Chapter 10 9. The Blessings of Little Women

Since I was a child, my family taught me to be a grown woman: to be independent, generous, self-respecting, and kind.I tried my best to live half my life according to their teachings, only to realize that this is just one of the many ways for women to live. It is not very affordable and often suffers in small things.In my next life, I should try to live as a little woman. To be honest, I am very envious of them. The biggest disadvantage for big women is the relationship between men and women. They don't know what men want.Big women don't like men, they only pay attention to their own self-cultivation, and don't pay attention to men's needs.

I have asked several men what kind of women they like, and after a few draft beers, they all agreed that men like women who are more available.I heard a story told about a man who lived in a woman’s house. The woman didn’t close the door of her bedroom tightly when she slept, leaving a small gap. The man thought it was a hint from the woman and was very happy.I think the so-called available women just leave the door open when they sleep. Little women are very good at conveying all kinds of information to men, and they have excellent means - as evidenced by Chinese literature: flirting, flirting, flirting, etc., and of course there are more modern methods such as keeping the door open.I used to have a very capable little woman as an assistant in the mid-80s.She used to be a dancer in an art troupe, but forced by life, she went to work as a secretary in a foreign company.When she first joined the company, everyone looked down on her, thinking that she was too coquettishly dressed, and her English was not good, so she would not be of great promise.Later, I found out that she has a lot of skills, as long as the director we can't get a date, she can get a date as long as it is a man.The lady has black hair. Once she was on the train with several potential customers. She combed her hair slowly for more than two hours, chewing gum in her mouth, and humming a ditty, and sent a full message to the customer. As soon as I called back, sure enough, the customer arrived.

I didn't learn to take advantage of women when I was doing business.First of all, I will not act like a baby on the phone.Not only is the tone not soft, but sometimes it seems a bit blunt.I always try to impress men with my intelligence and knowledge, and let them see me as a serious opponent, so that they will enjoy dealing with me because I am a professional.When I can't get an appointment with the director, I always comfort myself and say, how can these country bumpkins appreciate an independent, self-reliant woman like me who has drunk foreign ink.But I firmly believe that my career will flourish, because my boss is an American who graduated from Harvard Business School, and he must know how hardworking and professional I am.But not long after, the boss gave the lady from the cultural troupe a raise and a promotion. She was no longer my assistant, but a salesperson on equal footing with me.

I also asked men what kind of women they are afraid of, and they confirmed in a very sober state without the influence of alcohol that they are most afraid of women who can make trouble.That is to say, after a little woman gets a man, her ability to make trouble in the heavenly palace can keep the man. I know an intellectual "big woman" who speaks seven languages ​​and graduated from Princeton University.She fell in love with a Chinese man and helped him a lot in his career.Although the man treated her well, he couldn't bear the tireless teaching and endless talk of the "big woman" every day, and he began to have a relationship with a little woman who didn't graduate from high school outside.We all encourage the "big woman" who speaks seven languages ​​to express her heartbreak, her jealousy, to this man in each of them, to get him back.But this "big woman" refused, emphasizing that she is an independent person and can speak seven languages ​​against the wall without a man.In this way, the man of the "big woman" went to live a sweet life with the little woman.

If the little woman knows that her man is having an affair outside, it is absolutely impossible for her to let her go.There used to be a foreigner living in my family, and his wife was Romanian. Knowing that her husband had a Chinese girlfriend, she came all the way from Paris. First, she scolded the hotel manager and asked him how to enforce foreign affairs discipline and why Chinese women were allowed to enter foreigners. place of residence.Then I went to my husband's company and demanded compensation from the boss, and also demanded that my husband be transferred back to France immediately.Our neighbors on the left and right were also scolded by her-why watch her man make mistakes and ignore it?It's all over, but I don't scold my husband, but cook delicious food for him every day at home.In less than a week, the man was completely settled.

Therefore, being a small woman is a woman's blessing. The success rate of winning the man she wants is higher than that of a big woman, and she can keep her man with confidence.Big women are at a disadvantage. I would like to make some final explanations about the door slits: it is not only the little women who sleep with the door slits, sometimes the big women also do this for the ventilation of the bedroom.The woman in my story just now is a big woman, but she scolded the borrowed man when he sneaked into her bedroom in the middle of the night.But the man asked her confidently: "Then why don't you close the door?"

As for Miss Art Troupe, she eloped with "Harvard Business School" three months after she was promoted.