Chapter 9 man's message in a bottle

"So, you are a dad now? What a gift that fell from the sky." At a gathering of friends, Nan Ren, who had just passed his 40th birthday, became the focus of everyone's teasing.Originally, he was a carefree bachelor who pursued beautiful young women. He spent hundreds of thousands of dollars every year to join a high-end fitness club, and he had to change to a new type of car every three years.Now, seeing his panic-stricken face sitting there, I suddenly feel very pitiful.Just two months ago, he came to me in a panic, saying that it was his girlfriend who had been dating many years ago but had already broken up. He brought a twelve-year-old girl to him, and declared that this was the crystallization of their love many years ago.When we broke up, my girlfriend deliberately concealed the fact that she was pregnant. Originally, she wanted to bring up the child, but she recently wanted to get married to a foreigner, and her daughter refused to go with her, and her relationship with the foreigner was very bad.The ex-girlfriend was helpless, thinking of the father who had been absent for many years, "Maybe you can get along well, this kid has the same personality as you." The ex-girlfriend said so.Immediately, I felt like a villain: "Have you gone for a DNA test?" Nan Ren laughed hehehe, unable to tell whether it was helplessness or complacency: "That tooth, that fleshy nose, it looks like a child of our family."

The little girl was quite willing to live with Nan Ren, but it messed up Nan Ren's life.He said that sometimes when he looked at his daughter, he was full of doubts. Is the child's mother affectionate for him, or revenge?It was as if a crime committed many years ago had been thrown into the bottom of the sea, but it suddenly floated up and spread out in front of everyone.He asked me, what do women think?Isn't it difficult to have a child?Why is it sung in a romantic mood in dramas or novels?It's not fair to a man for a woman to hide a child for whatever reason.Nanren came to this conclusion.

But I couldn't help thinking, what is hidden in women is not just children?Many of the past and wounds of men are also sealed in women's hearts.When a man and a woman fall in love, when the love is the most obsessed, they can't help but tell their sad things to the woman to increase intimacy.A woman is indeed easily moved by that fragile man, and she can't help but hug him into her arms and comfort him more enthusiastically.Their motherhood is brought into full play, and the eternal naive part of men is also comforted. Women always have the ability to get secrets from men, but they don't necessarily know how to make good use of these secrets.Some women deal with men by grabbing pigtails. Whenever there is a conflict, they take out those sad things as weapons and stab at the most vulnerable places of men.Some smart women can not only keep these secrets tightly to make men feel safe, but also make good use of these secrets to make their relationship better and avoid danger. It is precisely because she understands the weaknesses of men that she can master them. Staying in the veins of love, protecting the man, also protecting myself.I have seen some women who make men fall in love with each other, or who cannot be forgotten after many years. Most of them are quiet and not noisy, like a bottle with a small mouth and a deep belly, which hides many secrets deeply. A man's, Their own, their common secret, is hidden so deep, like a bottle sunk into the bottom of the sea, sealed with a long letter paper, in which every scar and glory in the years is written.Many years later, the man trembled and opened it carefully. When he read it, tears would inevitably flow down his face, like the tide under the moonlight.