Chapter 3 male and female

male and female According to ancient customs, childless is one of the seven children. As a wife, no matter how good your character and speech are, if you can't bear a son, according to the law, you have to be kicked out by your husband; Grace is mighty", if you can't bear to force the order to return, you have to find out quickly, after persuading your husband to take a concubine, you hide in the good name of "not jealous" and watch your husband sleep with another woman with tears in your eyes.On the contrary, the situation is different: the mother is more valuable than the son, if the son becomes the emperor, you are the Queen Mother; to put it mildly, even if the son is an idiot, as long as he knows how to have sex, your husband’s ancestors will never be Ruo Ao Ghost, you are also a hero in the X family.

However, having daughters is different: one daughter and two daughters can be forced, three daughters and four daughters are enough to be annoying, and if the number is more than "four", the mother will suffer!There is a poem ridiculing the birth of a girl: "Last year, I recruited clouds to make tiles, and this year I recruited tiles again; here and there, there are tiles, and it turns out that Lingzheng is a tile kiln." Therefore, it is good for women to get more Zhang; If it becomes a tile kiln, it is better not to do it! If you don't believe me, please go to the "big social stage" to observe: If there are two sisters-in-law, one has four sons and the other has four daughters, how will the parents-in-law be treated?How is your husband feeling?What is the attitude of relatives and friends?If they are both newly widowed women, what is the difference between those who are able and those who have no children? ——

Society evaluates the value of women: "losing money!" As a money-losing product, but actually produces a small money-losing product, the crime is unforgivable and clear!Labor pain, abdominal pressure, narrow escape, the pain during childbirth cannot be relieved, and the lottery is drawn on the spot, a dumb firecracker!God?Fate?Who do you blame?He stared dully at the faces of the crowd, and the forced smiles couldn't hide the disappointment. "Well, flower first, seed later!" "I will give birth to a little brother next year!" "Girls born first can be raised with peace of mind, women are always cheaper."

"What a pretty doll, come and hug my younger brother." "Big and small. We will eat your red eggs next year when you give birth to a son. Ha, ha, ha..." Neighbors Mrs. Zhang Si, Aunt Wang and others winked and went away.All that remained in the room was the miserable smile of the mother, the livid face of the mother-in-law, the bored look of the servant, and the croaking of the baby. It is a woman who gives birth, and it is a woman who is born, and it is also a woman who despises a child.The woman who gave birth felt sad, the woman who was born felt (?) uncomfortable, and the woman who despised the birth was trapped in the pain of disappointment.The woman who gave birth hated the woman who underestimated the child-bearing woman for embarrassment and turned her anger on the baby girl who was born. Infant—although it has the name of "Qianjin" and "Zhuzhu", it cannot have the reality of "Qianjin" and "Zhuzhu"! Is it too fine?Is the "egg" too much? Girls have knowledge, and they are as good as Darwin?

A girl growing up in a state of being disappointed and hated has her own characteristics, and the tool to express this characteristic is the girl's "fang name": positive meaning, there are those named "recruiting younger brothers", and those who "lead younger brothers" Yes, there are those who "come to have a younger brother", but "having a younger brother" is more refreshing.On the contrary, there are four daughters in a row who are all ranked by "chun", and the fifth daughter is called "chunhui".There are also those who intend to use the word "Fen" in the name of their daughter, but finally reject other choices, fearing that "Fang" will follow "Fen".

In the world, there are concubines who give birth to four daughters in a row and want to have a son. It is not known that there are four sons who want to get a female concubine.Today men and women are equal, although there is a clear law, but a certain man has no children and does not take concubines, everyone admires him because he is "different"; if he wants to remove the "crime of giving birth to a woman" in the "customary law", he treats Is the Emperor Ming coming back to life? Men want wives, not their own wives to make wives for others; if the power of science in the future will make it impossible for men to be women when sperm and eggs meet, then the supply of "wives" will be in short supply in the future.Or ask God to open a tile kiln, which can prevent patriarchalism and also suffer for women, with immeasurable merit!