Chapter 62 Reputation

Good reputation and bad reputation, human nature, beyond reproach. The open-minded people in ancient times advocated disregarding reputation and praise.On the other hand, I hold a different view, and I advocate that reputation should be put aside.Disregarding it may indicate that one is open-minded, but I am a little worried that it may indicate a person's confusion or embarrassment. I advocate careful analysis of reputation and reputation.First of all, we must distinguish: who destroyed you?Who honors you?at what time?where?For what reason?These situations are not clear, and we only talk about praise and reputation, which is at least a little vague.

I remember reading a story in some notebook.A person's most beloved person has only one eye.So he felt that everyone in the world (except those with one eye) had an extra eye.Can such a reputation be relied upon? In addition, we often talk about "the same parties fight against differences", and "like-minded people" and so on.Can such reputation be believed? Zilu, a sage of Confucianism, "rejoices when he hears about it", which has been passed down as a good story from ancient to modern times.I can't do it at all, and I don't want to do it, because I want to analyze: who said it?at what time?Where?For what?After the analysis is over, decide on "Ze Xi" or "Ze Anger".Hi, I don't overdo it.I am angry, and I will not be furious and burst into anger.Confucius said: "Yezai, Yuya!" Probably Zilu is a rough character, without the twists and turns in his heart like I mentioned above.

I have had a rather unusual experience myself.I don't know that there is a certain scholar in the world. I didn't know about his existence in the past, but he has a grudge against me.Because, the position I occupy now, he thinks should belong to him, and it is my "dove" who has occupied the "nest" of his "magpie".Therefore, Boran was dissatisfied with me.I was kept in the dark for a long time, and finally someone gave me some insight.I don't know that there is such a thing in the world, so I can only laugh it off.What else?I want to apologize to him, but I can't find the slightest reason.

In the vast world, all living beings have different endowments, different genetic genes, and different living environments. Therefore, everyone's outlook on life, world outlook, values, likes and dislikes, etc. will not be the same, and will be slightly different.For example, when eating, some people like spicy food, some people like salty food, some people like sour food, and so on.Another example is dressing, some people like red, some people like green, some people like black, and so on.In this case, it is better for each to be his own way than to be wronged by others.As the saying goes: "Everyone sweeps the snow in front of his own door, regardless of the frost on others' roofs." This sentence is originally a bit derogatory, and we can use it properly.Everyone will have friends and "non-friends". I don't use the word "enemy" to avoid misunderstanding.Friends, it is inevitable to be famous; non-friends, it is inevitable to be ruined.When encountering such a situation, it is best to adopt the analytical attitude mentioned above, and do not generalize and make a mess of porridge.

For many years, I have had a "good" wish: I am good to everyone, and I want everyone to be good to me.We only hope to have a reputation, not to be ruined.It dawned on me recently that that is simply not possible.If there is a person that everyone says is good, this person is likely to be an extremely smooth person, so smooth that a glazed ball can grow a foot. On June 23, 1997 at Tongren Hospital