Chapter 10 lost slippers

Pinru and her boyfriend Jian have been together for three years. Ajian rents a house outside, while Pinru lives with her parents. Her parents think that a daughter should live at home if she is not married.Pinru sometimes went to Ajian's house to cook, and sometimes went to his house to help clean, but she never stayed overnight.They all think that this kind of relationship is also very good, and a little isolation will bring more sweetness. After Ah Jian changed his job, he suddenly became very busy, and he didn't even see him once a week.Pinru went to his house by herself, cooked some pasta to eat, and helped clean up after eating.She said that her favorite time was when she put on the slippers that Jian bought for her, put on Jian's long corduroy shirt, and lay on the sofa watching DVDs.Although Ah Jian is not by his side, he still feels close and sweet.

Ah Jian's work is still busy, and his attitude towards Pinru is not as good as before. Some friends remind Pinru that three years is exactly the time limit for the relationship to turn weak.She talked to A Jian and wanted to communicate with him, but A Jian heard Pinru's complaints and dissatisfaction, but he didn't explain at all, and he didn't defend himself. He just said that he was really tired. I just want to sprint at work. Pinru burst into tears and asked him, what made him feel "tired"?Could it be her?Or their relationship?A Jian didn't say anything, as long as Pinru gave him a little more time.Pinru is exhausted both mentally and physically in the face of a relationship that neither ends nor continues.

She no longer goes to Jian's house to cook or clean, and she also refrains from calling Jian.She tried her best to make her life busy, worked overtime whenever she had the opportunity, and never let go of social activities. Although she didn't say it, everyone knew that she had ended a relationship.Only she knew in her heart that she still cared about A Jian. She always felt that she still owed something and hadn't really settled it clearly. After more than half a year, Ah Jian's company closed down. He found Pinru and cried like a child, hoping that Pinru would come back to him. He said that it wasn't that he didn't love her anymore, but that he was a little tired , it may be that the whole life is at a low ebb.

After listening to his explanation, Pinru followed him back to his home, as if nothing had happened, and the pain and suffering of those six months did not exist, it was just a fantasy. Until Ah Jian opened the shoe cabinet and randomly took out a pair of slippers for her.These were not her slippers, she found that hers were gone. A Jian said that it got wet during a big cleaning, so he threw it away. Not long after, Pinru moved out of A Jian's house, knowing that the relationship was indeed settled.When Ah Jian lost her slippers, he also lost her and this relationship. Psychologically, he had already given up on her.

Many friends don't quite understand Pinru's feelings, why is it just for a pair of slippers?And a pair of old slippers? I think I can understand that it is not sports shoes, not brand-name leather shoes, but slippers that you have to change into when you get home and feel relaxed physically and mentally. At home, you can truly face yourself.Men actually know that what a woman hates most is when a man throws her away like an old shoe, but it's hard for a man to understand that just throwing away a woman's old slippers can have so many meanings. Many women no longer want to fight for the colorful world outside. She just wants to fully own men when they come home.Just like a pair of slippers, comfortable and inseparable.Only women can understand this kind of resentment.