Chapter 26 my girlfriends

my girlfriends Women are not enough friends.No matter how good two women are, if one of them is married, "friendship" goes to the grave. I used to have many good friends, but now they seem to be estranged. Some of them are lost because I am married. , and having children, is no longer a "great woman", and it is not enough to talk about friendship with them who have a bright future.As for me, I really never thought that I would divorce my husband and abandon the baby to enjoy the fun of studying leather shoe styles with these female companions. I have never boasted to them about how rich my husband is, how beautiful my children are, etc. ...Just..." Wait a minute, but there is indeed a gap between me and them.

Sometimes I met a few old friends wearing light gray overcoats at the back door of a certain suit on Park Road, and invited me to join the women's clothing meeting for domestic products, and insisted on preparing proposals so that they could be presented in public at the meeting.I had no choice but to decline. They immediately showed displeasure and contempt, and walked away angrily. Sometimes I meet a few women with lofty ideals in cloth shirts and short skirts in the movie theater, and they talk to me about many "whole social issues", but I don't "nod to the stubborn stone", but I have never fought with them, the reason is It is: (1) Concentrating on the movements and expressions on the screen, I would rather live up to the spittle of my girlfriends than let my forty cents be spent wrongly. (2) I am afraid that "eloquence" will startle the seats in the next row, causing it to be written as "death to show off". (3) I am even more afraid that they will comment on current affairs, which will affect myself and be suspected of reaction.As a result, they had to break up unhappy again.

Sometimes a few old friends come to "visit" me. After the work is over, the heart-to-heart talks are not very interesting: they criticize the color of the wooden window curtains in my room, and even my husband's appearance; I want to talk with my heart.Moreover, their opinions are at odds with mine: they think my ivory is much less inlaid on the wood, but in my heart I feel that the durable red sandalwood does not necessarily need to be inlaid with ivory; But I feel that pure white gauze is more elegant; they introduce me many expensive cosmetics, but I hate that there is not enough money in the court; they say that my husband is not fair, but I never like "Mei Lanfang" men ..., having said that, I have to say only what I say, otherwise I will be given the notoriety of "love to wear a high hat".

Sometimes I have also gone to people, and they are writing that men oppress women, and women must hurry up and seek their own liberation. "The saddest thing is," they said, pointing at me: What a hopeful woman, she will completely change after she gets married, and she doesn't even know she has an independent personality! "This kind of new term, I used it as a catchphrase four or five years ago, but now I haven't played it for a long time, and it sounds a bit profound. I mean, husband and wife should accommodate each other and understand each other, don't they? Don't you have a shot, I'll kill you, so you don't have an independent personality? ""Independent personality"? I really don't know where I lost it? Where should I find it now? However, the facts forced me, and I had to go along with saying something like a man's misfortune. I haven't found any traces of my husband's betrayal. But it turned out to be an accident. I tried my best, and the price was only to be said softly, "I have no ambition, and I am willing to be a man's slave!" "

So I felt that I was behind the times, and when I got married, I fell behind the "five" of my girlfriends.I am no longer a "great woman". "Women are not enough friends." My girlfriends sighed in disappointment.