Chapter 2 Everyone's private world

Tell you some true stories. In the third grade of junior high school, a classmate of mine read pornographic novels in class, but the teacher found out and confiscated the novels. Then, I happened to have something to look for that teacher, and when I went to the office, I saw that the teacher was working with his head bowed. I was afraid of being disturbed, so I walked to the teacher quietly. The teacher suddenly found me standing in front of him, startled, closed the drawer with a bang, stood up, sat down again suddenly, and asked me in a deep voice, "What are you doing here?" His face was swollen and red. It turned out that he had opened the drawer halfway and was peeking at the pornographic novel hidden inside!

He didn't say much, just waved me off. It's just that from then on, when I ran into that teacher's class, I was so nervous that my palms sweated and I didn't dare to look at him.Every time I unfortunately met his eyes, I felt his hatred eyes. I almost failed that subject. When I was in graduate school, a classmate of mine had a falling out with his fiancée.He was not wrong at all, but for some reason his fiancée suddenly alienated him. Seeing how pitiful he is, I will ask your mother to come forward and talk to that girl. The girl said that her fiancé was indeed right, and that he made the mistake of giving her the keys to his house.

One day, she helped her fiancé go home to fetch things, opened the door, and suddenly found her future father-in-law sitting naked on the sofa, watching pornographic videos. She was so scared that she quickly backed out.It's just that I don't dare to face her future father-in-law and mother-in-law anymore, and I don't want to face my male classmate—her fiancé. They finally separated, and because your mother and I kept this secret for her, I believe that until today, the male classmate didn't know what happened. Do you know why I tell these two stories? Because you said that you often see your classmates gathering in small circles to whisper, but your ears are sharp and you know what they say.

So I ask you, does it do you any good to hear every word they secretly say? You have to know that the bigger a person is, the more hidden his inner world is.If you install a bug in everyone's house, you will find that what everyone talks behind their backs and what they say in front of them may be a thousand miles away. People are jealous of each other, the greater the competition, the deeper the knot.Especially when you are your age, everyone starts to form cliques, gathering like-minded friends together, and rejecting "not like-minded" people.You think you know everyone's privacy, everyone who rejects you

, and also let the other party know that "you know what's in your heart", is it good for you? wrong!Just like the story I said earlier, it is only possible to push the distance between each other further. Take a step back in everything, just like in the army, even if everyone is holding empty guns, knowing that there are no bullets in them, they are not allowed to point their guns at people.Because I am not afraid of 10,000, just in case, there used to be inexplicable incidents of bullets appearing in empty guns and killing people. Child, do you notice that every time I go up the stairs, or pass your room, I put my feet on my feet?

Because your desk is by the window, your back is facing the door, and you always open the door, I'm afraid you will be frightened. Moreover, you have grown up, you have your own world, and you may be secretly surfing the Internet to watch what you want to watch, I "don't want to find out" and "don't have to find out".So I should give you time to jump off the things on the Internet. "Before entering the room, raise your voice first", the ancients have long said so, which means that before entering the room, make a little noise so that the people in the room are mentally prepared.

You'll soon be graduating from high school and entering university residence halls.Shouldn't you "raise your voice" before moving around the dormitory or entering someone's room? I hope you can remember what I said today, and leave some private space for yourself and others in the future. This is the art of life that everyone should understand.