Chapter 3 Thousands of mountains and rivers away, I wait/return for you

——Picking the ears, not filling the basket Picking and picking ears, not full of baskets.Sigh, I cherish people, and set them around. Zhi Bi Cui Wei, I am a horse.My aunt drinks the golden scorpion, so I won't cherish it forever. Zhibi Gaogang, I am Ma Xuanhuang.My aunt drinks and sips a cup of wine, so as not to be hurt forever. Zhibi is gone, and I am gone.I'm a servant, so what's the matter? —— "Zhou Nan·Ju Er" I found a problem that is not a problem. In the Book of Songs, there are more than two poems with women as the protagonists, many poems about abandoned women, and many poems about thinking about women.Abandoned women's poems are really awkward to read for someone with a strong personality like me.I lack sympathy. Seeing those women weeping and mourning one by one, I really hate that iron can't be strong, isn't it just a man!He's still not a good man, would he be so desperate to live without him?Crying like a yellow-faced woman, she's just that promising.Maybe that man still had a little nostalgia in his heart, but when he looked back, my god, the man in front of him was crying with tears and snot, and he had no manners.Taking a closer look, her skin is rough and her waist is like a bucket. This is not the fair lady she knew back then, she has turned into a sow from a diaochan!If you change, who won't flash like a rocket to make a new love.

Sifu poems are much better.Missing is the white flowers blooming on the blue vines, even the entanglement looks clear and bright.Like a candle lit alone when the sky darkens, a rainbow appears in the sky after the rain, sad and beautiful.Indulging in such thoughts is something I am willing to do. I've always liked "Curly Ears".This is the first poem about thinking about women that appeared in my eyes.It didn't disappoint me, it was so bright and clean, just like Fan Li was walking by the Zhuluo River, and met Yi Guang who didn't wear makeup but was so gorgeous. "Juan Er" also has such a beauty without powder.

I am like a person who has just woken up for the first time, and as soon as I stretch out my hand, I catch the sunshine on the bedside that is so fresh that it can emit fragrance. It is so sweet to read it.Although this is a sad poem, every word and every sentence blooms sadly like a rose with thorns stretched out, and the thorns make people jump if they are not careful.But it is also a fragile and gorgeous poem, just like peony flowers in the strong wind, the fragility and beauty are scattered all over the place. "Picking rolls of ears is not enough to fill a basket. I am pregnant with people, and I will go around." A woman is thinking about her husband who is far away. Missing makes her not want to work. She picks cockleburs by the roadside for a long time. Dissatisfied with a small basket, in the end, she simply put the basket down, looked around the side of the road, thinking of him in the distance.

Where should he be now?What is he doing?Everything that follows is like a movie montage.At the other end of time, the man in the woman's mind appeared - he was tossing and turning on the road, exhausted.Exhausted, he drank wine with a sad face, half to quench his thirst, and half to relieve his sorrow. "Juan Er" is written very brightly, I am surprised.The painful thought of her husband riding up the mountain is heartbreaking.The taste of longing is simply a chronic poison that kills people, and it will eventually burn people's hearts to ashes! "I don't drink the golden pot, so that I can't cherish it forever. I drink the wine, so that I can't hurt it forever." ——Claim not to sing about the bosom to express the sorrow, and to write the worry by drinking to forget the worry.This kind of word is idealistic, and the euphemistic way of writing it clearly has deeply influenced future generations.Using wine to relieve sorrow and use wine to heal wounds is another good trick that future generations have learned from the predecessors.Since the beginning of "Juan Er", there have been many sentences about using wine to relieve worries, such as Cao Cao's "How to relieve worries, only Du Kang", is simply a direct inheritance of "Juan Er".I drank a lot of wine, but I didn't see much relief. After such a long time, decadence has become a fashionable posture.

I never like to talk about the so-called constitutional structure of poetry in detail, because I don't want to imagine myself as a forensic doctor dissecting a corpse.However, in the face of "Juan Er", I have to explain it, because its most commendable feature is its ingenious chapter structure.There are four chapters in the whole poem. The first chapter is written in the tone of a woman who misses her husband; the last three chapters are written in the tone of a man who is homesick and yearning for returning home.The old sayings such as "the concubine cherishes the king of Wen", "the king of Wen cherishes the virtuous", "the wife misses her husband", and "the husband misses her wife" all interpret the nostalgic emotion in the poem as one-way.Masaji Aoki of Japan and Sun Zuoyun, an expert of my country, also put forward the view that "Juan Er" is composed of two fragmented poems combined into one poem.These views are obviously insufficient understanding of the wonderful technique of chapter layout in "Juan Er".As for the fragmentary bamboo slips, because of their age, there are still some in the Book of Songs. "Xiaoya Mianshui" is a fragmented poem, which has the most prominent feature of the fragmented bamboo slips, that is, the meaning of the missing slips is not coherent.However, "Juan Er" neither has the obvious error in the beginning of the chapter of "Mian Shui", nor does it have any semantic incoherence.Instead of assuming that it is a broken slip, it is better to pay attention to its benefits that seem to be broken but not broken.

In order to make readers more clearly compare the difference between the fragmented bamboo slips and the full slips, (the full slips are words invented by me, not academic. Please don’t overwrite them.) Attached is "Xiaoya · Hongyan Zhishi · Mian Shui" is as follows: Mian He Liushui, the dynasty is in the sea.He flies the falcon, flies and stops.Sigh my brother, all friends of the people of the state.Don't read in disorder, who has no parents? Mianhe flowing water, its flowing soup.He flew the falcon, flying and flying.Think about the other without leaving the trace, carry on and carry on.The worry of the heart is not to be forgotten.

○○○○, ○○○○, he flew the falcon and led him to Zhongling.People's lies, Ningmo's punishment?My friend respects him and slanders him. In later generations, many literati used the "Juan Er" as a way of expressing women's thinking of their husbands assuming that they are thinking of their husbands, which has a far-reaching impact.Let me give you a familiar example, the "love letter" "Moon Night" written by Lao Du to his wife—— Tonight, it's the moon in Fuzhou, and I can only watch it in my boudoir.Pity the little children from afar, but don't remember Chang'an.

The fragrant mist and the cloud are wet, and the clear brilliance and jade arms are cold.When will you lean on the false cover and dry the tears with double photos? Lao Du's poems are so gentle that it makes people's nose sour. Few men are willing to write such sincere sentences for their wives and children. Their thoughts are all spent on other things.But Du Fu is an exception. There is also a song "Pass Mountain Moon" by Xu Ling in the Southern Dynasty. Because it is Yuefu, I personally prefer it. "In March and May in Guanshan, Hakka recalls Qinchuan. Sifu is on a tall building, and she should not sleep by the window. The stars and flags reflect Shule, and the clouds and Chen go up to pray for reunion. The fighting spirit is like this, and I will join the army for several years."

——Xu Ling also used this method of "reflection", but the poetic flavor is more closely connected with "Juan Er". Perhaps when he wrote this poem, he also thought of "Juan Er".This is not surprising, because cherishing people is an eternal emotional theme in the world, and this theme itself has the power to transcend specific people and things and become immortal. Why did I suddenly think of Charles Fraser's "Cold Mountain"?Inman was a wounded soldier at the end of the American Civil War. After his soul seemed to be burnt out, his strong desire for home supported him to stand up and embark on a long and arduous journey home.His lover Ada endured loneliness in the countryside intertwined with mountains and shadows, passed through the transformation period of losing her father and becoming independent, and learned how to fight against the rough and sharp life.

It also corresponds to the endless miss.The two are similar, as if in the countryside of Lengshan, Ada changed her pettiskirt for a green skirt and became an oriental woman standing on the side of the road more than 3,000 years ago, looking into the distance between her work, looking forward to seeing what she was waiting for in her heart. that person.As for Inman, he only needs to lead an extra horse, take a bronze wine vessel, and have many servants behind him, and he can immediately transform into an oriental man three thousand years ago. The war destroyed everything, and the still standing Lengshan is the only connection between them, and it is also the place where they remember and yearn for - a beautiful country that can heal your pain even if the heaven you believe in has been shattered.Returning home from the battlefield, returning to the lover I missed in the past, and the whole person returns from damage to integrity.

The movie "Cold Mountain" is obviously about the love between Ada and Inman, and every step is paving the way for this.The most touching thing in the movie, I think they met, especially Ada finally recognized Inman.But the book is different. It is a tome, but it is not like a romance novel.There was little confession, almost nothing.Even Inman Returns is a bland description.After seeing him in a hurry, everyone was surprised, and then Ada took him home. There are no romantic scenes, and no dialogue.This is undoubtedly very similar to "Juan Er".The performance of the movie reminded me of the ancient "July Ear" more than once.Classical and modern are so non-conflicting and sweetly combined, the inner essence of Eastern and Western thoughts understand each other, just like lovers, walking together into the hidden depths of the jungle. The movie "Cold Mountain" has always used "promise" as a clue.The biggest reason for Inman's return is also for commitment.In the book, Inman's return is not for Ada, Ada just happens to be waiting at the end of his return.Inman is for justice in his heart.He felt remorse for the bloodshed of the people and his own behavior, and left out of conscience. What about the man in "Juan Er", what is his return for? In "Juan Er", there is no such clear vow as "hold the hand of the son and grow old together with the son".Everything was wrapped in endless thoughts. The meaning is up to you to guess.