Chapter 12 Bian Yinhua said: If the child's surname is Bian, then it is called four generations living under the same roof (2)

Weak in intelligence, it is always inevitable to be slow in behavior. When walking, Zhou Dayou always stretches his head forward, like a tortoise in his early years, and looks around from time to time, looking at everything new and trivial, understand Man, you can tell at a glance that he is a bit mentally handicapped.Zhou Dayou has always had a dull temperament and a dull manner, and the tongue roll (big tongue) caused by his late speaking has "made it worse" for his own conditions.With a man like him, which woman would fall in love with him?How can parents not worry about him. Chief Zhou fell in love with Bian Yinhua, so he naturally helped Bian Yinhua.He felt that Bian Yinhua could and was suitable for his son, and thought that since Bian Yinhua didn't like to study since she was a child, her intelligence was not much better than her son's;Bian Yinhua's ability is what he admires the most. Only by finding a person like his son can his life be taken care of in the future.You have to live a decent life when playing house, if you find someone who is worthless, it is better not to look for it.Section Chief Zhou was very careful, and designed that he helped Bian Yinhua to bring up this matter again, in order to be sure. She, Bian Yinhua, had already eaten his, and her mouth was short, so it would be difficult to refuse.

The colleagues in the work unit acted as middlemen to the end. She told Wang Xiangping about the matchmaking, and she also made it clear about Zhou Dayou's background.After Wang Xiangping heard this, she immediately refused. She was tactful when she said it, and found a good reason, saying that Bian Yinhua was not yet eighteen years old, and it was too early to fall in love.Colleagues said that eighteen is the legal marriage age for a woman, and it’s too early to fall in love at seventeen. Falling in love is talking, and it takes time. After talking, it’s time to get married.Wang Xiangping still said no, and her colleagues obliquely brought up the truth of cannibalism.Wang Xiangping was angry in her heart, thinking that it was despicable for the section chief to use such a trap.She held back her anger, but said bluntly, if they can take back the work, they should take it back. No matter what, she can't wrong her daughter.The colleague also said that it was not a grievance. People, it’s good to have a picture. After all, Section Chief Zhou is an official, and the family conditions are still good.Wang Xiangping said angrily: It's not rare!Seeing that she was stubborn, her colleagues had no choice but to stop persuading her.After her colleague left, Wang Xiangping decided to spit out her daughter's food.Tell her daughter to throw up her job and look for it again.When she found her daughter and told the truth in every detail, she thought her daughter would listen to her.Unexpectedly, her daughter not only refused to listen, but also said that she wanted to meet Zhou Dayou, saying that honest and dull people are good, she can listen to her, and she likes people she can control.Mother said, people are a bit silly.The daughter said disapprovingly, can you still go to work if you are stupid?It's just being stupid, and it's not a big deal to be stupid. Only when he is stupid can he manage it.The status of the eldest and the qualifications of contributing to the family since she was a child make Bian Yinhua an equal in front of her parents. If she dares to speak out and dare to be stubborn, as long as she thinks, if her parents can't persuade her, she will follow her.Mother thought to herself that she might be disappointed when she saw someone.

After seeing Zhou Dayou, Bian Yinhua was not disappointed at all, but rather satisfied. She said that it was better than she thought, and that he knew that he was not stupid at all to let people in and make tea and water. Shy and timid, he behaves a little more cautiously, and he is dumbfounded when he looks at him. In addition, he has a stupid mouth and a "big tongue", which gives people the impression of "stupid".The mother said indifferently: "I'm not stupid, why didn't I even pass the junior high school entrance examination."Bian Yinhua smiled and said: That is because he is the same as me and doesn't like to learn.Mother knew that no matter what she said, Bian Yinhua would stop her mouth with words, so she stopped talking.Later, after thinking about it, I figured it out. I thought that my daughter was married, and if the marriage was not good, it would be fine for Bian's family.Zhou Dayou will live with his daughter in the future, but not with her. It's up to her to be happy and satisfied, so let her do it; besides, there are three younger sisters behind her. She doesn't marry well, and the three younger sisters are okay. Make up for this regret.

When the parents stopped interfering, Bian Yinhua officially started dating Zhou Dayou.The more we talked, the more satisfied Bian Yinhua was with Zhou Dayou. What she was satisfied with was Zhou Dayou's obedience in front of her. What she said, Zhou Dayou always agreed with him. When asked him anything, he said what Bian Yinhua thought was wrong. , he thought it was something.Bian Yinhua, who was born as the eldest, was very satisfied with his unreasonable and unprincipled submission, which was also what she cared about and hoped for the most. Being able to make a man eight years older than her submit to her was more satisfying than controlling her younger siblings.Every time she has an appointment with Zhou Dayou, she is in a very happy mood. This happiness comes from Zhou Dayou's obedience to her.Dating is intermittent, and she hopes that the happy mood will continue, so she hopes in her heart that she and Zhou Dayou will get married early; her premature commitment to the obligations of adults has made her mature psychologically, and she is eager to get married. She really wants to become a real "adult", and dreams of waving her adult's arm, leading a world that belongs to her completely, free and easy.With a partner Zhou Dayou, the adult's home will be established, and she is very excited and excited when she thinks about it.Just after turning eighteen, Bian Yinhua couldn't wait to propose marriage.This suits the hearts of Zhou Dayou's parents. The baton they worry about their son is handed over to the capable Bian Yinhua, so they feel relieved.

Bian Yinhua and Zhou Dayou got together, but they didn't "combine" for a long time.Every night, they lay together, covered each other with quilts, looked up at the ceiling, and waited peacefully to fall asleep.While waiting, they passed the time to say something, which was said by Lord Bian Yinhua, and Zhou Dayou listened and answered.What Bian Yinhua said had no borders or reason, and she said whatever came to mind, from home, from her sales department, from the street; what she saw herself, what she heard from others, what she wanted to ask, etc.Every time, before Bian Yinhua could say a few words, she heard Zhou Dayou's snoring.When she was interested, she would shake him awake and force him to listen.Zhou Dayou blinked his eyes in a daze, and said, I'm listening, I'm listening, Bian Yinhua continued to talk, and soon, Zhou Dayou fell asleep again.After going back and forth like this several times, Bian Yinhua would also say that she was tired, and fell asleep when she was tired. Once she fell asleep, she slept until dawn.Too lazy to get up, have to get up and go to work.Even on Sundays, after getting enough sleep, I get up, get dressed, eat breakfast, and do housework in a serious manner.They live with Zhou Dayou's parents. There are more houses and more people in the family, so there is more work.With the whole family, they spent the whole day chattering away, and when it was time to go to bed, Bian Yinhua and Zhou Dayou went to bed as usual, waiting to fall asleep without touching each other.Lying together, Zhou Dayou didn’t dare to touch Bian Yinhua, as if he couldn’t think of touching Bian Yinhua. For the indifferent one, the development of his “desire” was as slow as his walking and talking. In fact, the time has not yet come. Woolen cloth.As for Bian Yinhua, the traditional place where women imprison "desire" makes her have no hope that Zhou Dayou will touch her at all. She feels that the two of them lying together to sleep is a ritual that husbands and wives must perform to accompany each other. Together, rituals are performed to perform rituals.No one taught them "desire", none of them could generate desire, and no one could motivate anyone.

In the world that Bian Yinhua wants to rule, children occupy an important place. She wants to be a mother, and then she will be called a real "adult".She knows nothing about physiology, but psychologically eagerly hopes that she will have a child soon.She simply thought that as long as a man and a woman get married, they will have children; the form of "marriage" is the basis for producing children.However, after more than half a year of marriage, her belly has not grown up. No matter how ignorant of physiology, she also knows that the belly is not big, but she is still far away from having a child.Unable to help, she raised this question to her mother.After only asking a little bit, my mother knew what was going on. After being surprised, she sighed in her heart and said, Zhou Dayou doesn't even know how to do this, it seems really stupid!The mother gritted her teeth, shook her face away, and gave her daughter a good physiology lesson.Bian Yinhua was shocked and ashamed when she heard it, and said in a daze: "It's embarrassing to do so."

With a cold face, the mother took the opportunity to vent her disappointment with Zhou Dayou, and said angrily: Don't have children if you are shy, you don't understand, he is a big man, he doesn't understand anything, you are not looking for a fool What is it! After Bian Yinhua and Zhou Dayou got married, they lived together after all, and they also had some feelings for Zhou Dayou. Hearing his mother scolding him, Bian Yinhua was a little unhappy, so she couldn't help but protect Zhou Dayou, saying that he must not be stupid, yes He is timid and dare not.Mother sneered and said, how can such a thing be made by a timid decision, maybe he can't do it.

Bian Yinhua asked: What does "No" mean? Mother said it was impotence.Then there is a pass of physiological knowledge.In the end, the mother's face turned into a ray of peace, and she said that if Zhou Dayou was really impotent, they could get a divorce, and she would support her wherever she went. Bian Yinhua didn't want to divorce Zhou Dayou who listened to her, and assured her that he was definitely not impotent. After three months, if you don't get pregnant again, I have the final say, you will get a divorce!As the mother spoke, a bystander's smile flashed across her face, as if she wanted to see her joke.

Bian Yinhua said without hesitation, "Okay!" She thought in her heart, she understands, so why worry about Zhou Da, she will teach him, three months is enough for them to grope, there must be no problem. "Understanding" sex is like mastering a practical skill, and Bian Yinhua couldn't wait to practice it. The courage came, and the "difficulty" was unexpected.That night, Bian Yinhua followed her mother's instructions and was about to grope.If Zhou Dayou wanted to touch her, she had to touch Zhou Dayou first, and when she came to her, the fearlessness she had built up before disappeared.She clenched her fists, held her breath, and silently encouraged herself. The dream of "having a child" is the greatest strength and the only choice.Bian Yinhua used her strength to rush into Zhou Dayou's bed. She hugged Zhou Dayou and said, "Call me to have a child."Her face was pressed against Zhou Dayou's back, her voice couldn't come out completely, and the words she spoke were a bit muffled and timid.Zhou Dayou turned around, his eyes sparkled, he stretched out his arms to hug Bian Yinhua, grinned excitedly and said: I want a child too.As he spoke, he spread his hands enthusiastically and kept stroking his wife's back. The strength in his hands was rough and mechanical, and Bian Yinhua felt that he was rubbing her with his palms.According to her mother's instructions, Bian Yinhua pulled Zhou Dayou's hand into her shirt and let him touch her breast.Zhou Dayou rubbed instinctively, exhaled excitedly "Yeah", and couldn't keep up with the words: I, I wanted to touch you a long time ago, I was afraid you wouldn't scream!Bian Yinhua felt a little bit touched by him, and clung to Zhou Dayou tightly.At this point, I suddenly know that the things that belong to the husband and wife will make my blood boil and get carried away, and I can't find a gap if I want to be shy.Bian Yinhua went to the next step, and touched Zhou Dayou's secret part with her hand. It should be hard as her mother said.As soon as she touched it, Zhou Dayou pressed his hand on her hand, and his body froze, motionless.In an instant, Bian Yinhua felt a liquid gushing out from above, warm and sticky, covering her hands.She felt nauseous and a little nauseous.The first sexual affair ended with Zhou Dayou's premature ejaculation.

The next day, the mother couldn't wait to ask about their situation last night, and the daughter described it in detail.After listening to her mother, she used "premature ejaculation", and Bian Yinhua understood the meaning of the word.The mother said reasonably: It is fine if he is not impotent.It may be the first time, Zhou Dayou is nervous, and it will be fine later.So, the daughter looked forward to the result later, and the mother waited for the news from her daughter.It was still the same for the second time, and it was still the same for the third time. The daughter was not happy, and the mother was impatient.The mother came to a conclusion, saying that Zhou Dayou suffered from "premature ejaculation" and had to go to the hospital to have a look. If it didn't look good, she divorced him.Bian Yinhua accompanied her husband to the hospital. The doctor gave Zhou Dayou two "experiments" within three hours. Zhou Dayou couldn't control it the first time, and couldn't control it the second time. There was almost no difference in time, and the doctor concluded that he was "premature ejaculation."It is said that this disease is not incurable, and it can be completely cured through traditional Chinese medicine.After hearing this, Bian Yinhua was relieved, but regretted that it would be impossible to have a child.

After nearly a year of treatment, Zhou Dayou's "premature ejaculation" disease has improved.Well, he and Bian Yinhua lived a real "married life" in bed.Before reaching the state of freedom, Zhou Dayou sowed seeds in Bian Yinhua's body during the unfamiliar and stumbling process. As the days went by, Bian Yinhua's belly was revealed day by day. Her belly stood upright, and she was full of pride in being a "mother".Her pride is also the pride of the family, because she gave birth to a child, and their Bian family has entered a new stage, four generations live together, what a glorious stage it is!Let's count with your fingers, around the grandparents' house, around the parents' house, around the father-in-law's house, around the uncle's house, is there any family with four generations living under the same roof?Whenever Bian Yinhua thinks of these things, the pride of reversing the family structure surpasses the pride of being a "mother".Gradually, "children" and "four generations under one roof" became a concept.Thinking about it, thinking about it, she suddenly thought of a problem. The child's surname is not "Bian".This is a pity.After regretting it, she had an idea, thinking that this is actually a very easy problem to solve, and it is enough to call the child's surname "Bian".Thinking of it, she must do it.She thought that the "boss" should have such abilities, and when she did, the vanguard, example, and decision-making power she played were so honorable in front of the elders and younger siblings. Zhou Dayou's parents naturally would not support her idea, saying that their Bian family is a big family, and there are cousins ​​under her, and there must be a great-grandson surnamed Bian in the future; but their Zhou family is different, only this one son, The child born with a foreign surname, followed by a girl child, called the child's surname "Zhou", there is no chance, it is like cutting off the incense.Bian Yinhua said with good reason: My cousins ​​below me are still young. It will be at least ten years later when they have children. Ten years later, my grandparents will be ninety years old. It is hard to say whether they will be alive or not; My child can follow his mother's surname, and your daughters can also call their child's surname Zhou in the future.Father-in-law and mother-in-law said: Most people would not agree.Bian Yinhua said that if she has the ability, she can ask others to agree.Zhou's parents still shook their heads.After talking about reincarnation several times, the parents-in-law and mother-in-law would not budge.Bian Yinhua was in a hurry, she straightened her face, and began to operate on Zhou Dayou herself, saying that if she didn't marry him, who would follow him, and if no one would follow him, how could he have children; It's time to be content.The father-in-law and mother-in-law couldn't stand these words, and they also spoke with a straight face, saying that she, Bian Yinhua, had proposed marriage back then.In this way, the topic became more and more outrageous, and the words of mutual sarcasm and hurt continued.At the end of the day, Bian Yinhua angrily filed for divorce, saying that at this time of divorce, the child must have been awarded to her, and if it was awarded to her, she can freely call the child's surname "Bian".Then he said sarcastically: Zhou Dayou should find another one, he can also freely give birth to a child named Zhou.The father-in-law and mother-in-law said they were not afraid, but they were really worried.During this process, Zhou Dayou lowered his head and said nothing, as if accepting his fate.They fought coldly for a few days, and Zhou Dayou's parents gave in. They figured it out, and they felt that they had to call their grandsons grandparents regardless of their surnames, and that was enough.Bian Yinhua got her wish. The child was a girl, who was named "Bian Huan" after she was born a month after the "Gang of Four" was crushed.A hundred days after Bian Huan, to commemorate the "four generations of the Bian family living under the same roof", the Bian family took a seven-inch "family portrait" black and white photo, from the old to the young, from the inside to the inside In addition, there are more than 20 people.Bian Yinhua hugged her daughter Bian Huan, her mouth blossomed, her smile surpassed everyone else's. Two years later, they gave birth to another son. Following "Huan", they named the child "Bianhu".After that, the country implemented a family planning policy, stipulating that urban couples can only have one child.Bian Yinhua proudly said that her life is really good, she has sons and daughters.Growing up, neither of the two children showed the developmental retardation that Zhou Dayou had when he was a child. This should really make them "cheer".Bian Yinhua secretly made up her mind that she would do her best for her family, and if she wanted to be a "master", she must be able to afford it.