Chapter 4 old friend, old time

When it comes to meeting Mingji and Fu Zhen, one has to mention the "SARS" in 2003.People who were able to travel to Tibet during the "SARS" period were probably mostly because of their rebellious personalities, and in the dark, I also met some people who influenced me for a long time during that trip. In 2003, I now see that there is a silly energy that I would laugh at myself, and I have an inexplicable sense of freshness in dealing with everyone and everything. Mingji and Huang Banxian were the few Hong Kong people I met at that time.I was always wondering why their trips were so well planned, while I was always chatting in the hotel to pass the time.Mingji’s conscientiousness and prudence is the first impression he left on me, and Erguotou is something I have to mention. The book also describes how we surprised the "Erguotou reaction" during the trip to Namtso. This is what he told me. My second impression, hey, this Hongkonger is quite good at drinking!

Do you think Fu Zhenmei? In 2003, I didn’t seem to know what falling in love was. That night, I was reading poems to everyone in the hotel. I saw Fu Zhen and another person walking into Balang School. small talk. Never would I have thought that there is a book in which the relationship is silently fermented at the moment when two people meet. This feeling is so wonderful in retrospect (at this time I really want to look in the mirror to see my smirk)! When I was drinking coffee with Banxian, I learned that Ming Ji had a crush on Fu Zhen, and at that moment I "understood" something.To be honest, I started to encourage Mingji to boldly do what I want to do as if I was joining in the fun. As for the future development, I also had an "epiphany" after the publication, oh, so it is!

Mingji traveled to Dali for a girl, just in time for the girl's birthday, and then the two traveled together in China's major cities in the east, west, north, and south... These things seemed so unbelievable back then, although many people do this now But it happened to me for the first time, and it always brought me a special kind of encouragement and touch.Even though I communicated more with Fu Zhen than with Mingji in the following days, I still feel that Mingji is a good role model. He told me what it means to be myself! Ten years passed in a flash. When Mingji asked me to write some words for the reprint, I thought I would write some hypocritical words that "continued" my usual style of writing, but at this moment, the past experience played back in my mind like a movie, and I couldn't help feeling deeply. Feeling, the world is actually not big, if you can encounter it, cherish it.

How time flies, I was able to meet them again in Lhasa when I was 30 years old.In the past ten years, my life was neither long nor short. I stumbled along the way, and I had already forgotten the promise I made in the snowy Lhasa morning in 2003.Fortunately, in these ten years, I have been in more or less contact with them: I had a lively reunion with their couple in Shenzhen; after they went to the UK, I silently followed Lao Fu’s blog; The photo of the three of us is exaggerating to others... When I learned that we might meet again in Lhasa ten years later, besides joy, there was also some anxiety in my heart.

When meeting Lao Fu and Ming Ji, he was somewhat reserved. The "yellow hair" who used to live in self-flavoring had changed a lot, and he didn't even know how to express the joy of meeting them.Smiling with each other is the best way! I am very fortunate and happy that Ming Ji and Lao Fu decided to move to my inn.The feeling between old friends is as if you have kept a bottle of old wine privately. We all know that the wine will taste better with time, so we always hope to put it where we can see it. This is how I feel about this friendship.They moved to live in my inn. Apart from being excited, they were also a little nervous, worrying whether they would like me here. After all, all our memories are left in the hallway of Balang School!Obviously I was overthinking. Old Fu and Mingji are much more friendly and easy-going than I remembered. They didn’t move here out of politeness. I can feel that the relationship between each other is deeper than I imagined, which made me let go of all the tension. .

With the help of the Internet, I know their stories in recent years.Many people are lamenting that they gave up their lucrative jobs to start a trip for more than ten months, but in my opinion, what are those lucrative incomes?Compared with what they lost, what they gained was really more!We chatted a lot of stories from ten years ago, the buns that Ba Langxue bought for Maomao!He Huang Banxian encourages Maomao's excitement!A group photo together at the Jokhang Temple Square——In these chats looking back on the past, I can feel that the couple are so humble, content, and at ease. I think this is what the travel brings to them, and I will Envious harvest.

Mingji and I cook every day like two chefs, and then "the whole family" will share our results together. I don't know how many times there will be such a time, so I enjoy the happiness of the moment. In 2003, the three of them took a group photo at the Jokhang Temple Square, and nine years later, I took a group photo of the three of them again at my inn. Although neither of them has aged in the photo, it is miraculous that the two photos are placed side by side .I don't think I will take the photos from 2003 and brag to others that they are my friends anymore, because the two photos will be pinned side by side in my heart, and I will take them out for fun from time to time!

I said it was not sensational, and I talked so much, I was grinning in front of the computer, braving a youthful foolishness that I could feel, this kind of time is really not bad. Lao Fu and Mingji, I hope your new book will be shared by more people, and I also look forward to our reunion more intensively. Remember to come to Lhasa to find me in the sun and have a big meal when you feel moldy!