Chapter 8 Chapter 8: Love is a feeling

Each of us has had such a moment: When we are alone, we look forward to the little bird called love spreading its wings and flying in our hearts to dispel our loneliness. However, love is a very abstract thing, a feeling, a kind of understanding, a pure and beautiful reaction of body and mind beyond reality.This kind of feeling, understanding and reaction is exquisite and sensitive, affecting the whole heart and emotions of sorrow and joy, and the power is so great that it is often beyond the control of reason, or it is simply unreasonable. People are absolutely subjective in love, no matter what the value of that person is under the objective analysis of others, for you, he or she is the only person who can arouse your heart tremors, making your whole person soaked in tenderness from the inside out, Just like drinking alcohol, you will be so intoxicated that you can't extricate yourself. No matter how many principles and interests you talk about, it will not help you get out of your feet.

Maybe a bystander thinks you shouldn't love this person, but that person is more suitable for you.Even you think so, you say to yourself: Why should I be in love with this person so hard?How much pain this feeling brings; that one also has feelings for me, and he is not without merits, so I should transfer my love for this person to that person. So, you do just that, determined to divert the object of your love. But you toss and toss, and the last tormented heart is still on the first person.Only then did you clearly see that for you, the first person is absolute, and no one can replace him in your heart.

Some people say: When two people love each other, the other person is the sun, the air, and the water, everywhere. When the two face each other, it is as if they own the whole universe, and their hearts are filled with happiness.Even if they are not together, he is also in your life.When you see beautiful flowers and read good books, you will think: How wonderful it would be if he saw and read them too!Walking through the mountains and rivers, or watching a good movie, you will also think with a little regret: what a joyful thing it would be if two people traveled together and enjoyed it together!

Love makes people miss each other, you will miss it when you are alone, and you will miss it even more when you are in a crowd, and you will have an unstoppable longing: If there is him or her among them, it would be great!Listening to a beautiful serenade, or looking up to see the bright moon hanging high, the beautiful moments spent with your lover will come to your eyes immediately, sad and magnificent, picturesque and poetic. Feeling a little unexplainable sadness. This kind of sadness is not a superficial groan, but as Bernard Shaw's famous saying: "Love is a kind of spiritual burning emotion produced by the beauty of the opposite sex." Also as Plato said: "When the god of love pats you on the shoulder , even a person who does not know what poetry is, can suddenly become a poet."

The beauty or vulgarity of personality can be best displayed in the field of love, and the spirit of sacrifice is also most needed in love.People in love are brave.When his loved ones encounter distress and misfortune, he will stand up, even if his own strength is limited, he will not shrink back or stand by and let his loved ones suffer independently.One of the qualities of true love is that when you are loneliest and in pain, that is when she or he stands closest to you, speaks most sincerely, and acts most considerately.He is sincere and caring, never hypocritical and playing some cunning tricks.You have total affection and trust in Him and know that you are loving and being loved.Even if the whole world abandons you, you will not be lonely or sad, because someone shares your fate, and you will not be far or near because of your success or failure.If your lover can't give you this sense of security and can only give you icing on the cake, it means that the love is not perfect enough.

The spirit of sacrifice in love is a manifestation of noble personality, and a pious and noble dedication to love, which is completely different from self-deprecation, self-abuse and self-deprecation.In the field of love, two people are equal, and there is only one reason for giving affection: that is, there is true love.Intercourse with the opposite sex because of pity, sympathy, or other reasons is another behavior that has nothing to do with love.One of the most terrible phenomena in love is self-humiliation.A person who can shame himself is always in love, and fully reveals his poor character.I remember a female colleague who used to call herself a "dog" when her husband courted her, "As long as you love me, I'd rather be a dog for you." Those who listened felt disgusted.

Friends, in the world of love, two people who really love each other, the telepathy is interactive, and there seems to be a tacit understanding in the dark.You miss him, and he is missing you; you are sad for lovesickness, and he is also suffering for missing.The so-called tacit understanding is the most magical and wonderful feeling in love. Don't blame, don't blame the pain of love, the pain in love is because love is too sincere, too obsessed, too greedy and too strong a sense of responsibility.