Chapter 39 unequal enthusiasm

The emotional thing is weird.When you are very involved, the other party is very withdrawn.When you are very withdrawn, the other party is very devoted. You are very devoted to this relationship, but the other party has always had some reservations about you.You love him very much, but he doesn't know how much he loves you.Your passions are not equal.In the end, he leaves and you live sadly alone. In a certain year, in a certain place, you meet another person, he falls in love with you, and he treats you very well.This time, it is because you are not committed enough.It's not that you don't love him, it's just that you don't know how deeply you love him.After the trauma of the last relationship, you become reserved, you are much calmer than before, you no longer believe in commitment, that this person will always love you, or that he will give you happiness.The more he is involved, the more you withdraw.

You know very well that this is unfair to him, but there is nothing you can do.Why didn't you meet him before you were unharmed?Why didn't you meet him when you were 100% devoted to your relationship?Why does he appear when you don't trust feelings? It just so happened that both of them were 100% committed, which turned out to be not easy. Everyone has their own piece of history, and we better meet when the time is right.When an engaged person meets an alienated person, the only ending is a breakup.Next time, I hope that our reconciliation time will be better.