Chapter 40 don't tell her to like someone else

It's better for a man not to say to a girl casually: "XXX is also good, why don't you try dating him?" If she doesn't look down on that guy at all, she'll think you're looking down on her.You actually asked her to date this man, even if you think he is worthy of her, then you look down on her too much. A man minds being asked about his salary, a woman minds being suggested whom she likes.You suggested that she like so-and-so, do you mean that no one wants her?Although she has reached the marriageable age, she still has this bit of dignity. If the man you ask her to like is too good, she may not be happy.At this time, she will feel a little self-pity and feel that you are teasing her.What do you mean by telling her to like a man who won't like her at all?She doesn't hate you for the rest of her life.

She looks down on that man, so your proposal will annoy her even more.She has always thought highly of herself, and if you suggest her to like that guy, it is tantamount to revealing the truth and letting her see that she and that man are on the same level, at least in your eyes.You hurt her self-esteem too much. If the person she likes is actually you, and you tell her to like a man she despises, she will think it is an insult.It's fine if you don't like her, why do you look down on people like this?You are too much!