Chapter 7 Chapter 7: Love is a kind of happiness

Loving someone is a kind of happiness; being loved is also a kind of happiness. So for love, no matter how you pursue and experience it, your initial desire and ultimate goal is the yearning for happiness. Because the meaning of love is to make those who love each other full and happy. Happiness is a feeling, a state, and an atmosphere. It is difficult to explain clearly, and the reason is clear, let alone asking others for advice.Because even if you look through all your lives, it is difficult to find the answer you are satisfied with.Whether your love is happy or not, only you can know. The happiness seen by others may be just a necessary episode in your love life, which is superficial and lacks eternal value.Eternal happiness has already been deeply rooted in your blood and has become a force that supports your life all the time.

Those who are capable of a brilliant life may not necessarily be able to have the happiness of love throughout their lives.Because this kind of happiness does not only depend on personal wisdom and sweat, the key is to find the other half that corresponds to you.In true love, understanding and tacit understanding is a kind of happiness, and parting and caring are also a kind of happiness. Even those unspeakable helplessness and misery are always shining with the brilliance of happiness. Love always creates bipolar experiences for people—happiness or pain. Although the two are expressed in different ways, they are closely connected, making love ups and downs and meaningful.

Anyone who has happiness undoubtedly has the courage to face up to pain, bury pain deeply, embrace pain, and vent pain; he has the measure of not sinking or languishing in pain; he has the ability to find and refine happiness in pain.When you are in love, you must understand: facing pain is a kind of cultivation of love, burying pain deeply is a kind of perseverance of love, venting pain is a kind of magnanimity of love, embracing pain is a kind of persistence of love. Since the pain of love is always included in the happiness of love, if you have neither happiness nor pain in your love, it is because you have not loved enough.The pain brought by love is profound, and the happiness brought by love is a thousand times, ten thousand times deeper than the happiness brought by other things.

With your love, I get the excitement I never had before; with your love, many of my experiences are eclipsed; with your love, I don't know what else is missing; with your love, I feel the weight on my shoulders all the time ;With your love, I can understand more deeply what happiness is... Really, in our love, if it brings you more pain than happiness, please, please accept my sincere apology, and please believe that this is definitely not my original intention. But you toss and toss, and the last tormented heart is still on the first person.Only then did you clearly see that for you, the first person is absolute, and no one can replace him in your heart.