Chapter 15 Happy to spend a small amount of money

For things like "money", people often have a dissatisfied mentality. Isn't there such a catchphrase: "Money, the more the better." The so-called "more" is unlimited, but "good "But it is very specific, especially, spending money to make a "good" feeling "good" mood is not determined by the amount of money.As the name suggests: money is spent, and "money" is of course the basis.But "money" is passive, and the word "flower" is active, and it is also the word "flower" that is particular about it.The same money, different people, different ways of spending, the function and meaning of "money" are completely different.

It should be admitted that people like me who make a living from writing cannot be very rich or have no money. Therefore, when I spend money, I never spend a lot of money, but I never shrink back.My principle is: thin water flows for a long time, and let the "fine water" flow with relish and enjoyment.For example, when buying clothes throughout the year, I don't pay attention to famous brands, and I don't like fashion. The standard of choice is that it is unique and suitable for me.Of course, to achieve this goal, relatively more time and energy are spent on shopping. Fortunately, when doing "shopping", it is often because you are too tired to write, or you are in a bad mood and cannot continue to write. So, I took a little money and went shopping alone. I had no purpose or task. I just walked around and had a look. Once I saw something I liked, cheap and good, and bought the same thing, I was very satisfied and walked. On the road, I will take it out from time to time for self-appreciation, and try it on or try it out immediately when I get home. If the effect of trying it on and trying it out is excellent, the momentary satisfaction and joy will make the bad mood suddenly clear, and the nervousness of writing And fatigue, will also be relieved and adjusted after spending a little money so effectively.It is really worthwhile to exchange a small amount of money for a great mood.Be good at using your mood to spend money, improve your mood after spending money, and make "money" and "love" complement each other. This requires a good attitude towards life.

Happiness with a small amount of money can probably also be classified as "poor happiness".The so-called "poor and happy" is often used as self-deprecating.But I think that being "poor" can still be "happy" is a rare mentality.Of course, the so-called "poor" does not mean being so poor that you can't get rid of it, but relative to "rich".Although it is impossible for me to experience the feeling of being a rich person, I am imagining that when a person is so rich that he can buy anything he wants, he will lose the pleasure of "buying", because the pleasure of "buying" is It is often because our purchasing power is just right, or if we save enough money to save money, if we can still meet the opportunity of discount, we can save a few extra money, and then use the saved money to give more money. When you buy something for yourself, the acquisition of this item makes you happy like receiving a gift.I think this kind of happiness means "poor happiness". This kind of happiness does not lie in owning something, but in the process of "buying".

I care more about the process of buying things, and I don't really like people giving me things, even though the things they give me are often more expensive and more advanced than the ones I bought.Especially household items and items I wear, I think I should buy them by myself, because there is always a distance between other people's eyes and your requirements, and, in the process of buying an item, after careful selection and repeated comparison, You have poured your energy and emotion into it, and this kind of thing is not just the thing itself-this is the joy of "spending a small amount of money", "spending" the feeling and emotion other than the thing.