Chapter 10 talk about death

"I want my brother to write a letter to my mother, and write down what I want to say to my mother. I hope to write it down while he still has memories of his mother, so that he can read it when he grows up, and keep his mother in his heart forever..." After waving to the relatives who have traveled far away, turn around and hug the relatives around you! keep mom in my heart forever Today is grandma's birthday. So Dad moved the things on the table early in the morning, put two vases of flowers first, and then put grandma's photo in the middle.Then the father-in-law, mother-in-law, father, mother and you bowed three times in front together.

It has been three years since my grandma passed away. Just three years ago this evening, my 93-year-old grandma left us forever. The Chinese call the birthday of the dead "Ming Birthday", and call the day when the ancestors passed away "the day of sacrifice".Dad thinks that the memorial day is more important than the death day, because on the day grandma was born, I hadn't come to this world; on the day grandma died, your mother and I were both in bed. The same February, the same 18th, also has the same cold winter and short sunshine, and even the desolate scene on the road is the same as three years ago.Therefore, the memorial day enables us to recall the scene at that time better, and enables us to return to the sadness of the year.

Right! Back to the sad days.Sometimes we have to let go of the bad past, and other times we have to relive the broken heart. Not long ago, I received a letter from a high school girl in Malaysia. Her mother died and her younger brother was only six years old. Do you know what she wants her younger brother to do? She asked her younger brother to wipe away her tears and write down her feelings at that time . "I want my brother to write a letter to my mother, and write down what I want to say to my mother. I hope to write it down while he still has memories of his mother. I can read it when he is older, and keep my mother in his heart forever..." That The girl said so in a letter to me.

I was crying while reading her letter, and immediately wrote back to her, saying that since I lost my mother not long ago, I can feel her grief, and I am even more surprised that at her young age, she would think of a way to ask her brother to remember her feelings . Therefore, the "day of sacrifice" is also a "day of recording", which is a day for us to deepen our memory of the dead.As the years go by, when our impression of the deceased gradually fades away, if we can use every memorial day to think about it, the memory will last longer. Dear daughter! When you pass by grandma's photo, stop and look at grandma! It was taken on the steps of the Capitol during grandma's trip to DC.She was eighty-eight at the time, and she could walk quite well, and you see! How happy she was smiling.

Also use this day to look for the shadow of grandma in your mind! Just like the little boy in Malaysia, when grandma died, you were too young, I am afraid that the memory will become more and more blurred in the future, so you should take advantage of grandma's death before three Years, trying to deepen my impression of grandma. Think about how grandma loves you; imagine how grandma pushes your crib to her room with her mother-in-law every morning to take care of you; moment.Think about it too, that day, you just got into the car and cried bitterly. Of course, I don't want you to cry again.The days of tears are over and we have moved on from bereavement.It's like we roll up our sleeves and look at the scars of previous injuries.The scar no longer hurts, but it can remind us of the moment of injury, and remind ourselves to be careful next time.

Dear little girl, do you know what to tell yourself? It's when you can't keep your grandma, and when you're sad that your grandma passed away, you should think about having your parents-in-law in front of you, or even think about having your parents by your side, and take advantage of the opportunity to get together with us more. I'm afraid that we will be separated later, let's get together more today! After waving to the relatives who have traveled far away, turn around and hug the relatives around you! This is what you should really learn on grandma's day!