Chapter 11 10. Aventure

I just learned a new word from my lawyer—right of interpretation, and I have to use that word here, because I have to redefine the word "love affair". First of all, the definition of Aventure was spoiled by a group of young people, which made me feel depressed when I heard the word "Aventure".According to the definition of these young, fashionable and new human beings, Aventure is the 880th episode of a youth idol drama where the hero finally meets the heroine under the most outrageous circumstances and generates electricity on the spot; Eyes met.Its definition basically turns Yan Yu into the rights of fashionable, young, and beautiful groups. They bump into each other and generate electricity with each other, which is called Yan Yu.

I am firmly opposed to this definition. First of all, everyone in the fashion crowd is a small power station. They get acne if they don’t generate electricity. This is their nature, and there is nothing strange about it.Two weeks ago, a friend said that one of his friend's girlfriends was snatched by one of my girlfriend's boyfriends, saying that it was an affair, and he insisted on calling me to confirm, but I was ruined by others. "Boss, are you free right now? Don't worry about it." According to my friend, this was the result of an affair. The man was a photographer, the woman was a model, and the man's original girlfriend was an editor. The woman's original boyfriend was the host. How can such a typical fashion crowd switch thing become an "Aventure"! It happens every day, and I'm tired of it.

An Aventure should have a sense of magic, be a little desperate, a little bit dizzy, a little bit like the world is upside down.For example, in the movie <<Titanic>>, a daughter of a first-class cabin fell in love with a migrant worker of a bottom-class cabin in an instant, and this is called an affair.And the first class meets the first class, this can only be called "opportunity". Thus, the first definition of an Aventure is when the relationship transcends social class and social circle. Second, I'm getting older (actually I'm only 45 this year), and I used to have a bright eye when I met a handsome guy, but now when a handsome guy meets me, he opens his mouth and calls me "Auntie".I know a female university professor and one of her students got married. There was a twenty-year age difference between the two, and the school and the parents of the students didn’t do anything.I asked her why she didn't spend time with this boy, and she smiled and said, "How is it possible, we just have an affair." I think this is called a real affair.It has to be with someone you shouldn't have sex with; with someone you shouldn't have sex with; otherwise, there's no excitement.It's over when it's done, and there's no result to speak of, because it's the only purpose.

That is to say, the second definition of Aventure is: "Aventure" must be a bastard thing that has no result, just for a moment.If an affair can lead to something as serious as a wedding, it wouldn't be called an affair. To sum up: It means that people from the same family and the same social class occasionally meet and have a one-time relationship, which is not enough to constitute an affair, it must be someone who is out of reach.People of the same age group are in heat together, and it is not enough to constitute an affair; finally, people who are neither of the same class nor the same age have sex and get married, it cannot be called an affair.

Only a 45-year-old woman, with a family and a job, was with a very handsome young man, and then went their separate ways and never saw each other again. This is an affair. In other words, only I will have an affair.No one else has.