Chapter 48 your arms, my cave

I heard that men need to have a private cave.Well, when he's down, when he's hurt, when he's tired, when he's frustrated , he can hide in that cave. In it, he may not think or do anything.He didn't need to confide or comfort him, he just wanted to be alone there in a daze. At this time, the only thing the woman can do is to wait outside the cave and wait for him.Don't break in, and don't pull him out. The greatest sympathy a woman can have for a man is to accept that he occasionally hides in his cave. Yes, everyone needs a place like this.There is a friend who played truant from school for some time when he was a child.Every morning, he leaves home in his school uniform, instead of going to school, he goes up the mountain.He found a cave and hid in it.When the school was over, he went down the mountain to go home.When he grows up, what he recalls the most is this period of time.

I also used to hide in a cave near my school.At that time, I probably felt that my behavior was very rebellious and romantic!Lying alone in a cave, the feeling of loneliness is sweet at the same time. We are all afraid of being alone, yet we need to be alone. Why doesn't a woman need a cave?Our cave is the arms of our loved ones.The man's cave is invisible, the woman's cave is tangible.I am willing to wait for you outside the cave, but when I need you, you also have to lend your arms. No money?no job?no boyfriend?It doesn't matter! I get many emails from girls who are the same as an article I wrote: no money, no job, no boyfriend.

J and K, who had just graduated from college, still couldn't find a job, and were abandoned by their boyfriends. They didn't dare to spend the money they had left.But K is better than J optimism. J said that she hated me for writing her feelings and situation, and she is in a bad mood now. But K believed, hoped for tomorrow. No money, no job, no boyfriend. Although miserable, it is not the end of the world. No tomorrow is the end of the world. There is a female reader who comes to me with a beautiful bouquet of flowers every year at the book fair.This year, she told me that her mother had recently died in an accident.This pretty girl had a lot of relationship problems in the past.Now, she is willing to trade all this pain and trouble for her mother's life, which is impossible.Her mom will never come back, and now it's just her dad, brother and her.She is in charge of housework."I now know that doing laundry and cooking is hard work," she said.

What are money, jobs and boyfriends compared to life?You used to think that the pain was as big as a big rock. After many years, when you experience more, you will find that the pain you once thought was big is just as small as a red bean.Then, you'll admit with a smile that you sometimes take things too seriously. As long as you're alive and dreaming, tomorrow, you'll have a job, a boyfriend, and money.