Chapter 15 14. Ways and means for a man to manage N women well

I have an old classmate who married two wives, one Chinese and one foreign.This incident was very sensational among the Chinese in New York. The old classmate never avoided it. He often appeared in various parties, with a cigar in his mouth and champagne in his hand, saying: "I have to make a fucking bed. A bed that can sleep three people isn't even sold in fucking America." The old classmate's first wife is an American who works on Wall Street and is very good; the second wife is from Shanghai. I have never met her in person, but only seen photos. She is beautiful and gentle, a typical Shanghai lady.About seven years ago, these two wives gave birth to a daughter for him in the same winter.

People who marry several wives at the same time, I still know one in my life, that is my grandfather.His eldest wife gave birth to three sons for him, but the relationship was not very good, so they never lived together, and I never met her.My grandmother is the second wife, my mother's mother, and she camped with my grandfather in Beijing after liberation. She brought me up, so I am closest to her.The third grandmother, we always call her Mrs. Yin, has been living in Hong Kong since 1949. I heard from my mother that in the years after the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, the three wives used to live in Shanghai, but each had their own house. Some exchanges, peaceful coexistence with a distance.

If allowed, most men are not opposed to possessing N women at the same time, but no one has studied how to manage this complicated and intertwined relationship.Someone once translated a book that uses the Harvard MBA method to help older women find husbands. I think we can also use advanced business management principles to help philandering men analyze how to manage N women. The management style of my old classmates can be said to be more focused on team work, that is, team spirit.This is a set of foreigners, and now it is also becoming popular in Chinese companies.Many large companies often send a team of people to the wilderness for a weekend. One of the training programs is to let a person fall into the arms of his colleagues. This is called trust building, which allows colleagues to build trust.I think this trick is useless, imagine that when the eldest wife falls down, will these other wives hug her?Stop dreaming.It's not scary to fall to your wife's death. The real nightmare is that if the wives get together and start to punish you, it will be miserable.

That's what happened to my old classmates.After his two daughters landed, he began to work hard for the lives of the four women, traveling on long-term business trips.It is said that one day when I returned home, I found his photo disappeared in the living room, and the sexual orientation of the two wives changed when he went out-it was decided to expel him from the big bed, and just ask him to come up when it is useful .So team work is a very dangerous attempt. My grandfather's method should be called Compartmentalize, which means departmentalization. It seems that this is an old-fashioned management method, saying that it cannot stimulate the enthusiasm and creativity of employees.But I think that a man with N women probably doesn’t need these women to display any creativity. The first goal is stability and peace. If there is no excitement, there will be no.So this is still a very good way to learn from management.Facts have also proved that although my grandfather never sang and danced like his classmates, it will last forever.

There is also a third method, which is very similar to the management method of Chinese private enterprises - relying on personal charm.This management method can be said to be similar to Casa Nova in Italy.This great lover has conquered many women by relying entirely on his personal charm. What makes him great is that every woman feels like his ultimate lover when he is with him.The same is true for private bosses, who rely on their personal charm to attract a group of people. No matter how many people he talks to, you always feel that he will definitely promote you next.This method is tiring, and the long-term benefits are not very good, just like Casa Nova, which ended up poor and poor, and made the body very bad.

As a woman, I certainly don't like men who are fiddly, but I really can't see the chaotic management. Not only is it tiring, but it also creates a group of resentful and abandoned women, which is detrimental to the establishment of a harmonious society. Finally, I would like to add that on the last day of the Spring Festival this year, I met my old classmate in a shopping mall. He was indeed more tired than before, and he was very low-key. He said he wanted to buy a small razor, and then hurried away. up.