Chapter 2 Girls' Education in my country

Girls' Education in my country I am a highly educated woman and I know what education for women in my country is all about.Strictly speaking, there is no so-called girls' education in our country; all the facilities in the school are designed for boys, not for girls.Needless to say, this applies to coeducational schools, but girls’ middle schools and colleges for girls, aren’t their curricula exactly the same as boys’ schools or coeducational schools?But generally those who claim to be new women are very happy, thinking that this is equality between men and women. I used to be happy, but now I have some doubts: Boys can receive the male education they need, and girls can also receive the female education they need. Is this called equality?It is considered equal if girls are educated by men just like boys.

Boys have five or six hours of Chinese lessons every week, and of course we follow suit.But what are Chinese textbooks?The first type is ancient prose, which are all about the events of men’s society in the past, such as ministers being demoted to be loyal to the emperor, generals fighting hard on the battlefield, celebrities drinking on a moonlit night, noble people resigning from office and coming back, talking about family life with their wives, concubines, children and servants, Playing with mountains and rivers... This kind of thing is interesting and interesting, and the meaning is not bad, but it doesn't have any personal feeling for us.Others, such as scriptures, are of course written by men, needless to say, even if there are occasionally one or two female writers, such as Master Cao, they still speak for men.But this is not surprising, because what they read are men's books, and what they use is the words created by men. In the society of men in the past, women could not say what they wanted to say.As for the second category of so-called new literature?I'm sorry, but it was written by men for men, because it is still a man's society.Although they also talked about women's issues, advocated equality between men and women, and demanded independence and freedom for us, it is another matter whether what Daixiang Dai said can fully meet our innermost needs.So I dare say that the girls who read this kind of article must still be men's vassals in their thinking.The standards of right and wrong in their hearts follow men closely, they dare not think what men don't think, and they don't dare not think what men think, and they don't have their own ideas about anything.So I don't like what a female writer wrote: "Men and women are equal! Let's go to the battlefield together!" If they are willing to talk honestly about the hardships of marching during menstruation, it sounds reasonable.

When it comes to mathematics and science, it is a waste of girls' energy. Sometimes they think too much, and it even harms their bodies!I graduated from an ordinary middle school, and I have studied algebra, trigonometry, plane geometry, solid geometry, analytic geometry, etc., and I have suffered a lot for them.Although it has been eight or nine years since I have not met them.But usually as long as I feel a little strenuous, I will be doing math exams in my dreams at night.I know that there are many girls in the engineering department in universities who cannot study. Even if they must study for the sake of winning, it is useless to study.In this way, why are we still struggling to accompany men to study mathematics?

In school, there are many other unnecessary courses, but girls have to learn them all.In fact, a woman’s youth is very short. When her memory is at its best in her teens and twenties, her energy is wasted by messy homework. After her twenties, her memory declines, and she has to learn what she wants to learn. And what should be learned is half the effort.Therefore, there is a phenomenon in the education field at present, that is, in elementary school, girls are better at homework than boys; in middle school, they are evenly matched, but boys have the upper hand;There are two explanations for this phenomenon: one is that girls' intelligence matures prematurely, and after a few short years of puberty, they will die.It is said that the students in elementary school were still young, and the difference between men and women became apparent.In the future, the table is more obvious, the homework standard is set according to the boys, and the girls can't keep up.No matter which of the two is right and which is wrong, it is always justifiable that women's education should not just follow the example of men's education.

The most ridiculous thing is that when we were in middle school, there was a subject of family affairs, which was an elective subject and was taught by a female trainer.At first, the school stipulated that girls must take this subject, and boys could do whatever they wanted.But later, because it is easy to cheat credits, boys signed up to take it one after another, and the number of them reached more than 70, which is unprecedented for other elective courses.As for the girls, they think that the school's statement that they must read a sentence is an insult to women. It is said that it is optional, so why is it necessary?So I sent a representative to question, so the school withdrew the order, and the girls listened to me. As a result, I was the only one among the girls who chose to study family affairs.The reason I choose to read it is because I am really bad at it, and I want to really learn some common sense such as sewing and cooking.Unexpectedly, on the first day of class, the female students surrounded the doorway of the classroom tightly, and there were countless fluffy and long-haired heads shaking on the windows.And in the classroom, I was the only one sitting among more than 70 male students, so I felt a little unnatural. The eyes from outside the window and the door were all projected on me, sneering, whispering to each other. I don't know what to talk about.They must be laughing at me for being shameless and flattering the school, I think, or they must be laughing at me for not being ambitious and looking down on myself for choosing this family department.Even today, because I am not good at handling housework, a few female classmates from the old days laughed at me when they saw me: "You have chosen housework, why don't you even know these things?"

From this, I infer the reason for the failure of women's education in our country: it is not that no one has thought of the need for differences in women's education, but because they dare not speak up if they think about it, and there is a danger of being questioned and reviled if they say it.And even if someone said and did it, the women themselves would not believe him and obey him.If someone obeyed him by chance, she would have to suffer the ridicule of her female companions and cause trouble out of nowhere.The result is that girls' education is included in boys' education, or there is no such thing as girls' education at all.

As a woman, you are educated by a man, but after you are educated, the society asks you to behave like a woman. The failure is certain.As far as I am concerned, education, education, I really suffer from it!If I had no education at all, I might be much happier than I am now. Compared with the boys at the same level, my grades are not ashamed, but now they have all succeeded, but I have failed. This is in terms of academic career.Because they can concentrate on the academic career, but I have to take care of my family.But what about the family?They are still mostly happy; if they are unhappy occasionally, it has nothing to do with their education.But for me, my loneliness, it was education that killed me.

We all know that the first purpose of education is to produce useful talents for the needs of society.Therefore, if the society needs doctors, there will be medicine in schools; if the society needs teachers, there will be teachers in schools, and so on.After being educated, those with a medical background can become doctors, and those with a teacher education can become teachers. This is called learning and being able to adapt to the needs of society.But what about us?The society needs us to be wives and mothers of children, but there is no department of good wives and good mothers in the school, teaching us how to be wives and mothers, what should we do?I dare say that in all the courses we have learned in elementary school, middle school and college, there is no one that can guide us how to raise children, not even the common sense of childbirth, but we must have children and raise children!

Some people may say: That man has never studied the subject of good husband and good father, so what should they do?This is not true.Because being a husband and a father is very convenient, as long as you earn a few more money, you don't need to learn any special skills.In other words, they can use what they've learned to make extra money so they can comfortably be husbands and fathers without having to learn any special husband and father skills.But we are different: algebraic trigonometry cannot be used to calculate the aunt's side dishes; history only tells us the origin of the race, but does not tell us how children are conceived, how they are produced, and how they grow up!Yes, maybe I got it wrong and got involved in physical hygiene.But I took a physiology and hygiene class. We were in the same grade. When the teacher talked about the bladder, the boys all smiled at the girls and made fun of them with ugly words, so the girls were all red. The face ran away, and I dare not listen to the next chapter on reproductive organs. Everyone would rather skip class, which made the teacher helpless. They had to delete the chapter on conception and pregnancy, so we don’t even have some common sense about these things .But it doesn't matter if the boys don't have it, the fetus doesn't grow in their stomachs, and it's the women who suffer!Housewives still account for the absolute majority. The way out for women in our country is to be wives and mothers. How can they not learn some skills of being wives and mothers to adapt to the environment?

I was married at the age of eighteen, and I got married without having learned the skills of being a wife or a mother, and soon raised children, so I suffered a lot.At that time, I only knew that if two people got along well, they could get married, but who knew that once they got married, it would be fine.To get married, you must have the knowledge and skills to get married. I don't have it, and neither does my husband.But he didn't have to worry about it, he didn't have to house the house, he didn't have to raise children, and even the sole responsibility of providing money was borne by his big family for him.But I have suffered so much!The ancients said: There is no one who has adopted a son before marrying; I think that before a woman gets married, she should really learn how to adopt a son.Moreover, contraception is also very important. Women's education should not only teach people how to "raise", but also teach people how to "not raise".

In this way, women's education seems to refer specifically to the education of good wives and loving mothers, which is equivalent to the Japanese bridal school. It seems that there is no need to learn anything other than flower arrangement, curtain matching, room decoration, etc., and that is not the case.In my opinion, real women’s education can be divided into two types: one is prepared for women who use marriage as a profession, and it specifically teaches them the skills of housekeeping and raising children, which is equivalent to other vocational training so that they can use what they have learned in the future.The other is that in addition to teaching them to learn various vocational skills like boys, or enlightening them on a path like boys so that they will be engaged in some kind of academic research in the future, they must also be taught some common sense about housekeeping and raising children. Because women who are engaged in professional or academic studies always have to get married and raise children. In the current Chinese society, men can concentrate on their professional or academic studies and leave all the housework and children to their mother-in-law. Women are not so lucky My lord is here!Moreover, such things as production cannot be obtained by others, so one has to know something.Unless she is a woman who will never marry, she can receive the same education as a man, but in the physical hygiene class, she has to explain the chapter "Hygiene during menstruation" to her in detail, so don't let her listen to it. When it came to the chapter about the bladder, the boys laughed so hard that they ran away. That's the luck of girls' education!