Chapter 10 lustful and jealous

lustful and jealous Sex is lustful, and jealousy is also sex; the first "sex" seems to refer to men, and the next "sex" is more closely related to women.Therefore, this is the reason why the husband should be disciplined, and the reason why the wife finds it more and more annoying. These two "sexuality" seem to be of great value for discussion. I have seen many married men cursing their marriage, saying that they are controlled by their wives and have no freedom. Today you have to change into a suit, so I insist that you are going to a secret appointment, and tomorrow you will be with a stranger on the tram. The woman sat side by side for two or three minutes, and then she said nonsense that you were trying to gain profit, which made you tremble all day long, lest you say something suspicious.If by accident, a sentence about women is leaked in the middle of the chat, you have to listen carefully, and you have to apologize repeatedly, and finally go to a movie or buy something with her.I don't know how many miles I suffer spiritually, professionally, and financially every day. "The gain outweighs the gain in getting married!" All the married men cursed bitterly.

I have also seen many married women cursing their marriage, saying that their husbands have changed their minds. When they go home every day, they either criticize the food for being unpalatable, or complain that the house is not well organized; But waltzing on the floor, or saying something like: "Such a dancer is so charming!" "Such a star is the most voluptuous." "Hey, who is better, Miss A or Miss B?" It seems to be exciting enough to say that.When he saw his wife's face changed, he became flustered: "I don't have any ambitions for them, so what does it matter if I talk about it?" How can you be happy if you do it?—Besides, since you don’t go to the dance hall, how do you know who is sensual and who is addicted to soup?” Changed!changed!The husband is no longer praising himself, he is praising other women, he is paying attention to other women instead of himself, so let's find a job and seek self-reliance. Is there any more leisurely job in the world than a young mistress?I just found it, isn't it a vase? "Marriage ruins a woman's happiness!" Married women are all troubled in the family.

There are indeed many men in the world who are troubled by their wives' jealousy; there are indeed many women in the world who are troubled by their husbands who are too lustful.From this point of view, it seems that the two "natures" are both extremely sinful and absolutely undesirable things. However, there is still a difference in fact: Duke Huan of the former Qi was lustful, while Guan Zhongyun was harmless to tyrants; There are also two beauties for company; the rest are too numerous to enumerate.Therefore, it can be seen that if a man wants to pick a few women who have it, his status and identity will not be affected at all: a gentleman is still a gentleman, a saint is still a saint, and a hero is still a hero; not only will people not attack him , and even cited it as a good talk.But what about a woman's jealousy?But it absolutely cannot be compared with it; jealousy is one of the seven outs, and it is definitely a provision set down by the sages, that is, to give you an "extrajudicial favor" when it is implemented. After Dugu, such as Chen Jichang's wife, and many stories about nurses in history, it always sounds strange and harsh.Now, although the great wheel of the times is constantly moving forward, some people still hum about the high-profile theory of "jealousy is a woman's virtue", but under the sign of "social openness", jealousy does not constitute Article X of the Criminal Law. The crime of "exiting" always sounds unattractive. It is art for the husband to hold the dancer's slender waist tightly with his right hand, and it is also a proper communication even if he often goes to the back of X flower X; "We are completely friendship! "How can you oppose him? Besides, you haven't brought tens of thousands of dowry money in compensation. To keep your husband from socializing is to hinder his career; to hinder his career, you and your children will have to starve."

As a result, many wives became annoyed, and they simply didn't feel happy eating jealousy, so they used their own methods to deal with their own bodies. You can socialize publicly, but can't I socialize publicly?This time it's your turn to be jealous.But this stupid method of revenge can only make the men sneer.Is it a goddess or a god who adorns the streets of the night?Are the dancing girls or gigolos lined up around the dance floor?Is it women or men who attract the masses with their hues and sex appeal? ... An old man in his seventies can dance, kiss, and sleep with a sixteen or seventeen-year-old girl in his arms, but a woman in her thirties and forties is already a frail person, and it is difficult to find a partner.lustful?I had to watch the man's patent.

Even if you are jealous, you have to let the man do it: It is said that in the past, if the husband caught a woman cheating with others, she would kill her with a knife, otherwise she would have nothing to say.But men are just the opposite of women. Being an eye-opening turtle is not only a virtue, but a pre-emptive thing.Tang Zhongzong raised money for Empress Wei, which was cited as a joke through the ages, which shows that it is necessary for men to be jealous.Even in the current Iadiesfirst era, it is easy for a man to be jealous, and the public opinion in society is willing to help him, and he can kill you as long as he cuts off your financial supply.The reason why today's men are not known for being kind and jealous is nothing more than because most of their wives are locked at home, and there are very few opportunities to make them jealous, so they get this unexpected reputation."

In short, the current situation is that women rarely have the opportunity to be lustful, and they can't make you as jealous as possible; while men want "it" to be "good", and want to be "jealous" to "eat". I remember that there was an Empress Wu Zetian in the Tang Dynasty—that is, the Jinlun Emperor of the Great Zhou Dynasty—who was widely selected for her lust and also regarded as a forbidden businessman because of jealousy, and she was not allowed to get close to other women. This case is an unprecedented example.It can be seen that lust and jealousy also have qualifications.Consecration and persuasion to ladies with insufficient qualifications: just let your men be lustful and hinder their careers, and don’t give up your responsibilities because of jealousy, so that in the near future, those who enjoy the rights of lust and jealousy will be transferred. The original moral standards in society will also change accordingly.