Chapter 35 talk about sex

talk about sex Talking about sex is popular now, and it is probably based on Frott's theory, Ellis's proposition, and many records of talking about sex in ancient China.I have no research on this Tao, so I can only speak some layman's terms as an ordinary person (ordinary person, so it is different from an expert). I thought sex was an art, but talking about it was a science, and it was impossible to engage in art with a scientific mind.It is said that when the emperor of the Qing Dynasty got married, he would have to observe the Huanxi Buddha beforehand, but it is not known whether he was proficient in the result. According to the facts, the emperor did not love the queen very much.This may be because the marriage age stipulated by the royal family is too young, and both men and women—especially the man—have not yet become interested in sex, and even still don’t understand it at all.Even folks often get married early, and the newlyweds are almost afraid to meet each other, lest they make a mistake and they will be ridiculed by the other party.Sexual urgency is absent, like eating, eating before you are hungry, of course less enthusiastic, but also less perverted.Nineteen old-style marriages always lead to old age together, even if it is non-marital intercourse, women are willing to stay together until the end.Desperate women are happy. They only have a limited sexual experience, thinking that all men in the world are like this, and they have no other ideas.Men may not be so honest, no matter in ancient times or today, except for a few exceptions, they are probably always more than two colors.After a considerable number of attempts, a man will naturally become rich in experience and skillful, and on the contrary, he can often make his wife docile.It is strange at first sight to see many decent women wholeheartedly serving her frivolous and unfaithful husbands, but when I think about it carefully, I suddenly understand.

But what is the basis of marriage?Nor is it.I heard that many Westerners who are overly superstitious about science advocate that both men and women must have a physical examination before marriage. First, measure the length of the male penis, and then compare it with the depth of the woman's uterus to see if it is suitable. This is too cautious. It's fair to say, but after a woman gives birth, she becomes ineffective, and her uterus will inevitably expand, which is really helpless.All these are the troubles of being a human being, and animals don't pay much attention to this. As long as the spring period is reached, the female and the male, regardless of their age, are different in beauty and ugliness, and whether they have the same ability or not. If you ask for it, you must save the seed.

Somehow, the more civilized and hygienic human beings become, the weaker their body resistance becomes.The same is true of sexual ability. It is said that the savage black forest people are much better than the white people, so no matter how the law punishes them, white women or young ladies are still willing to bribe black slaves.It is said that the Chinese are not too bad. According to legend, the Yellow Emperor had the art of courting women, and there are some people in the world who are proud of having more concubines and are able to deal with Yuru. In fact, we don’t know how, because women from good families often don’t know this level. , and first-class prostitutes are used to pretending to be dead, and they say that they can't bear it, so the men are also complacent, thinking that they have indeed completed their careers, but they don't want to hear what they say in private!

In fact, I thought that only a sex life with real love can satisfy people, and even if there is true love, you should cherish the blessings, don't mix day and night, because you will be numb because of excessive stimulation.Some people often feel that when a new marriage fails and the result gradually improves, it is not due to the improvement of his physical strength or technology, but because he has more contacts and less excitement, so it is naturally not easy to reach the state of madness.Many old couples are like brothers and sisters. You don’t think I’m a woman, and I don’t think you’re a man. Everyone is pleasing to the eye and lives a satisfying life, but there is no sexual stimulation.Many wives do not forbid their husbands to drink at home at night, because he only looks like some husbands after drinking, and he is almost like a father, son, or brother in other days.

Women who are diligent in childbearing often have little sexual desire. Isn't it said that few desires have more children?Sometimes girlfriends talk about sexual experience and so on. Many wives told me that they have never had sexual pleasure, but they have raised many children in pain.But they don't want to have it anymore, because they think it shouldn't be there.The courtesan has already made an exception, and simply seeks some reality, but the sad thing is that reality is not easy to be happy, because the other party is not very happy, at most, happiness is halfway, he gets tired of it, she is also sad, and it ends hastily .

Even for the sake of physical happiness, I also advocate the importance of spiritual love.