Chapter 7 6. Bad guys get married

Bad men all over the world are basically divided into two categories when looking for a wife: one is looking for a mother, and the other is looking for a wife.Looking for a mother requires a woman to dedicate unconditionally to him, not only to be a mother to his children, but also to be a mother to him.This kind of man was more or less spoiled by his mother when he was a child and did whatever he wanted, so he needed a woman to go through fire and water for him and take care of him like his mother.Having a family of writers is such a combination.This male writer often has misbehavior outside, even these things happen under the eyes of his wife.For example, once, his lover confronted his wife openly, saying: "I've been swaggering in and out of your house, so just let him go to me." girl said:

"You don't understand, I'm a fucking mother, you can't replace me." In public, this dedicated wife is also able to take all the mistakes of her husband on her own, "It's my fault," she said, "I'm too strict with him, no wonder he often goes out to play. " In a sense, this kind of bad man looking for a mother is the most incurable.They know all their faults, but they are determined not to correct them, and they marry a woman who can encourage them. Looking for a pumped bad man is more conscientious than looking for a mother, so you need a soul-like wife at home to beat him from time to time.This wife must be an assertive and thoughtful woman, but definitely not a shrew.Only a good man would marry a shrew home.In English, this woman is a man’s Soulmate. A man can tell her a lot about his work and life feelings, and there is still a good communication between the two. This woman is often a man’s best partner and friend. The viewpoints of external things and people are complementary.I just watched an American movie called "Something Gotta Give", translated into Chinese as "Love is a Compromise", which tells such a story. Jack Nicolson plays an old playboy who has never married and looks for a lover the same age as his daughter.Later, he finally met a woman who could beat him every day, but at the same time, she could talk and laugh with him. After a lot of twists and turns, the two finally got better.The whole story is very typical of a bad man looking for smoke, which is very touching.There's only one link that doesn't quite work out in real life: the old playboy who's been gorging himself on Viagra in order to have sex with his young lover, and has a heart attack as a result.But when making love with this Soulmate, not only does Viagra not need to be used, but also the quantity and quality of sex have made breakthroughs, and the sex life of the two of them is extremely good.Such a thing is unlikely.Generally, this kind of enthusiasm and passion is short-term, especially when you are with someone who wants to beat you, this kind of thing is not easy to maintain.A man who understands these things will be very careful to avoid some of his mistakes of deserting, otherwise, not only beating, but a severe beating is also possible.

There are two types of bad women all over the world looking for men to marry: one is looking for money, and the other is looking for love.The first one is easy to understand, it is a good way to increase one's social status overnight, it is very utilitarian, but we seem to be used to it, and there seems to be nothing to talk about.The second one is more interesting.I know some women who are looking for love. They all have extraordinary experiences. They are not good wives and mothers. It can be said that some are worthy of the name "Man Eater and Cock Teaser". When men see them, they can't walk, and then they will be very careful. Make good use of everything on him, and return it to his wife when the man is completely depreciated.After a certain amount of primitive accumulation, this kind of woman will start looking for love.They suddenly have the desire to put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha immediately.The most capable and outstanding among them will also find a religion to add some spiritual color to their very practical life.A woman looking for love has a lot in common with a man looking for a mother. They both want to maintain their current life and need a partner who contributes without compensation.

Then you may ask, who are the good people?Where have all the good people gone?What kind of person do good people look for?There are also two types of good people, one is the life type, and the other is the fill-in-the-blank type.The first kind of good people are more content, find a good person to live a stable life with, do not seek development, only seek comfort.The second category is a bit mindless, looking for bad guys to fill in their own plainness.I think that the good people nowadays are generally not particularly outstanding, because they are too obedient, and the outstanding people are not much better, because they must be able to toss, and the more they toss, the more outstanding their achievements.This very unfair result is a problem in our culture. Good people follow the rules since childhood and never do anything out of line, but those who really want to make a career need to break some rules and find a way to develop.Even the current business training courses have a course dedicated to emancipating the mind. The English name is "Think out of the box", which means breaking the rules and not being too obedient.Therefore, good people are generally more honest, good men often marry a shrew, and good women often marry a false accuser.It's all their fault that they themselves are too old-fashioned to keep pace with the times.If a good man marries a good woman, I hope that their next generation will be all bad people, so that the society will progress and the wealth will be equalized.