Chapter 9 the second part

Learning is your own business, not something you "show" to the teacher, nor is it dedicated to "repay" the teacher or "revenge" the teacher; even if the teacher has a bad impression of you, you should still study hard, and even say that you You should work harder to prove your goodness and show it to the teacher. talk about teachers and students Wouldn't it be too sad if your study depends entirely on whether you have a good impression of the teacher? Learning is your own business, not something you "show" to the teacher, nor is it dedicated to "repay" the teacher or "revenge" the teacher; even if the teacher has a bad impression of you, you should still study hard, and even say that you You should work harder to prove your goodness and show it to the teacher.

hate teacher Today you came in after school, and I asked you if you were happy at school? You said happy, but your tone was not as enthusiastic as usual.Then I heard you talking to your mother in the kitchen, and kept saying "I hate! I hate!" I asked you what you hate, and you didn't answer, and your mother spoke: "She doesn't like the gym teacher." Then you lose your temper, stomp your feet heavily, and say you hate the PE teacher. "Students hate the teacher, what if the teacher hears it?" I said. "Heard it! Every one of our classmates has a teacher who hates it, and everyone talks loudly in the hallway."

"Why do you hate the physical education teacher?" I asked again. "Because he is too aggressive and always throws the ball to me directly. I am afraid that I will hit my eye and I will not be able to catch it." I laughed: "So how should we concede the ball?" "You should throw it on the ground first, let the ball bounce, don't throw it directly." Omg! Boy, this is the first time I've ever heard of hating a teacher for throwing the ball undesirably.But when I asked if any students liked this teacher, you said yes, those who are particularly good at sports, and the teachers looked at them differently.Then you said to yourself, in the music class, the teachers are very kind to you, and you like the music teacher.

Now I get it! You don't like the gym teacher because the teacher doesn't give you special treatment. The question is, is your physical education good? If you are not good, why should the teacher treat you special? If you sit in the "principal first violin" in the physical education class like in a symphony orchestra, can the teacher not look at you with admiration? Also, will you not behave well and cooperate with the teacher because the teacher doesn't pay special attention to you, because you don't like him, and the result will be a vicious circle, and the teacher will dislike you even more?

Children! Everyone wants to be valued by others, but that "getting" should be "earning", not inexplicably forcing others to look at you with admiration. I made the same mistake when I was a kid, when I was in the sixth grade, and the art class was taught by a new young teacher.He didn't know that I was the best drawer in the class and didn't give me a special courtesy, I was like "Oh my god! I'm so good, why didn't you find out? And said I was wrong here and there." So I also hated that teacher and passively resisted that teacher. As a result, you know? I was the only student in the class who was beaten by the art teacher for not doing my homework well.To this day, I can still remember the surprised eyes of the whole class when I stretched out my hand and was punished.

Moreover, that year was also the worst in my life in art, and the least progress. You said, what good is this hostile attitude towards the teacher? There are too many examples of grades plummeting because of disgust with teachers. I used to be in the "Youth Counseling Center" in Taipei, and students often came to say that they hated the teacher, so they regressed. The wonderful thing is that those students are often the top performers in the previous year, as I was in fifth grade.He performed outstandingly in the last school year and was favored by the teachers, so he wanted to be a "privileged student" in the next year as well.When the next year's teacher was not special to him, he felt left out, from hating the teacher to passive resistance and not working hard.

Of course, the opposite is also true— There was a student who had poor grades in the previous school year. In the next school year, his tutor was a good friend of his mother, who paid more attention to him. He also worked hard for the sake of face, and he was able to jump from the middle ranking in the class to the next school year. Several former.It can be seen that the "teacher's impression" will have a great impact on learning. It's just that if your study depends entirely on whether you have a good impression of the teacher, isn't it too sad? Learning is your own business, not for you to "show" to the teacher, nor to "repay" the teacher or "revenge" the teacher. Even if the teacher has a bad impression of you, you should still study hard, and even say that you You should work harder, prove yourself good, and show it to the teacher!

Finally, let me tell you a story—— There was a student who didn't like the English teacher, and said everywhere that he hated the English class and the teacher. He studies passively, and of course his grades are not good. The more the English teacher has a headache for him and always scolds him, the more he hates the teacher. One day, the student's father heard that his son hated the teacher again, so he asked, "How is your English?" "not good." "No wonder you hate the teacher, because you can't learn well, so you use hating the teacher as an excuse." The student's father said, "You can hate him, but you have to be good at English. If you say he hates you, people will listen, otherwise they will just hate you." Said you are sour grapes, right?" Then he asked his son, "Dad will find you a tutor who will teach you English, and he will teach you very well. How about that teacher?"

The child listened to the truth, so he worked hard to learn English, and his grades also skyrocketed. At the end of the semester, the father asked the child again: "You are good at English now, you can criticize him severely, and you can even go to the principal to sue him for not teaching well." Unexpectedly, his son smiled: "Father! Not only do I not hate that teacher, but I like him, because he treats me better and better, and he even called me up yesterday to praise him!" Good! My story is over. Do you want to play tennis with me tomorrow? Do you want to drop the ball with me?

But let me tell you first! My ball is also thrown to you directly. I will not throw it on the ground first and then bounce it in front of you.