Chapter 6 A good woman lives younger

It is a common psychology for women to be afraid of getting old. Adding a trace of gray hair and one more wrinkle will make a woman secretly worry.And carefully uncover the mentality of "women are afraid of getting old". The "worry" we see, to put it bluntly, is worrying about not being young anymore.Women no longer seem to be "female" when they are no longer beautiful. Furthermore, what love and being loved can there be?What else is possible to love and be loved?However, even if women are no longer young, deep down in their hearts, the desire for "love" and the fear of "not love" are still the themes of their lives.This is an eternal theme.Therefore, for the "worry" and "worry" that are no longer young, people will subtly become negative, gradually lose their aggressive spirit, reduce their enthusiasm for pursuit, and even less positive.Upward vigor.

However, for some men who are no longer young, what they get is often such praise and affirmation: "the most mature. The most successful. The most attractive and the most understanding of life." They are still full of ambition and still have a good sense of self . Life isn't fair, and there's no reason to, that's the reality. In the face of reality, what is important is self-knowledge and self-awareness.And different awareness and different understanding will produce different mental states and different life pictures. In fact, middle-aged women are the most proud.While working like men, women also bear children.After raising children, they not only have a reflection of their own value, but also have the creation and completion of life, which is really a lot of hard work.With such experience and gains, there is no reason for middle-aged women not to be confident and proud.When they evaluate themselves, they should also be full of affirmation and praise for themselves.Their "no longer young" should also be commented on with compliments such as "the richest. The fullest. The most aftertaste".

Self-praise and self-affirmation are really essential.I believe that a person who doesn't know how to love and cherish himself will never be loved and cherished by others.Whether you love or not, there are conditions, and there are thousands of things, the most fundamental one: love yourself.Be sure of yourself.Then, it is possible to get the love of others, and have the strength to deal with the unloved by others. In fact, love yourself.Cherishing yourself is the minimum, because to cherish yourself is to cherish life first, and to cherish yourself is to cherish life.Whether young or not, life and life are equally precious to us.It is equally important, and, because "you are no longer young", you should pay more attention to yourself.And loving yourself is a completely proactive thing, a thing that can be completely controlled by yourself. Only by doing this thing well, "no longer young" will show a calm attitude, And your beauty is not age at all.It's not youth, it's not summed up by appearance.Therefore, "no longer young" will not become a problem that makes people worry or worry, because you will not use other people's eyes as a mirror, and you don't need to use other people's "gossip" as a standard to measure yourself, you are free Live freely in your own feelings, and as you age day by day, your mood will remain the same as before, and your value and weight as a human will only increase day by day.

In fact, a good woman really does not have to be afraid of old age, a good woman will really live younger and younger.