Chapter 17 lovelorn is worth it

People who have never lost love, to me, are people from another planet. That is to say, I can be good friends with them, but I am afraid I will never be able to explain some fundamental things about life to them. This is the relationship between me and the "Never Broken Lovers". There are two kinds of "people who have never been lovelorn". One is falling in love, succeeding, and continuing to be successful until it ends somehow, until love "ends its life". Another kind of "people who have never been in love", the reason for never being in love is simpler.I haven't been broken in love, because I haven't been in love.

Of these two people who have never been broken in love, which one is the more "alien" one? Is it the kind of love, and then continue to love? Or the one that never even loved? To be honest, the kind of person who has loved but never lost love will make me feel more distant and more "alien". My confusion is simple - Can a person who has never been broken in love really be regarded as having loved? Can he who has not seen the night understand the dawn? I don't know if you can do it, I can't help it. If I fell in love at the beginning, it would be unimaginable to be loved by me.

Of course, there are many people who fall in love from the very beginning. This is indeed a happy thing. But then what? You can't just love endlessly all the way, can you? "Who says it can't?" I have some friends who are born with a lot of blessings and look at me puzzled. "Wouldn't it be nice to keep loving all the way?" they asked me. "Uh...not bad...just, just, just, will it be boring?" I said. well!It's definitely not a question of "boring or having fun". It is my identification of love, which has a "minimum requirement".

I believe that the moment of falling out of love is the beginning of understanding love. Before falling out of love, the sweetness of love tasted is insignificant, it is just the sweetness tasted by "love babies" when they are babbling. Babies are not picky, as long as it is sweet, whether it is sugar water or candy, the baby thinks it is good and worth a taste. But it's only for a while.The baby will gradually taste all kinds of flavors, the taste buds will become more and more developed, and the knowledge will become wider and wider. One day, the baby will grow up to the stage where he will no longer drink sugar water.

That was the starting point of his "taste identification". In the same situation, lovelorn is the starting point of love. Just like before starting a run, the flare gun slammed, even if it was shot on the eardrums, shaking us out of our wits, or even shooting on the heart, hurting us to bleed, it was just the starting signal of the long-distance love race! Lovelorn, among all kinds of losses in life, is a particularly indispensable one. Youth is actually nothing valuable until you have lost it. Air doesn't seem to be worth much either, unless you lose it. Human ignorance is an inherent curse. If you don't lose, you won't feel the preciousness of possession.

But most of the "losses" are often irreversible. Youth is lost, irretrievable; air is lost, and you can't last long. In contrast, the loss of love reveals a special light, as if, to the lovelorn, promises greater happiness... Of course, some people's lovelorn is fatal, and they will be destroyed after one experience.But the vast majority of people who have suffered a broken love have become more "qualified" lovers and have a deeper understanding of love. After falling in love, the person who will never lose love again should be a blessed person, right? But they must be missing something, right?

And those "what" are what I cherish so much!