Chapter 31 Refusal to marry on trumped-up charges

——Nanshan Cui Cui, male fox Sui Sui Nanshan Cui Cui, male fox Sui Sui.Lu Dao is in trouble, and Qi Zi is free to return.It is said to return to stop, but also to stop? Ge Qi five liang, crown and double stop.Lu Dao is turbulent, but Qi Ziyong stops.Since it is said to be Yongzhi, how can it be stopped? What is hemp like?Balance from its mu.How to take a wife?Parents must be told.Since it is said to stop, why not stop? How about salary analysis?Bandit ax can't.How to take a wife?Bandits are not allowed.Since it is said to be stopped, why is it said to be stopped? —— "Qi Feng · Nanshan"

Sometimes, one sentence can change a person's life. Xuan Jiang's life was ruined by the slander of Wei's envoy, but Wen Jiang's life was ruined by the sentence "Qi Dafei is not even me".When Wen Jiang reached the marriageable age, Qi Xigong recruited princes from all over the world to be his son-in-law for his beautiful daughter. Wen Jiang, who had just begun to fall in love with him, fell in love with Ji Hu, the heroic son of Zheng Zhuanggong, and thought he was tall, mighty, and personable.Qi and Zheng concluded a marriage for their children.The two should have been married.At the critical moment, Mr. Ji Hu didn't know which gossip man handed over the rumor of "Qi Dafei", saying that Qi's folk customs are open, and once a woman grows up, her style is open. Suitable to be a wife.When Ji Hu heard about it, he canceled his engagement with Qi Jiang.This sap completely knocked Wen Jiang into a daze!no matter when.Retiring an engagement is a big deal for a girl. It is equivalent to saying that someone finds out that you are flawed and looks down on you!In other words, you are perfect, but I just don't like it, what can you do to me?

Thousands of years later, when we watch it, we still have to sympathize with Wen Jiang's inexplicable experience: the first boy who really likes doesn't like himself, not only doesn't like himself, but also rejects him with an unfounded reason like "Qi Dafei" Own.This is downright useless.It would be unbearable for any other girl, let alone Wen Jiang, who was loved and favored since childhood, like a lotus flower reflecting the sun.Has Wen Jiang ever been humiliated like this?In a fit of anger, he became sick. Sister Xuan Jiang's marriage is not going well, and her fate is always bad, and she always feels a little involuntary.Compared with Xuan Jiang, younger sister Wen Jiang is not so obedient.Qingwen cried to Baoyu when she was dying: "Just one thing, I am not willing to die: Although I was born better than others, I have no personal affair to seduce you, how can I insist that I am a vixen! I am too dissatisfied. Since I have assumed a false name today, and I am dying, I did not say a word of regret. If I had known this, I would have had another reason. Unexpectedly, I was foolish and just said that everyone is in the same place anyway. I don’t want to be in the same place. This verse was born. There is no place to sue for grievances!"——I am afraid that Wen Jiang was greatly stimulated by the refusal to marry, and Qingwen also has the same resentment. MD, since I have taken on the false name of "Qi Dafei", I will show you, lest you die as an unjust ghost.

Just at this time, Jiang Zhuer, who is deeply in love with her brother and sister, came to visit her (I can’t tell the truth, at first they were really brother and sister, but then I don’t know how the relationship exploded), Wen Jiang actually did not stop doing two things, and actually had a relationship with his colleagues. An affair between a man and a woman occurred between Jiang Zhuer, the half-brother of the father. When Duke Xi of Qi found out, he was frightened to death, and hurriedly married his daughter to Duke Huan of Lu who just rushed over to propose.In order to prevent leisure, Qi Xigong also went against the custom of brothers sending off their relatives, and personally sent his daughter to the state of Lu to get married.Jiang Zhuer was unhappy in his heart, but he couldn't show it. He planned to volunteer to take on the task of sending his relatives to Lu in order to have a good meeting on the way, but he was flatly rejected by his father.Just the night before Wen Jiang's wedding, Jiang Zhu'er couldn't suppress her longing, so she carved a love poem on a bamboo slip and passed it to her younger sister.The poem says:

Peach trees are full of flowers, and their rosy clouds are shining brightly. They are unbreakable when they are in the house, and they are straight when they are floating. Jiang Zhuer's love poems not only praised Wen Jiang for being as beautiful as a peach blossom, but also lamented that his flowers have fallen to Ludi. Between the lines, there are helpless sighs.However, a love poem Wen Jiang answered was very bold and realistic. The poem said: The peach tree has a hero, and the spirit of Ye Ye, it is not broken today, and there is no one to prove it?Excuse me, exhort again! It means: the time is different, let’s enjoy it as early as possible, the future is unpredictable, why not grasp the present?This is a strong suggestion, but also a kind of passionate encouragement, which is the embodiment of Wen Jiang's bold and bold character.So on the night before Wen Jiang's wedding, this pair of brothers and sisters, who were almost crazy, were lingering together to death, almost missing the next day's itinerary.

As the saying goes, if you want people not to know, you have to do nothing yourself.What's more, the two acted so boldly?In the end, the incest between the brother and sister got out. What "Nanshan" satirizes is that after Wen Jiang got married, Qi Xianggong was reluctant to part with him. Because it is a satirical poem, and the satirical characters are of high authority, it is inconvenient for the poet to write with a straight pen, so the male fox in Nanshan rises up, and the fox is a sexual object, and the appearance of the male fox seeking a mate and watching around is used as a metaphor for Xianggong's lecherous attitude. .Qi Xianggong is in a high position, but he doesn't have the virtue of an elder. To act like a prostitute is indeed a beast.When Wen Jiang was ill, Jiang Zhuer, who was an older brother, often came to visit.It's a good thing that the two brothers and sisters are deeply in love, but Zhu'er is promiscuous and Wen Jiang is promiscuous, and the two of them have a despicable love for each other after going back and forth.During the Spring and Autumn Period, men and women were quite open. As long as two people are willing, they can fall in love and have a relationship between men and women naturally.However, it is still forbidden by etiquette and world conditions for brothers and sisters who are related by blood to have an affair with their children.

"Ge Qi is five liang, and the crown is double." The poet used the crown and the chi to make a fuss, accusing Duke Xiang and Wen Jiang of being dissolute and unethical.Wuliang: Five, as "X", the same as "午", in the shape of crossing and entanglement; two, borrowing of the ancient word "緉", refers to the belt used to tie shoes, and two belts must be crossed to tie shoes.The top and bottom of the crown are in pairs, so there should be a difference in saying that they are in pairs. So what?Wen Jiang and Zhu'er are brothers and sisters, but it is unstoppable for a brother and sister to have a relationship between a man and a woman by accident.The reason why emotion can become fate and evil is that it can make people not crazy or alive.People on the outside can give advice on what is right and wrong, but for those who are inside, what they do is what they want, not necessarily what is wrong.Morality, ethics, and common sense, some people respect it as sacred, but naturally some people sneer at it and regard it as bullshit.

"How about taking hemp? How about taking a wife? How about taking a wife? You must tell your parents. How about analyzing your salary? Bandit ax can't be done. How about taking a wife? Bandits can't do it." In the poem, hemp is used to cut wood. As a comparison, I feel the way of husband and wife, just like planting hemp should repair ridges and dig ditches and dig the soil frequently, and marrying a wife should also tell the parents' ancestral temple; like cutting wood, you must use an ax, and marrying a wife must also have a matchmaker.It is reasonable and polite, but the world is not always so clear and easy to sort out.Duke Huan of Lu had three matchmakers and six engagement gifts. He had the orders of his parents and the words of the matchmaker, but he lacked the courage to be a husband.In other words, men of his type are not attractive to Wen Jiang.A woman like Wen Jiang is not a small woman, but closer to a big woman.Those who can grasp her heart may be closer to her, and those who cannot grasp her heart cannot control her at all.The last two chapters of this poem are not only accusing Duke Xiang of fornication in disregard of etiquette, but also criticizing Duke Huan for his lack of support.

Duke Huan of Lu is actually not stupid, otherwise he would not have brought Wen Jiang back to visit his relatives for eighteen years.It can't be said that his husband is weak. The reason why a stunner is a stunner is that not ordinary men can handle it well, but they often do it the other way round.The tragedy of loving someone who doesn't love you is not caused by cowardice.No matter how shrewd and capable he is, he is helpless.When you really fall in love with someone, your heart will be hit hard like seeing a magnificent scenery, and you will become weak and incompetent. If you have never lowered your self-esteem for a person, so low as to be willing, you have never really loved him.

Five hundred years later, Wukong knocked on the Jade Emperor's head and asked: Is it a crime to love someone?The answer, of course, is no.It's just that true love is a great kindness, and in the end it will not hurt innocent people for love, it is a kind of care.But Wen Jiang and Zhu'er's love is ruthless and greedy, ignoring the world.Under the cover of love, indulged in the muddy swamp of desire, all the hardships and hardships in the world have nothing to do with them.