ruthless move." Julie immediately said, "I still have to go to the Metropolitan Museum." Wen Jiajia followed suit: "Of course, the Metropolitan Museum." Julie was finally happy: "Deal!" It seems that whether it is a woman or a girl, it is equally worrying.Even if they can't reach a consensus on the interpretation of "love", they are definitely like-minded when it comes to tossing men.