Chapter 11 sympathy after death

sympathy after death The death of Zhang Jinhai aroused widespread sympathy in the society; the death of Su Yizhi caused the director of the Municipal Education Bureau and the Secretary-General of the Municipal Education Association to speak for him; The Soybean Sprouts Association also filed an application for redress because of its tragic death.Human sympathy is great enough, but it is a pity that it is limited to the victim after death. These three people all belong to the class of "little" - Zhang is a shop assistant, Su Nai is a primary school teacher, and Wang is just a peddler. If he is not dead, people will never pay attention to his existence.If the death is neither miserable nor pitiful, people will never pay attention to the fact of his death.Zhang died in today's law arrest room, it can be said that he died at the right time and at the right place.Otherwise, arrest houses are not allowed to publicize it, and newspapers dare not publish it. Although people want to sympathize, how can they start to sympathize?

As for Wu Xiaoniu, the deceased himself was nothing more than a pickle seller, and the person who beat him was no more than a shareholder of Luxihang and his car collapsed. It will not expand, the lawyers will not work hard, and the people in the society will not sympathize with and help his family.Now the problem seems to still lie in Su Yi's case, it can be big or small, let's take a look at the result of the so-called sympathy. In my opinion.Our compatriots are often the easiest to sympathize with others, and at the same time the easiest to lose sympathy quickly. The reason why we are most likely to sympathize with others is that we ourselves are oppressed more, or we have seen more oppression of people related to us. Therefore Compassion springs up when you hear about others suffering from this type of bullying.But why did this sympathy disappear so quickly?The reason is still that I have suffered a lot of oppression, or I have seen and heard that people related to me have suffered a lot of oppression, and I am used to seeing and hearing it. I thought that the so-called bullying and oppression is nothing more than that, so I continued talking about compassion.Therefore, when a person hears someone complaining to him, he always sympathizes, comforts, and encourages him at first. Later, when he calms down, and others have not complained, he tends to encourage others to persuade him, comfort him, persuade him, and say: You have to take a step back in everything, as long as you don't suffer next time, this time will count.If that person is still unwilling to calmly endure the loss after hearing what he said, then that person will be annoyed and bored, saying that I have also suffered this kind of bullying and oppression.In other words, everyone related to me has experienced it, we can bear it, why can't you?At that time, there was no comfort, encouragement or persuasion. On the contrary, I felt some sympathy for the oppressed and bullied person, and felt that the oppressed and bullied person was indeed a bit too that, and his being bullied and oppressed somewhat deserved it. Bar.

If Ms. Su Yizhi refused to take poison and died after being humiliated, how would people treat her? Ms. Chasu beat Liu Sheng's palms, but on May 18, she was slapped on the cheek by Liu's mother.Afterwards, Liu's mother went to school every day to insult her, saying that the school was a hall, that Ms. Su acted as a guide at night, and that at around 4:00 p.m. He was abused, and the crowd ordered him to kill him. Fortunately, he rescued the male teacher.That night, when Principal Yu came back, his colleagues complained according to the situation. Yu Jing was also afraid of the situation and shook his head, saying that he could not find a proper solution. So Ms. Su swallowed a large amount of poison and died in the early morning of the fifth day.

In this short piece of news, if there are no mistakes in the record, I believe that the first responsible person is Mr. Yu Jiexiong, the principal of Sacred Heart Primary School.Liu Sheng was only twelve years old. After being beaten on the palm of his hand, he had to cry to his mother. This is Chang Qing.Liu's mother listened to her son's words, and took her son to the school to interrogate the teacher regardless of the situation, and slapped Ms. Su on the cheeks several times.But no one in the whole Sacred Heart Elementary School came out to help Ms. Su negotiate with her, or sue her husband Liu Runsheng, or report to the arrest house directly, so that the shrew will be punished once, which is strange.

Afterwards, the woman came and scolded her every day for a week, and took away several elementary school students. Only one Ms. Su intervened and asked to be released, which puzzled me even more.Could it be that the female teachers of the school are afraid of slapping Liu's mother, and the male teachers are afraid of calling her a prostitute or a turtle?When Gan took away the pupils in the afternoon on the 4th, if Ms. Su did not dare to go out because of the previous experience of slapping her cheeks, how would the school deal with these pupils? ——Let him go?Or should Ms. Su be forced to take the risk of being beaten and be responsible for chasing it back?

Liu Runsheng is just a clerk in the Baojia Office, but the principal Yu Jiexiong shook his head and said that he could not find a proper solution. I wonder if he is really afraid of small forces?Or are you deliberately dodging and blaming Ms. Su for being troublesome?It is unbelievable that a dignified principal of a primary and secondary school would be so afraid when he met the wife of the clerk of the Baojia office. If this interview slaps you, the principal himself, would it be like this to save trouble?From my point of view, I’m afraid it’s for Ms. Su’s primary school teacher who costs only fifty yuan a month.

As for whether Ms. Su should punish the palms of primary school students, I am not a person who eats education. I don’t know whether it should be judged according to the order of the Ministry of Education, whether it should be judged according to the school’s school regulations, and whether it should be judged according to educational theory. I only know that if Ms. Su made a wrong call, Mother Liu can negotiate with the school, and there is absolutely no way to slap her on the forehead and scold her as a guide; Feel ignored.Seeing that Ms. Su didn't die on the night of being slapped on the cheek on the 18th, but on the night of the 4th day when the headmaster shook her head and said that there was no proper solution, it can be seen that she is under the nine springs, and most of her soul still hates the latter.

If Ms. Su is not dead, and Mrs. Liu Wenshu still comes back to scold her every day, I believe other teachers will laugh at her for being ignorant of current affairs and not knowing how to protect herself wisely; Peaceful.As for other primary school students who have been reprimanded or failed to score in capital letters practice, they will naturally clap their hands and laugh. Teacher Su has met the right person this time. We will ask our mother to slap you in the future. How dare you accept the booklet from us? ? — Woohoo, sympathy! However, Nushang Su finally passed away, she was only twenty-four years old, no wonder she felt world-weary.If she could read more ancient books and know that Han Xin would also be humiliated in the crotch, or that Lou Shide had the virtue of resignation, etc., then the slap on the cheek this time is just a good lesson for her, and she will treat her students in the future. You don’t have to interfere with your weekly homework, and don’t intervene when elementary school students are kidnapped by shrews. If the principal returns to school from abroad, seeing that you, Ms. Su, are safe with the students, I will naturally believe that you are a good teacher.

The proverb goes: once you suffer a loss, you learn to be good once.To put it bluntly, to give some texts, it is: without experience, without wisdom.This is a philosophy that slaps people on the cheek. However, Miss Su finally died. Today I read the newspaper and learned that Principal Yu of Sacred Heart School invited all the teachers and more than 30 primary school students who were taught by Ms. Su during the autopsy. I cried, and there was no one in the coroner's office who didn't praise Ms. Su for her gentle mood, her kindness and loveliness, and so on. Sympathy is seen after death. I wonder if Ms. Su's closed eyes can be opened again?

She may say, "It's a pity that your tears come out too late!"