Chapter 6 5. How many men you sleep counts

For more than a month, Ms. Zhang and I have been arguing about one issue: how many men can a normal woman have sex with in her lifetime.It happened when someone volunteered to confess to having had hundreds of lovers, which surprised us all.Ms. Zhang first thought it was impossible unless the person was a professional.I was dubious, and always felt that sometimes people are beyond appearances, and the ocean is too big to measure. Ms. Zhang has a two-word comment on my attitude: silly hat.She has a rational, mathematical and logical judgment on the possibility of this kind of thing that I admire very much.

"Let's do the math," she said, "at what age do you think a girl starts having boyfriends?" "Sixteen or seventeen years old." I said. "And when was she most sexually active?" she continued. "Probably in college." "Well, how many years have you been in college?" "Four years." "Four years, a total of forty-eight months. If you have hundreds of boyfriends, it means that you must at least complete at this stage... Let's say 80%, that is, 80, and the average monthly zero You will have a boyfriend in three days, is it possible?"

My math is poor, and I was about to take off my shoes and count on my toes. Ms. Zhang had already come to a conclusion: "This is pure nonsense." "You really can't put women's peak dating years in college," I said. "There are a lot of single women now, like in "Sex and the City." "Isn't that made up?" Not long after, I read a book called "The Sex Life of Catherine M", the author of the book is an art critic in Paris, a woman, she was very bold when the sexual liberation was raging in the 1960s I have experienced various ways of sex life. The first chapter of the book is "Numbers", which is the question of quantity.The woman actually lost count of how many people she had had sex with.She herself said that there are many people she does not know the names at all, and has not even exchanged a word with each other.So for her, the word "countless" is quite right.

To be honest, the writing is a bit dry, and her sexual history is described almost without interest and emotion, a bit like a medical book.After reading the first chapter, I couldn't stand it.I've found that while we're forever curious about numbers like this, it hardly seems to mean anything.When we pour out these numbers, we just want to leave an impression on people. The one who said hundreds wants us to know that she is experienced, mature, and experienced; the one who said zero wants to tell us that she is Simple, clean, chaste.It's a numbers game whose purpose is to tell us who they are.

I think it is necessary to write a digital illustration for women. If you want to use numbers to express their sexual concepts, you can refer to: Zero = live in vain One = loss Two to Three = Traditional Three to five = normal Five to ten = enough money Ten to fifteen = somewhat busy Fifteen to twenty = kind of messy Twenty to thirty = a bit tired Thirty to fifty = too open Fifty and over = total nonsense So numbers should be created according to what you need, but it seems to be scientific, but in fact it is extremely useless. Not only do numbers fail to tell in terms of sex, they also fail to tell in terms of publishing.The publishers of all publications will ideally exaggerate the circulation very imaginatively; all booksellers will realistically reduce the circulation in front of the author, in fact, they are all for profit and to get something.If this kind of thing can lie, then if someone asks you how many men you have been with, it is not a matter of opening your mouth.I want to be simple, three; if I want to be more complicated, thirteen.The numbers became a kind of sign.

Americans have a lot of "Dime Store Phylosophy", which is the philosophy of cheap stores. It actually refers to the humanistic spirit that is said to be rotten. It's a new beginning" and stuff like that.There are still people who are willing to buy such words from the grocery store, stick them on the refrigerator, hang them on the stove, and so on.This kind of very petty bourgeoisie seems to have begun to spread in China now, and the emotional novels of all fashion publications reveal a little bit of this moldy life perception.I would rather have our numbers engraved on a board and pinned to the bedroom wall.It could almost be a Dow-like thing.Every year, according to a market survey, the meaning of how many men to sleep with is announced, so that some sisters don't think about it for a while, and it doesn't matter if they say too much or too little.

The debate between me and Ms. Zhang did not lead to any results.We all thought this topic was boring later, but it was quite ridiculous when we thought about it, and we could say: "She is the kind of woman with about twenty.