Chapter 4 Tong Yin Wei Yu

Tong Yin Wei Yu Li Yishan's poem, "Tongyin Road, ten miles in the stream and mountains, the young phoenix is ​​as clear as the old phoenix." I love it more than the ones in Western literature. Father and son are even more forgetful of the scenery of the world.There is still Weiyu Mountain in Yudizhi, which means that Phoenix came here thousands of years ago Come out, live in the phoenix tree, fly to drink water, and leave with feathers.Now I come to write about my parents, that is, like a sycamore tree Next, pick up Cuiyu. My grandfather passed away, and my father was the head of the family at the age of eighteen. The family business was immediately lost due to the bankruptcy of the tea shop.

Xia buys tea leaves from the mountains and resells them to his family's tea inn. He can get 200 silver dollars to support his family.but he's not like Is a businessman.Sometimes he also likes to go to the fields to plant, and people can tell that he is not a farmer at a glance.his pen The text is clear and smooth, but he never thought of himself or the scholar.He also manages and talks about things for others, not like A squire, he played the drums and led the crowd, played the three-stringed flute and the fife, cracked his feet and opened his chest, but he did not have the same character as the downtrodden children of the rich family.

Si Nongzhu is completely two schools of thought.Guangxi folk songs, Reading is not like a scholar, traveling is not like being a good tourist The sleeves are long and the trousers are short, which one is taller than others If there is a woman who loves you, you should laugh at him like this, laughing at him as a sincere and courteous person.And the man in the folk song answered The singing is also very expressive. I only remember two lines today, "It's not a poisonous snake that doesn't block the way, and it's not a prodigal son who doesn't marry a mother." Like

In the old novels, the good ones do not come, and the ones who come are not good. Since ancient times, Jiangshan is like a beauty, and she only marries a prodigal son.my father This is the joy with the world of the Republic of China. After the restoration of 1911, Xuantong abdicated, and the interim president Sun Wen came out. The governor and general of Zhejiang were gone. Rui Zhang Zaiyang and the others set up a military government. Once all the officials and ladies who are familiar with the drama are cancelled, it will not be rich Guironghua shines new.There is a relative in my family, Yu Wei, who was born farming and carrying a sedan chair. He went out to join the army and recovered Hangzhou.

He was promoted to the brigade commander in the Battle of Nanjing, and later became a provincial councilor and the general office of Hangzhou Electric Lamp Company.If wealth is better than honor For flowers, theirs are carried on the woodcutter's firewood, and they are more dewy than the ones that bloom in the upper garden.even Hucun People who work as workers or aunts in Hangzhou and Shanghai, as well as school students, all of them have broad horizons, and they are well-educated. different.When I was young, I went to Hangzhou with my father. In the early years of the Republic of China, there was a new army barracks in Hangzhou.

The fashionable children's play, and the women in the street wearing cheongsams and rhinestones are really exciting, but my father can have nothing to do with them. suspicion.At that time, Zuo Xing wore a wool coat over his robes, called a sanitary coat, and a sanitary shirt. He also saw that they were all good. of.He bought two sanitary shirts, one for his mother, and a leather robe called shredded radish for his mother. It's an old sheepskin jacket, I just feel that it's really warm, and it's always treasured.The world of the Republic of China is full of scenery Yes, my father is not violating like Yan Hui, but he himself has a scoop of food and a scoop of drink, such frugality.

My father was hospitable, and he was naturally affectionate towards people, but it all ended in respect, and he couldn't get used to it no matter how long it took.City man Women, squires and businessmen, even the farmer who loves passers-by, speaks in a tone and manner, and women can cry Cursing is also like singing folk songs, but my father's language is jerky, as if he is still at the beginning of grammar.He also likes others, China The folks are people and they are scenery, but he has no habit of chatting or talking, let alone obscene words. Zheng Jiamei said that uncle and my father are the best friends, the two are friends from beginning to end.My father is away, there is no

Rice, go and tell him that you can always pick out millet, and people say that you have to pay it back, but we couldn't pay it back at that time, but I borrowed and borrowed again, and then I paid it off when I became an official.Known as the uncle's family, he has 40 acres of his own land, plus the tomb field rotation , three people, father and son, farmed, and only hired one old cattle watcher. His family was the richest in the neighborhood, and he did not lend money for interest, nor did he He doesn't do business at the same time, and he doesn't add land and houses. Most of the silver coins he uses are hidden for a long time and have black flowers.he is the one

As a man, he is open-minded, and his generosity is so clean that he doesn't even have a chivalrous air.He doesn't look like he's very earthy He is very courageous, straightforward, lively, and naturally funny.I often see him wearing homemade green jacket and trousers, Wearing hats on bare feet and walking across the bridge with a hoe on your shoulders, it is really magnificent.He called my father Brother Xiu Ming.The Zheng family is also One village is separated from Hu Village by a stream, and the two of them have nothing to do and don't interact much. This kind of friendship between ancestors is not sweet.

When my father was at home, he taught me to get up early to write, and always have straight strokes and a square body.I listen to books, but he talks The official book is like an idle book, and the idle book is like an official book.He never praised me, and always felt that my writing was wrong with the composition, which made me I thought that learning is really hard to serve me, and I don't want learning to serve me. I still look at bamboo like Ailian when it comes to learning. , don't practice well.Only my father's wonderful interpretation of melody has never been passed on to me, nor did he teach it, thinking that he is the right one.

To learn the classics is to play with things and lose one's ambition, and the sacred words of art are dirty.My father also waited and didn't do it, but the villagers made ten rounds Sometimes he played the drums, and sometimes his younger uncle came to visit his sister, and his father occasionally played the orchestra to accompany him, only one or two pieces That's enough, but it's enough for his uncle and uncle to be like "falling flowers and flying catkins all over the river city, sitting with double buns and playing the sheng". My father treated his bride, nephew, and nieces like guests, and he walked across the bridge to villages in their 60s and 70s. Wife, in terms of seniority is a distant sister-in-law or mother-in-law, he always greets and responds politely, and the mother-in-law also treats him as a rule. The younger nephew who talked about it, the sister-in-law also regarded him as a little uncle who was familiar with him.He went to Yu Fu Village as a guest, and my son and he When the Yu family's young aunt spoke, she felt that the happiness between a man and a woman could really be outside of love.My father has never been in love in his life , he first married the Mi family, who died early, and then married the Wu family, that is, my mother.My parents have always been like teenage couples, little Every time I see my father coming back from outside, handing the money to my mother, or watching my mother while eating, it is a common thing, A common saying, when he said it, he expressed the peaceful joy and respect for his wife, and the wife also immediately You know, this is the relationship between husband and wife in Chinese folk. My father doesn't drink alcohol, but he knew that my mother would drink when she was a daughter. Sometimes in the afternoon, when my mother finished her work, he would go to the bridge Buy half a catty of wine in the store, buy two preserved eggs, a few pieces of tofu, put two plates of wine with you, and invite your mother in the living room , he poured half a glass to accompany him, and his mother sat upright and accepted his father's pour. At that time, his mother was fifty-one, and his father was fifty. However, it still seems like a young woman and a young man who just got engaged. When a man and a woman meet, there is joy and peace.My side ten At the age of ten, I broke in and leaned against my mother's knees. My mother folded half a piece of dried tofu for me, with a slight smile on her face, and treated me like Guest, I got dried tofu and went to play on the road. But my parents also fight sometimes.My mother blamed my father for not knowing that Shangxin recommended my fifth elder brother pregnant on my shoulder to the store He is studying business, and the fourth elder brother Mengsheng refuses to work hard in farming, and takes advantage of the force to gamble, and his father doesn't care about him, but goes outside and took out the things at home to make up for it, the two of them fought down the stairs, and the father ran away up.But in the end, my mother also made my father helpless. My father's meddling, people really don't know what to say about him.Every twenty or thirty miles in my country There is always someone who gets in and out of a country gentleman's sedan chair to speak for others, but my father does not have this style, he settles disputes for others. At the end of the festival, I only sent a duck or a catty of sugar as a thank you gift, because most of the people who are grateful to my father are from poor families, and They weren't too grateful either, because that was the way it was supposed to work out.And sometimes it is very careless please.What I know is that Yu Fu's family has a farm family, and they had disputes with the squire's family over the property, and my father helped the farm family to sue , the county lost the lawsuit, and my father paid for the legal expenses and travel expenses to accompany him to sue Hangzhou. After two years, the lawsuit was finally settled. won, but the farmer's wife was very resentful, saying that she knew this before, and it was fine to back down at the beginning. Mingtian, it is cost-effective to spend time and money on the lawsuit!My father was silently ashamed when he heard this, his righteousness There is no name for the change, and there is no telling whether it succeeds or fails.But the shopkeeper Renkun next to him saw this incident and knew You can be friends with my father. Although I was not knowledgeable before, but now I want to worship him as a righteous father. I was twelve years old. .It was also because of this relationship that I was able to study in Hangzhou, Shaoxing.And I grew up like my father. What has been experienced is actually success or failure. The original name of the world of the Republic of China has not yet been established, and its success or failure has not yet been determined, but it also has its own faith.When I was young, I went to high school with my father When he grows wheat in the sandy land, he puts it in the ridge, and I spread the wheat.Father came to the field as if he was a stranger, and the neighbors on the mother's side were very special when they saw him. Don't say hello to him, even clods of mud, grass roots and people have become Lan Yi.I went to the back garden with him to plant vegetables again, the vegetable beds and vegetable seedlings This is also a good method. My father is tall and tall, weeding and dividing vegetable seedlings next to me. His people and things are like this However, I am very close to myself, but it cannot be joy, sadness, love, or even It can be anything. On a frosty morning, my father went to the back garden to cut cabbages and yellow sprouts, steamed them in a rice wok, and only added soy sauce when eating. It's delicious.Hucun sometimes sells Zao mutton, and my father often buys it when he is at home, and only dips it in soy sauce when he eats it. There is also bean curd paste and tofu flowers. Take a large Xuanhua bowl in the morning and put lard, soy sauce and green onions first, and go to the Qiaotou tofu shop A big bowl of copper dollars.There are still thousands of molds in summer, and the rice cooker has a good aroma when the lid is opened, and it is best to open the mouth Stomach.In addition to Chinese New Year holidays and entertaining guests in my house, I usually only see three or four bowls of pickled and dried vegetables, but my father sometimes As a trick, when he thinks of eating something, it all comes from his heart. It can be said to be his private food. See Seeing that his wife also eats, he is really happy, and his person is like gold and jade, so the food is the food of gold and jade.Buddha and Ahan Sutra It was difficult to beg for food, but he only got mamai. Ananda felt wronged. The Buddha told Ananda, "What the Tathagata eats is the delicacy of heaven and man." and the worldly realities of our family. My father doesn't bother to put on clothes. He often forgets to bring back the umbrella when he takes it out. It doesn't matter whether he wins or loses at cards. In other words, he doesn't regret when something goes wrong.I was expelled from Wai Lan Middle School, and my uncle asked him to go to the principal to intercede , and imposed family rules on me, my father only asked me why I was expelled, and he didn't mind immediately.he looks like a stallion Tiger, but he is actually the most prudent person.He was never frivolous about family affairs.My living room will be rented later Opened Huichuntang pharmacy for Feng Chengkui, a native of Dieshi Village, and sold old wine. It was really prosperous. My father often went to his shop for leisure. In other words, once I heard him and Cheng Kui say, "I heard my wife cooking breakfast in bed in the morning, lifting the basket to wrap the bottom of the rice bucket. With a sound of gravel, people who are asleep will also wake up. "My father's open-mindedness and generosity are in the nineteen ancient poems. The nine poems are mostly works of prodigal sons and sluts, but they are really true relatives in the world.In such a chaste world, there can be no miracles And dreams, but there are news of plum blossoms in the ordinary years, and there are magpies singing on the eaves of ordinary people. My father's life seemed to be in a hurry on the first day of the first lunar month, without even a story.fifty-eight years of his life , my mother is one year older than him, but I always feel that the two of them have not grown old. I came up with such a person.My father passed away, and my mother cried every morning and night, like a bride who lost her husband, I was really surprised, Even thought she shouldn't.My parents' life is full of stories, that is, it is so touching, like a white snake The Leifeng Pagoda in the legend was about to fall and shook twice. My father suffered from stomach ulcers, which is also the disease of prodigal sons.In the year or two before his death, he sat with people in the neighbor's house After a while, he bowed his head and fell silent as if falling asleep, but when the neighbor's wife offered tea, he immediately woke up and responded politely.Great Nirvana Sutra I remember that before the Buddha passed away, he lay down on a pillow between two spinosa trees, saying that my back hurts now, but when Manjusri asked him, he immediately got up and sat down, It's true that people in the body of the Tathagata will never suffer from illness.When my father was critically ill, I went to the doctor in Zhao Shiwan Changed places, passed by the Jipu Temple, went in and prayed, but knowing it was invalid.Sheng County Xishan into the painting, my father can Bina Xishan does not rely on the protection of the immortal Buddha, but the immortal Buddha to rely on. But before my father was alive, I was unhappy with him once.I was studying in Hangzhou Huilan Middle School that year, and my father Come out from the countryside and swim in the West Lake with me.Sitting on the yacht, the two had little to say, because whether it was talking about family Things in the school or things in the school seemed inappropriate, so they looked at the flowing water outside the ship's hand and the Yue Wang who had just been there. There is nothing to say about the grave.Father was wearing a half-worn cloth gown and full cloth shoes. He was magnificent, but he was also so humble. Opposite me, I only feel that they are all his people.Seeing him is like seeing life directly, and I am also so clear The existence of the very right thing seems wrong, at the moment I became angry for no reason, very dissatisfied I care about my father, seeing a puddle of water coming in from the belly of the boat with a paddle, trickling to wet the soles of my father's shoes, my father didn't realize it, and I also If you don't tell him, there is actually a heart of gloating. When I went back to Hu Village in the past, there were still my father's posthumous writings everywhere in my house, including the names and dates written on silkworm plaques and oranges. On the same day, I dug out in the drawer the manuscripts with my third brother and me, as well as the manuscripts of Shaoxing operas, which are used to teach the villagers to string ten times. Yes, I just feel that everything is there, and I don't even want to save it.There is also Qingyun's collection of mother's posthumous photos, and I don't Ask her to.Chinese people's ethics are often called nature, which cannot be private, but it is only the great faith in the world that makes me feel good about myself. Reflect on yourself now. Since that time, it has been more than 20 years. What happened in the world of the Republic of China is not the vicissitudes of life, not my family alone. Of course, the graves of my parents in Yulingdun may not have been recognized by passers-by when they passed by, but this is also a time in the world.I am here When I went to Wenzhou, I visited the tomb of Ye Shuixin, and there were tombs of people from the Song, Yuan, Ming and Qing dynasties and the present day beside the Xieyang Qiulong. The tomb is the oldest. Although they were only civilians during their lifetime, they belonged to the same generation as good generals and sages. Daoyouyou is endless in the world. 【Humen Wu】 The Lord of Westerners is a father expert, and Maria is a mother expert, but Chinese parents are called Yeniang, Becoming a father is still the master of the young master, and the mother is called a woman.Women use characters to call them Ji Niang Ji Niang , and sisters-in-law are also called Ji Niang Ji Niang, aunts are called Aunt Niang, and aunts, aunts, and grandmothers are also called Niang Niang, who are married as wives As a mother, she is still as noble as when she was a daughter. The empress is the most expensive, and she is also used to call the concubine and the goddess. So far, the folks have been offering incense and fire in the temple. In the books and treasure scrolls, there are Yaochi Queen Mother, Jiutian Xuannv Empress, Nanhai Guanyin Empress, and Fanzhao Empress. Empress Jun, Empress White Snake of Leifeng Pagoda, etc.When I was young, I went to burn incense in the big temple at the entrance of the village with my mother, and my mother walked in front of the statue. However, I only feel that she and that empress are both people in this world.Seventy miles away from Hu Village, the place name is Cao'e, and there is a Niangniang Temple. My mother also went to burn incense. Empress Cao E was an unmarried woman.When the silkworms in Hu Village were still worshiping the silkworm flower empress, in the opera The Madonna of Huashan is also made. Later, when I was in Wenzhou, I saw that there was a shrine under a big tree on the street, dedicated to Empress Huafen.It is a seated statue three feet high , a corolla hanging down, a deep pink brocade robe, a jade belt around the waist, and a necklace of rosy clouds.She has a pink face and cloud temples, like a bride doing three At the same time, I was in awe and joy, but I became expressionless, but still kept the last married woman with "moth eyebrows still twitching." Every time I pass by the murderous look of Jiu Qiushuang, I always stop to look at it.Not to mention this, but now it is only the Madonna of Huashan Mother, take her mother-child relationship. In the Shaoxing opera Lotus Lantern, the Holy Mother of Huashan is the niece of the Heavenly Jade Emperor and the sister of Guankou Erlang God. On the mountain, seeing a group of soldiers and horses passing by under the mountain, she is the leader of a young general in white robes, she is just like a peach blossom against a pear blossom, a young woman Overbearing and eager to win, he wants to fight for no reason.She mercilessly defeated the young general in white robe, but also They fell in love for no reason, and they got married.She gave birth to a son named Chen Xiang.Her brother Erlang Shen is the most A strong character who wanted to be decent, annoyed her sister to marry a mortal, and drove her into a lonely cave to suffer. And Chen Xiang was a little older, because his classmates in the study mocked him, so he went home and asked his father, and his father told him.Pauline Deng Sing did this part because the father told his son about his mother, but it seemed to be telling his friends about his own affair, but Because the son is a relative, he is even more a confidant. He said that when Huashan met the Virgin, his tears were as fresh as new.that agarwood, Going to Huashan in a rage, his little boy Tong actually has his mother's mana, he doesn't care about the rules of heaven, he is not afraid of the Jade Emperor and Erlang God, I opened the lonely hole and rescued my mother.In Shaoxing opera, the second ugly is a chivalrous and fierce person, and Chen Xiang is the second ugly. The motherly love of Westerners is really an insult to their children, because human beings are born of the earth mother.What a wretched life, born of her breasts Life and death are also the final rest in her arms, being caressed and wounded, weeping and sighing, there can be no such thing as sinking Xiang rescued his mother, and his son also acted as a hero in front of his mother.Animals only know that there is a mother but not a father, and there is only a mother for the mother. Love without filial piety, Westerners only have the myth of the mother of the earth holding a torch in endless nights, looking for her daughter in the corners of the world, but there is no There is a record of a filial son looking for his relatives thousands of miles away.There is only China in the world, where children and parents are equal. The Lotus Lantern plays the scene where the Madonna sees Chen Xiang, telling about the past with his father, and how her elder brother Erlang God took her The libretto is very good about the hardships of entering the lonely hole. I only feel that she is a mother, and she is still a young wife, and she is still a young wife. Like being a daughter is a younger sister.She has no regrets, like Bu Feiyan in the Tang Dynasty novel Feiyan, who was tortured to death. Weiyun says, "Born to love each other, there will be no hatred in death", but she is more arrogant than Feiyan.And Chen Xiang rescued his mother, also for the sake of the world. People fight against injustice.When the Holy Mother met Chen Xiang's mother and son, they were both such heroic Taoists. In comparison, the maternal love of Westerners is also an insult to women.Their social life makes them physically and mentally exhausted, wanting to To cheer up, we can only emphasize the ignorance of primitive life. The lower the creature is, the more vigorous its vitality is, just like a silkworm moth. Life is only for sex and reproduction. No matter how sanctified it is, it cannot have the purity of a female body.Our Lady of Huashan is finished Not at all like the Virgin Mary.Avalokitesvara is the most qualified to be the Holy Mother or Earth Mother, but the Avalokitesvara in Journey to the West Yin Bodhisattva is like a sister. In Goth's Young Werther's Troubles, he wrote about the woman's maternal love for her younger siblings, but the Chinese sisters are not like their mothers. Dear, mother is like a sister.Most of the elder sisters are surrounded by impatient and lazy younger siblings. Even my mother scolded me when I was young. Me, hit me too, and said to me, "I still need to be hugged when I am so big. If the child doesn't go to play by himself, the adult has to do things!" My mother and I have no stories like the Huashan Madonna and Chen Xiang, but they are just ordinary Chinese folk mother and child .I don't even know my mother's name. I asked my mother once when I was a teenager. My mother just smiled and said nothing. I said, "Why is this villain so naughty!" and many years later, my mother passed away. Qingyun smiled and said, "I know the name of your mother", but she refused to tell me that it was her ability to be a granddaughter Can ask.But after Qingyun told me, I actually forgot again, it seems to be the word chrysanthemum. In the old days, girls in my country were only called by their names in front of their parents and teachers, not in front of strangers, nor in their husband's house. , there is such a paragraph in Shaoxing Game Game Dragon and Phoenix: Health, dare to ask the eldest sister's name?Dan and Nujia have no names.Sheng, the current imperial court also has a national name, three Children with rulers also have milk names, how can there be no reason for a person without a name?There are Dan and names, but I'm afraid the military master will call them.pregnancy , It is not called for the army.The name of Dan and Nu's family is Li...Tu, Li, what?Lee what?Dan, Li Feng sister.Sheng, haha, what a beautiful name Li Feng!Dan and Mr. Jun said not to call, but they called again.born, for the army blurted out.Dan, not next time. It's old school, but it's actually fresh and pungent.But Hu Village is a man who has a name and does not pass it on, let alone a woman, my mother only It's the Humen Wu family.People in Hu Village are like emperors and concubines, they only have the title of the dynasty, but their names are buried instead. In China, the people are also expensive, because the world is polite.My mother wears a short jacket and trousers at home, but when she goes out to the stream Skirts must be worn for laundry, and skirts must be worn for spinning cotton in front of the hall. After passing through the gate, she came in and sat on the eaves, and she also served tea.She doesn't go to the neighbor's house easily, and she never tells people's right and wrong. When the family members or relatives of the family came, my mother would sit and talk with her, but Qingjia was also tireless. When I was young, my mother and I went to visit the nine grandmothers in the same village. We walked there when we had a cup of tea in the lotus pond, and my mother also opened I put on a blue silk shirt and black skirt in the suitcase, bought sesame seed cakes in the road pavilion, and picked them up in my hand, because I was going to be a visitor. The nine-grandmother lives in a house with mud walls. In the middle of the day, the sun slant in, like a golden silence. The nine-grandmother comes to sweep the floor and cook. Burn dim sum, dim sum is rice cakes in soup with pickled vegetables, my mother repeatedly said sin, stood up again, and then the two sat down and said words.I stood in front of my mother's lap, thinking about the pot of green onions at the back door. The back door opened to Tian Hom, and the mountain was overwhelming. The eaves and farms are receiving water from the seedling fields.The sitting room is a mud floor, which is connected with the stove, and the tables and stools are all in the tea room. In the smoky sun, although the guest and host only met each other for an hour, it seemed that the world had been separated for thousands of years.I only feel that my mother and Jiutai Po is like a lotus picker on a brand of matchboxes. It is the lines of illustrations in woodblock books of the Ming and Qing Dynasties, but the paper and The color is from the early years of the Republic of China. My mother taught me, "A villain should have a sitting posture, a standing posture, and don't walk like a limp." Because she herself Self is a very good person.When I was young, I went with her to the stream, to the tea mountain in the mulberry garden, to my uncle’s house at the foot of Fu’s family mountain, I also accompanied her to the Jipu Temple, and usually I saw her walking around in the kitchen, upstairs, downstairs and in front of the hall, but now I don't see her much. Pedestrian, she walks so steadily, there is no exaggeration, it is just that people and heaven and earth are three talents, the sun and the moon are more beautiful than the sky, The rivers and rivers are beautiful on the earth, but her people are in the world, never forgetting with the world, immortal age forever.she's at home, yes After washing clothes or feeding silkworms, if I have a moment to spare, I will make a bowl of tea and eat by myself. I play by the side and see my mother. People sit so upright, and the room is relaxed and leisurely, I just feel that the Taoist world can really be ruled by hanging clothes. But my mother's family is very concerned about food and clothing, and she doesn't hide the world's difficulties from her children.hours at home When some guests come, my mother often asks me to go through the back door to borrow rice from the neighbor's house, but I will provide the food and money so that the guests will not feel that it is wrong.but If the generosity of my father and me involves romance, she will take the blame. She treats people straightforwardly, but she doesn't care about her feelings, so she is as swaying as the sky , but my father and I can't help but violate it a little bit, and it's not bad. Sometimes there is no rice to put into the pot, and the millet is only obtained in the evening, and the rice is husked and taken to the pedal under the bridge for pounding, and it is already dark , the neighbors have eaten supper, and my family is still sifting rice from the eaves.Mother pinches the rice into the sieve with a wooden spoon, my father sifts it, and I With the lamp on the side to illuminate, I hugged the rice piles in the big plaque and the basket with my hands, and felt as heavy as pearls and jade. Once I was playing at the bridgehead, and all the children went home for lunch, but I didn’t go back because there was no rice for lunch at home. , afraid of mother embarrassment.The child didn't feel sad, but he also knew that this was an important matter, but he became more dignified.I go Picked wood lotus pods by the stream, tied two of them with a rope, and played shooting stars on the road alone.Then my mother came and called me, The family saw that the rice had been cooked, and it was broad beans reserved for seeds.My mother sat on a high stool and watched me write five older brothers and seven younger brothers Sheng Lai Eat, with an apologetic smile, very peaceful. When I went to Hangzhou to study, my mother packed my luggage and told me every time, "When you go out, you must pay attention to the world, and you are always hungry. You have to know how hungry and warm you are, and don't forget the suffering at home. "Thirty years ago things are still like today, today I am in Japan, as long as I am doing well, I will take care of myself. Although my family can't take care of it, today is the people of the motherland. Every family is suffering, and I am deeply concerned about it. My mother is peaceful and picturesque, but she has the same worldly passions for her husband and son as for housework.my brother There are seven younger brothers, the eldest brother Jirun and the second brother Jizhong were born by his ex-mother. Jirun is a loser. He was fond of gambling and sold his wife, so he was kicked out.But he has great affection for brothers, and loves to be the face of the scene, After his father died, he returned home for three years.Ji Zhong served in the army and died of illness in Fujian. I only came back in his year I saw it when I got married.Although these two sons are not biological, the mother always treats them with all the courtesy in the world.Sange Jiyi Worked as an apprentice in a candle shop in Shengxian County. After three years as a teacher, he already knew how to carve dragon and phoenix candles. Hangzhou lecture hall, came out to the Shaoxing camp to be the general affairs chief, promoted to platoon leader.To count him as self-made, he often sends five yuan and ten Yuanlai and his mother married his sister-in-law, and asked her to come to Hu village to serve her parents-in-law for the first two years. The mother is most annoyed by the fourth brother Mengsheng, Mengsheng is the tallest, the strongest and most talented among the brothers, but he is not sincere people.He refused to study when he was young, and was caught playing truant in a private school, where he just sat with his mouth tightly shut and pried him with chopsticks. not open.At the age of seventeen or eighteen, he has grown into a good man. He can play musical instruments as soon as he gets started, and he can string Shaoxing opera books. No one can live like that, but he refuses to farm.He went to learn carpentry, and he could build waterwheels and eight immortals tables in just one year. He also knows the meaning of palace-style buildings, but he is not willing to complete his master in three years.He is too greedy and cruel.bet on him Bo lied and lied, his mother rushed to beat him, and the family rules were imposed in the ancestral hall, but he never changed.He bought tea from Yamato He also sells alfalfa seeds and collects all the tents at home, but he spends other people's money in the county town, spinning silk gowns Wearing and wearing, wearing gold rings, biting beautiful brand cigarettes, rubbing mahjong and la la.After that, did he survive in his hometown? In the prison, I floated to Jiaxing, where there were ten acres of fields, and there were sedan chair shops, drum music, wine and food, and wives and wives.I four Brother has the talent of a prodigal son but has no virtue. The fifth elder brother is pregnant, he is very kind-hearted, soft and weak, he is bullied by the fourth elder brother at home, and beats him with a stick to go up the mountain to woodcutter. Pick.At the age of fifteen, he went to a tofu shop in Diaoyutan as an apprentice, and was tortured by the owner of the shop. Unable to play, his mother told him to come back when he found out, and lay down on the eaves with a quilt to keep warm all day long. It took three months for him to fall flat. complex.He opened a small shop in Hucun, selling paper, ink, pens and inkstones, needlework shoe upper cloth, colored egg water turtle cakes, but was caught by his elder brother. The fourth brother fell down.He went to Shaoxing to rely on his third brother, but failed to open a wooden business, so he sent food to his third brother's house for a year, and his third sister-in-law sent him to wash Bowl shopping.At that time, I was studying in Shaoxing Senior Primary School, and I also lived in the home of my third brother, and my third sister-in-law could only leave me alone.five brothers later He was going to be a soldier, and he was not yet married. He died of illness in Ningbo at a young age.When the obituary arrives, my mother faces the sky from the eaves Festival, cry a lot.Father went to transport his coffin back and was buried in Xiayan Mountain.Xiayan mountain mulberry tea fields, tea mother plowing My husband is lively and noisy, but the grave of my fifth brother is euphemistic and gentle in the world, which makes people sigh and think. The year after my father died, my third elder brother also died of illness, and my seventh younger brother, Zhou You, died at the age of eighteen. Yufeng's third year.Yufeng was in love with his sister-in-law and uncle, and the servant took the filial piety and wept to pay his respects. If he was still there, it would be a heavy burden. Someone with an idea.My family is in disarray, but it is always a matter of the Republic of China.Du Fu Deng Ci En Tower poem, " The Qinshan Mountains suddenly shattered, and the Wei and Wei could not be found. Looking down, but at one breath, how could one be able to distinguish the Huangzhou. "How many people in the world of the Republic of China are like My family, and the military spirit and kingly spirit of a generation, still come out here. After my father passed away, my mother was still alive for twelve years. With Yufeng and Qingyun serving her, I can earn money to support my family , my mother worked hard all her life, and she cried for her husband and children, but she gradually became more and more calm and realized that there was nothing wrong with it.She has been with my father for decades Husband and wife are like golden boys and jade girls, they are the most expensive.If my son has my third brother, I will be able to live up to him. After the third brother dies, I will be able to catch up with him. In Guangzhou Teaching in the west, the neighbor Sanbao always has a good reputation, and it is the second most expensive.In her later years, she suffered from cold wind and cough. Lying in bed in winter, three meals, tea and meals are moved to the bed, and she will not get up until the weather is sunny. She is also calm and happy, and has never had Sick and irritable, looking at Yufeng and Qingyun in front of her, thinking that Ruisheng was outside, she thought that she was content with being a human being. 【Bamboo sprout milk 鷇】 In March, the flowers are very prosperous, but the name tag of a flower in Dream of Red Mansions says "It's coming to Tumi Spring", which is quite mournful. Qi is not as good as Su Xun's sentence "Bamboo sprouts embrace the quiet festival, and breasts contain Chunyin".But Su Xun wrote about him back then The two children in front of the court, brothers Su Shi and Su Zhe, have nothing to do with me, but I am writing like a primary school student, rubbing ink and dipping pen to write without writing. After writing, come to Gu Xianye first, and call your neighbors. But they said that I was very obedient when I was young, drying powder on the eaves, drying pickled vegetables at the door of the stage, my mother ordered me to take care of the chickens, and I was only four or five At the age of ten, he sat on the threshold with a crow in his hand, and saw a chicken coming to drive it away.The sun is setting on the steps, and the people who carry burdens on the road pass by However, when the shoulders were changed, the studs fell to the ground, and the clang resounded through the fields. The mother burned the ashes in the backyard and washed the sheets with water. My sister-in-law Yu went to Qianmo to serve Diao shepherd's purse. Nowadays, most adults serve children unilaterally, but in my country, it is said that villains are to be toads with living feet, and they will take care of adults. .My mother sewed clothes or built shoe soles in front of the hall, and I would hand out scissors and thread needles while playing around my knees.mother while cooking On the stove, I will light the fire.I went to wash clothes by the stream, I carried the basket and pestle, and walked ahead of my mother.Mother taught me to cut mulberry Leaves should be straightened and cut thin like her, because the black-haired silkworm still has a small mouth.She taught me to wash cabbage by the stream, You have to dig out the vegetable petals and wash them clean, and you have to go up the mountain to pick tea, and you have to pick another branch after picking it clean.I do it this way At that time, my mother treated me like a small guest. She just laughed when she saw that I was wrong, but she never praised me, so I grew up. When you grow up, you can not be disturbed by praise or reputation. My mother sent me to the Qiaotou Tofu Shop to buy soy sauce. There was half a bowl of three Wenqian, and I carried it with both hands. , looking into the prison bowl, swinging step by step, it is not dangerous, when they reach the house, there is not much left, and the mother rushes away. Come quickly to pick it up, and said with a smile, "You have to look at the road with your eyes, not in the prison bowl." Thinking about it until now, I always have to look at the road. The whole body of the Communist Party is nervous, and its eyes are fixed on the regime. The more it is like this, the more it will be overthrown. What my mother taught me is simplicity.Like Japanese kendo, I have been a teacher for several years, and it is rare to hear a word of encouragement, The disciples of Honinbo also played against the teacher once in a few years, and the shop and apprentices of Baigong in China were also taught by Mr. Very few.My mother taught me the principles of being a human being, just saying "a villain must be upright and obedient, and he must be disciplined and afraid". Nothing but scolding, if you don't turn your hands and feet against each other, don't ask questions, don't ask for this or that, don't ask for this or that, and don't ask for food when you see someone eating. Standing by and watching, a villain must not defeat a grown-up, must not pick and eat food, must not be without an inch, this is not allowed, That's not okay, like Buddhist precepts, meditation and wisdom, we must first start with the word precepts. Every time my mother said, "Teaching is not good if you rely on education."Originally, how to applaud is that you need to know biochemistry yourself, Relying on teaching can only teach stereotyped things, but teaching less will avoid being full.Mother Ning Shi remonstrated, "The villain must listen to the adults. Remonstrance and training", remonstrance is remonstrance.And remonstrance is to friends, and the book also says that ministers remonstrate with the emperor, sons remonstrate with fathers, and parents remonstrate with children. The daughter also said admonishment, but I only heard from my mother that the respect of ordinary people in China is so straightforward and born among the people. What the Chinese folk teach children is the learning of emperors.When I was doing operas in Hu Village, I loved to watch the Fishing and Woodcutters Club, Moreover, children like me have all heard the story of Luo Yin, and the folks describe the real man as a fisherman, chopping firewood and carrying burdens. A farmer is really a radish and rapeseed bearing peony. The Fisherman's Club is Zhu Yuanzhang's army to fight against the soldiers of the Yuan Dynasty. The bald prime minister pretends to be a fisherman to explore the terrain. Here Xu Dayi pretends to be a woodcutter to inspect the terrain. The two coincidentally match each other. One calls him old man and the other calls him brother. After perception, he talked about the affairs of the world.Xu Da laughed that the bald prime minister was comparable to the old man fishing in the dry stream, wasting all his efforts, bald The bald prime minister quoted Jiang Shang to answer, Xu Dadao, only heard of Jiang Shang Xing Zhou, not Jiang Shang Cun Shang.The bald prime minister also laughed Marshal Xu can chop more firewood than his younger brother, and it will all be reduced to ashes. Xu Da replied that what he chopped was the Saha tree in the moon, Build the Mingtang of the emperor for the new dynasty.The bald prime minister said, it must be as the little brother said, unless the sun and the moon come out together.Next Dynasty Zhu Yuanzhang's soldiers unfurled the "Ming" banner, and it turned out that the sun and the moon came out together. People who watched the drama felt that the Ming Dynasty It seems to be a matter of today. Talk about Luo Yin again.When I was young, my mother was cooking and I lit the fire, and the stove pit was clanging with forks, and my mother said that the Bodhisattva of the stove would Scolded, cited Luo Yin as a warning.Luo Yin was supposed to be the Son of Heaven, but his mother was not good.Luo Yin from hour to private Reading in the private school, walking past the gate of the temple, the Bodhisattva stood up, and his mother put an egg on the lap of the statue to try. Sure enough, Luo Yin walked past the egg and rolled it down.His mother knew that he would be the emperor. When cooking, she knocked on the edge of the stove pit with a fire fork, and counted Said that a certain family refused to borrow rice, and when you became the emperor to kill him, Luo Yin agreed "Oh".A certain house is missing and blames us, A certain family scolded me for drying clothes, and when you become emperor, you will kill their whole family, Luo Yin agreed "Oh".don't you Zhifan's wok looks like a human head, because Luo Yin is the mouth of the imperial decree, so it is not easy to agree to kill.Kitchen Bodhisattva will go to heaven Go to play, saying that if Luo Yin is the emperor, countless people will be killed, and I was beaten on both sides.So the fire is not good for knocking on the stove. . But it was said that the heaven received the performance of Zaosi Bodhisattva, and there was a thunderbolt immediately, and Luo Yin cried, "Mother, mother, I'm all clattering! "His mother knew that the sky was coming to collect his bones, so she quickly bit her mouth on the edge of the toilet.one When the thunder stopped and the rain rested, Luo Yin's golden branches and jade leaves were replaced by cheap bones. Later, he begged for food and became a beggar, but his mouth Because heaven hates filth, it has not been changed, and it is still the mouth of the imperial decree. Luoyin is about the area in the east of Zhejiang Province. There was Fangla in the Song Dynasty, Fang Guozhen in the Yuan Dynasty, and the rogue bandits in the late Ming Dynasty and the Taiping Army in the late Qing Dynasty all arrived. However, they used to be the real sons of life, but the people were disappointed with their bloodthirsty, so they created The story, but the research is not accurate, in short, it is also suitable for Mao Zedong. Luo Yin later did some hateful things, but the person who told them has forgiven him again, not as a warning up.Luo Yin had been to Lutian, and because he hated and poisoned his uncle, he said, "Luoyin lives in Lutian, the mosquitoes will bite uncle", the mosquitoes misheard. I went to sting bamboo, so there are many mosquitoes in the bamboo mountain.Also, when Luo Yin walked through the 塍, he saw farmers eating noodles and only begging for noodles. 得一些麵湯麵腳，他生氣把來倒在田水裏，說「大的變牛蛭，小的變螞蝗」，就 變成了牛蛭螞蝗，專咬種田人。 羅隱的娘舅收留過他，叫他放鴨看牛，他把鴨殺殺吃掉，卻招了一臺野鴨傍 晚趕回家，次晨開籠都飛了，說是鴨自己飛了之故，騙他娘舅。他又用蘆葦殺牛 ，因不曾帶得刀來，而那蘆葦經他題破，就變為這樣鋒利了。他叫一班看牛佬都 來吃牛肉，卻把牛頭牛尾嵌進山岩裏，說是牛自己鑽進去的，他娘舅去看，果然 一邊頭，一邊尾巴，拉拉尾巴頭會叫。羅隱的故事即如此回到了民間的跌蕩自喜 . 結局是羅隱避雨危崖下，因為他說了一句會壓下來的話，那崖巖就崩倒把他 壓在裏面了。小時我對著堂前的壁叫叫有回音，就曉得是羅隱在答應。故事編到 像這樣，今天他也還活看，竟是可以叫喊得應，真要有本領。 這故事抵得一篇孟子，孟子說天下惟不嗜殺人者能一之，而如張獻忠的立起 七殺碑，則到底不成大事。稱為天子，寧是要像子弟的端正聽話，端正故天下簡 靜，聽話故與世人無阻隔，還要有規矩有怕懼，規矩是「天生蒸民，有物有則」 ，怕懼是「文王小心，畏天之命」。但也不必引經書，中國民間的帝王之學，我 覺遠比孟子說先王之教來得氣魄大。從來儒生學聖賢，民間則多說做官做皇帝， 聖賢倒少提。 而世界史上亦惟中國有諫臣，當面說皇帝怎樣不對，要怎樣纔對，彷彿他做 皇帝的不懂，倒是你懂，那麼皇帝你來做吧！而你亦真的會做。又皇帝對臣下， 如劉邦愛漫罵，亦寧是平人相與。這裏其實有著謹嚴。而在民間是對小孩已然， 我母親對我即比修行律宗另有一種不原諒。 孟子教人從其如舜者，去其不如舜者，胡村人未必有幾個讀過「舜有天下而 不與焉」，但都曉得戒小孩不可要心太重。我小時衣裳都是上頭幾個哥哥穿下來 的，袖口蓋沒手指，下擺拖到腳面，秀卿叔家的阿水比我大一歲，卻一身印花洋 布衫褲，我看在心裏，但是不存與他比的念頭。阿五妹妹比我小一歲，她家開豆 腐店，不乏小錢買點心吃，又她母親去曹娥娘娘廟燒香，帶回來玩具，我皆沒有 ，小孩未必因為傲氣，只是自己更端莊起來。曹植詩極明艷，史冊上卻說他車服 儉樸，這還遠比宋儒說去人欲存天理，更沒有議論的餘地。蘇軾天際烏雲帖裏寫 美人、「肯為金釵露指尖」，真是貴氣，而舜貴為天子，富有四海，即只是這樣 的有法，這樣的貴法。 我四歲時，西鄰梅香哥哥家裏一班老太婆剪麥莖唸佛，我去嬉戲，半下晝在 造點心了，是蕎麥麵，我還不走開，大概也有想吃之意，梅香哥哥取笑的說了一 聲，小孩被道著心事，頓時大哭，伯母罵了梅香哥哥，又給我說好話，盛麵給我 ，我必不要了，後來梅香哥哥抱我回家，連一碗麵送來，我亦到底不吃。小孩亦 知怎樣的困難事都還不可惱，可惱的是自己下賤。 又一回是我七歲，弟弟三歲，兩人到屋後竹園裏，我背弟弟下溪岸到洗衣石 上，我先下去站著，他從岸上向我一撲，背是背住了，卻兩人都倒在水裏。我連 忙爬起，好言央他莫哭，也莫告訴母親，怕衣裳溼了回家挨打，脫下在溪灘上曬 ，要等它曬乾。可是弟弟等不得，他一人走回去，而且都告訴了。母親又氣又驚 ，卻也笑起來，只罵我「你這樣犯賤，且這樣的無知識」。不可犯賤，是貧家的 小孩亦像千金之子坐不垂堂，凡人身皆是千金之體。 我小時吃醃菜揀菜莖吃，母親說菜葉是大旗，吃了會做官，我就也吃菜葉。 我家飯桌上沒有那一樣是父親的私菜，小孩更不許吃獨食，不許霸佔好菜，不許 霸佔坐位。大起來我見有些才能的人最大的毛病就是霸氣，世界不太平也是因為 霸氣，實在可思省。又小孩不可嘴饞，我家三餐之外不吃零食，有言女子嘴饞容 易失節，男人嘴饞容易奪志。小孩亦不可嘴巴刁，揀食吃的小孩會營養不良。I 或筷子含在嘴裏潤潤，沒有中意吃的嗄飯，母親便罵、「如何可以吃飯萎癟癟， 小人該有甚麼吃甚麼！」儒生只讀經書，不大中意民間的東西，就有點像小孩揀 食吃。我大起來，富貴榮華與貧苦憂患都過，不挑東嫌西，而凡世人過的日子亦 果然是好的。 母親戒我，吃食要有寸當。又過年過節，次日收起，我覺不捨，母親便罵。 原來對於好東西亦要像君子之交淡如水，不落情緣，纔得性命之正。中庸的中字 非常難解，但像民間教小孩要有寸當，就極明白。我與群兒發喊戲逐正起勁，母 親就叫，「小人嬉戲也有個寸當，這樣跌魂撞頭胎似的，還不停了！」小孩白天 玩得出神，夜裏要做荒夢的，一個人大起來不攪亂世界，從小他就要不荒唐，此 則又好像書經裏的「思安安」了。 「思安安」是讚舜的，但民間平常就如此課小孩。我鄉下嬰孩尚在襁褓時， 必把手腳鬆鬆的綁住，恐其亂動扭傷。及能坐立，剛剛學行走，仍要留心他攀翻 盤碗，見他抓了甚麼塞向嘴裏，趕快奪下。成了兒童，抱雞摸狗，把母親針線筐 翻翻搗搗，都要挨罵、「小人怎麼這樣逆簇，會手腳一刻亦不停的！」一次堂房 的哥哥阿煥去看田水，紅姊坐在簷頭織帶，他走過身邊把紅姊鬢邊插的山花一撩 ，紅姊罵道、「手腳這樣逆簇，難道小時嬸嬸沒有把你綁過！」 不許小孩蹦蹦跳跳，似乎不合體育，但中國雕刻繪畫裏的人體，以及拳術， 皆含蓄柔和，調順舒齊，不重西洋人那種筋肉與骨骼相撐拒，爭強壓迫的發達。 便是細胞新陳代謝的話，今時生理學家亦並沒有說得好。原來生物愈低等，新陳 代謝愈快，細胞短命，人又如何能長壽？所以說神仙八百年伐髓換腸，細胞倒是 要生機不停滯而代謝得慢纔好。中國又向來忌生機發露無遺，今人卻每會精力過 剩，非發洩不行，只因不能涵養渟蓄縈迥，故亦不能持久耐勞，容易神經或心臟 衰弱。精力要涵蓄渟迥為氣，如王羲之的帖裏即每說體氣，氣以充體，且還有志 以持氣，如此纔是人身。 小孩且亦不可知識開得太早。今時的小孩百伶百俐，會買東西，會應酬生客 ，玩具及漫畫讀物多到無數，學校裏亦功課忙逼，讀書像拚命，這其實不好，知 識的根本是智慧，他們把根本來傷了。惟簡可以使繁，惟靜可以用動，現代社會 忙得不堪，即因不能簡靜。聰明智慧要含蓄如花朵的盈盈，知識與技術纔可以是 從它生出來的儀態萬方。我母親的規矩，大人在說話，小人只許聽聽，不可七嘴 八舌，見了一樣新奇東西，亦不可問這問那，凡百要放在肚裏過一過。興奮不過 是動物本能的飛揚，好奇心亦不過是動物本能的反應，但知識的妙機是生於人的 ，是先要他曉得人世的莊嚴。 我小時很笨，不曉得用錢，亦不會在人客面前應答如流。比我大一歲的小孩 我就打不過他，因我頭大，上重下輕，有時自己跑快也會跌一跤，額上起來瘀青 塊，母親常用燒酒黃梔溼了紙給我敷貼。可是這條命也急切難休，長大後層層折 折到得今天，雖無過人之處，但昔年比我能幹的小孩後來還比我不如。我小時是 惟獃鼓鼓的，好像自有一經。 民間老法小孩並無特權，我母親常說「三歲至老，你以為還小呢！」竟是從 三歲起就要學大人的帝王之學，而因我不成材，幾次被父親惱，更常被母親用烏 篠打。我五歲時，夜飯桌上，記不得因何四哥拿筷子撩了我一下，我哭起來，母 親罵了四哥，又簡單給我說一句好話，但我心有未足，仍舊哭，不料母親就不理 .我變得不好收場，哭得無味了，索性發野性，如此就惱了父親，他倒不打我， 只把我一把拎出門外。外面堂前間黑暗，我心裏害怕，登時放聲大哭大喊起來， 但是由我擂門也不開。後來裏邊吃過飯收拾碗盞，聽聽我已不哭，母親纔放我進 去，仍罵我小人犯賤，不識抬舉，我惟不作聲。 被母親打，最後一次我已十一歲，小舅舅來作人客我作怪，且以為已經這樣 大了不會再挨打，人客一走，母親笑顏送到門口，我曉得風頭不對，想溜身躲躲 過，但是已經來不及，被母親一把拖到後屋一頓痛打，問我以後還敢不敢再這樣 .我小時每次挨打後，鄰兒羞我，一齊唸道、「攤眼烏婁婁，油炒扁眼豆！」還 有年長的堂哥哥們見了亦取笑我，我只不作聲。 母親說下次要記錯，我亦聽了不作聲。新派不作興打小孩，但小孩的特權是 養成他要被人容忍，大起來要社會亦容忍他，而他若是弱者，則輪到他容忍別人 ，這樣容忍與被容忍兩組人作成的社會，從中雖出來基督的